asking hard question

[messier6]

What is a DISCREET and INDIRECT WAY to ask A FEMALE FRIEND IF SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND?

 

[Igetit!]

What is a DISCREET and INDIRECT WAY to ask A FEMALE FRIEND IF SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND?

It's already over with.


Why are you trying to be all undercover and discreet? If you're SCARED to ask her outright,then you have fear. And you can't constantly be around her having fear inside you without her picking up on it sooner or later.



And when she senses it,it'll make you appear unconfident,which'll be a turn-off for her.



If you want to date her,just ask her out. You'll find out immediately if she's already seeing someone or not.

 

[bigneil]

Just assume she has one and refer to him in third person - like "What does your boyfriend think of that?"

Then, if she says she doesn't have one, it's a good sign. If she says "I don't have one but that was smooth" it's an even better sign.

 

[Iceberg]

I honestly don't think I've ever asked a woman if she had a boyfriend.

If she's a female "friend", then ask her out for drinks. No need to be nervous about it if you're already friends. Once you have her out one-on-one, you'll find out if she's into you or not.

Or, if you really NEED to ask, then just ask. Why be discreet about it? You think she'll get mad if you ask about her relationship status? You think she'll get mad if you hit on her?

 

[handle]

She'll tell you if she feels it's necessary.