Asked her out - got an odd response.

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So i asked this plate out via facebook after she told me to add her.

I asked her when she was free next week.

She replied: Hello.

I didn't expect that. What is this? A rejection? I don't fancy repeating the question. what would you advise?

 

[VladPatton]

You reply:

Hello. And ask her again to make it clear. No yes or no = a delete.

 

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You reply:

Hello. And ask her again to make it clear. No yes or no = a delete.

You don't think that deserves immediate disqualification? She's a bit of an airhead by the sound of it but it's not like she's illiterate. Don't you think she's evading the question to let me down softly?

 

[MillionBillionaire]

I would get her number and ask her out via text to screen for interest a bit.

She read your text.

 

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I would get her number and ask her out via text to screen for interest a bit.

She read your text.

I already asked her out on the phone. That was when she told me to add her on facebook as she didn't know what I looked like. We have already established a solid rapport over the telephone.

 

[G_Govan]

I wouldn't give chase. Her non-response is a soft rejection.

You've already put in the necessary work.

 

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I wouldn't give chase. Her non-response is a soft rejection.

You've already put in the necessary work.

I'm going to go with this because I don't feel comfortable asking that question again. I agree an evasion of the question is either a soft rejection or a sh!t test.

So no chase from me. Plus we all know what girlies do with messages they get. They show them to all their girlie friends, don't they?

 

[G_Govan]

They do. It's a bit like their version of the notch count.

 

[nismo-4]

Because she ain't interested.

She wouldn't give this odd response if Channing Tatum asked her for a date. And you wouldn't give that odd response if Katy Perry asked you for a date. It's either gonna be a yes or no. Anything other than a yes is a no, and even a yes needs actions to back it up.

OP, this evasion of the question shows her interest in you, and lack thereof. Delete her.

Case closed. Exit my courtroom.

 

[sylvester the cat]

Agreed. Delete

 

[TheGambino]

We ain't Channing Tatum Nismo..

Bro maybe shes trying to point out, say hi first make a small talk or some sh1t anyway it doesnt seem like she has high interest.

you could reply with some funny comment about her or just say hey whatsup and check out if she replies, make a little chit chat and ask her out again. why do you care about the 'chase'

if she doesnt replie within a couple of hours delete her

 

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We ain't Channing Tatum Nismo..

Bro maybe shes trying to point out, say hi first make a small talk or some sh1t anyway it doesnt seem like she has high interest.

you could reply with some funny comment about her or just say hey whatsup and check out if she replies, make a little chit chat and ask her out again. why do you care about the 'chase'

if she doesnt replie within a couple of hours delete her

Hmm. Doubt it. I asked her out, she evaded the question. I'm not going to waste my time chit-chatting with her and give her the chance to show all her friends what a nice new orbiter she has. I've already deleted her. I feel like amon goethe.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RoTl2K0T4Aw&bpctr=1402778862

 

[TheBossman]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RoTl2K0T4Aw&bpctr=1402778862

Anyone else have problems getting that to play?

 

[TARKUS]

So i asked this plate out via facebook after she told me to add her.

She is not a plate. Plates bang you. They don't reject you.

I didn't expect that. What is this? A rejection?

What do you think? She evaded your offer twice.

That was when she told me to add her on facebook as she didn't know what I looked like. We have already established a solid rapport over the telephone.

I Don't think it was as solid as you think unless your FB pics turned her off. How would she not know what you look like?

 

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She is not a plate. Plates bang you. They don't reject you.

Yes. Potential plate.




What do you think? She evaded your offer twice.

Yes. I see that now.




I Don't think it was as solid as you think unless your FB pics turned her off. How would she not know what you look like?

She had seen one picture of me. She calls my agency for work so we talk on the phone quite a bit. But as I provide a lot of work for people I get a lot of people who talk nice to me.

My responses in red. She's deleted now. End of.

 

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OK - since deleting her, we've been in regular contact cos she gets nursing shifts from me. But anyway, she's now asking if I have a girlfriend. I say 'might do' and then she goes on about if we're going to get married. I say 'might do. If I do you can be the bridesmaid' and all that Sh1t. She called again today and again is talking questioning about my relationship status.

I'm mostly just playing it cool. Deffo not initiating any meet up. Leaving that to her. Wise choice?

 

[The_411]

Her response screams I'm not interested. As Nismo said if she was really interested in you she'd know who you were and perhaps she'd even know too much about you. Saying hello is confusing and doesn't make sense, which falls exactly in line with the idea that a girl who is into you won't confuse you..

 

[Albatross953]

Everything I've seen here says " I want you to orbit me".

Feel your pain though I have a first date, went for a kiss and got the granny lips special. You cannot win them all.

 

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YET ANOTHER reason to NEVER EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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add a woman you want to bang

On Facebook.

She told you to add her, and just couldn't wait to get home and send that Friend Request.
She's got you by the nards, and she knows it. You are now one more Beta Orbiter she gets to lead on.

By her replying with 'Hello', she is inviting you to remind her who you are. The worst thing you can do is reply with "I'm XXXXX from XYZ."

Men....quit begging these women to remember who you are. Quit playing their games. And that's precisely what she's doing. Playing a childish game with you.

Delete her from Facebook...and your universe.

GMMR

Umm. Did you read my latest post on this subject?

OK - since deleting her, we've been in regular contact cos she gets nursing shifts from me. But anyway, she's now asking if I have a girlfriend. I say 'might do' and then she goes on about if we're going to get married. I say 'might do. If I do you can be the bridesmaid' and all that Sh1t. She called again today and again is talking questioning about my relationship status.

I'm mostly just playing it cool. Deffo not initiating any meet up. Leaving that to her. Wise choice?

Since I deleted her she's recently been asking questions about my relationship status. Asking if I have a girlfriend.