Asking to Become Exclusive: Always her job?

[xv2000]

A lot of people say that Don Juans should never ask to be exclusive, and that we should just wait until they ask. In my experience, girls always wait for me to ask to become exclusive because they believe its the guy's role to lead the relationship. Question is: Is it ALWAYS her job or are guys sometimes expected to initiate exclusivity? In the event I actually want a relationship, its annoying having to wait for HER to make a move; i feel like a chick.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Its a guideline. Nothing is always.

 

[mrRuckus]

If she's not asking, she's not interested enough. You as the man should be expected to be able to control yourself.

 

[xv2000]

If she's not asking, she's not interested enough. You as the man should be expected to be able to control yourself.

I disagree. I have had several girls tell me that they were waiting for me to ask to become exclusive, once I got tired of waiting and did it myself.

 

[I'm in the Mood]

If you're a Don Juan, you do what you want. So if you want to be exclusive, just ask. Many Don Juan choose to practice their skills and keep improving and improving, so in that case you wouldn't want to be tied down by a relationship. If the girl is obviously attracted to you, then there's no problem with asking her to be exclusive. If you're not sure about her level of attraction though, you have two options. Ask her, find out where you two stand, and either become exclusive or move on. The other option is to run some of your game on her and increase her attraction to you. They both work in theory.