Ok, so I was talking about my clubbing experience with a few of my co workers in front of hot coworker C. And hot co worker C was like, oh I wish I knew about that I love going dancing and stuff. So I kind of teased her a bit, but she was like let me know when you go next time.
Later that night we go out as a group to a bar, on her way out she asks for my phone and puts her number in. It means nothing to me though, she's the troublemaking flirty type that flirts with every guy. And for that reason I'm not emotionally attached to her or am not set on making her a gf. But I want to use her for target practice. Reserve your comments about this being a coworker, I work in a young hip environment where everything goes and we don't work too closely with one another.
I've failed with this type before as they are the most difficult and like to manipulate guys. But they do form relationships with the skilled ahole type. I want to see what I can do when there's a fresh slate knowing way more now then ever before. And I've had a year of success with less difficult girls.
Fast forward to today and she shoots me a message inviting me to meet her at a club tonight. Who knows if she's going alone or not but she knows the DJ.
If I were to be my old self and fail at this I would simply say yes, go and probably find her vying for the attention of every other guy there and end up being disappointed that she doesn't take to my advances.
I'm almost thinking I should not go and say some other plans came up long story and make her wonder... She knows I'm single but no more detail than that. I want to make her jealous or more interested somehow. I could also leverage the fact that she's not number 1 on my list. More like number 3.
Some advice would be appreciated... I'm actually pretty excited because the power is still in my hands with this.
Thanks,
-ngdonjuan
Later that night we go out as a group to a bar, on her way out she asks for my phone and puts her number in. It means nothing to me though, she's the troublemaking flirty type that flirts with every guy. And for that reason I'm not emotionally attached to her or am not set on making her a gf. But I want to use her for target practice. Reserve your comments about this being a coworker, I work in a young hip environment where everything goes and we don't work too closely with one another.
I've failed with this type before as they are the most difficult and like to manipulate guys. But they do form relationships with the skilled ahole type. I want to see what I can do when there's a fresh slate knowing way more now then ever before. And I've had a year of success with less difficult girls.
Fast forward to today and she shoots me a message inviting me to meet her at a club tonight. Who knows if she's going alone or not but she knows the DJ.
If I were to be my old self and fail at this I would simply say yes, go and probably find her vying for the attention of every other guy there and end up being disappointed that she doesn't take to my advances.
I'm almost thinking I should not go and say some other plans came up long story and make her wonder... She knows I'm single but no more detail than that. I want to make her jealous or more interested somehow. I could also leverage the fact that she's not number 1 on my list. More like number 3.
Some advice would be appreciated... I'm actually pretty excited because the power is still in my hands with this.
Thanks,
-ngdonjuan
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