Asian girls!

[Krassus]

I've got a taste for asian girls. Yep. Japs and Philipino girls in particular. So are there any particulars that i need to know about them? Anything that sets them apart from the rest? Anything i should be doing differently?

 

[The GunslingeR]

Well they like tall guys, I know this and they are always horny.

 

[Krassus]

Two factors that are DEFINITELY in my favor! LOL!

 

[oskiano]

I'm dating a Chinese girl right now. Many Asian women value education, manners, subtlety, and all of that, and especially family.


Don't talk a lot about Asian culture or any of that. Just play it like you would any one else, but be alert to cues she may give you about education, family loyalty, manners, that kinda thing.

 

[Krassus]

Originally posted by oskiano
I'm dating a Chinese girl right now. Many Asian women value education, manners, subtlety, and all of that, and especially family.


Don't talk a lot about Asian culture or any of that. Just play it like you would any one else, but be alert to cues she may give you about education, family loyalty, manners, that kinda thing.

Yeah, i've got all of that down. I know that treating an asian girl as an ASIAN GIRL is a bad idea. One thing though, i noticed you mentioned manners. I understand that manners in general are valued, but how about something like profanity? Tasteful profanity if there is such a thing How do they see that?

 

[jakethasnake]

How about asking an Asian GUY instead of a whiteboy who's had his **** in an Asian girl or two (no offense, oskiano...)? Dumbass....

Don't settle for cheap Mr. Miyagi imitations - ask the original Sensei.

 

[T-4ze]

Coming from an asian male, many of the asian girls these days want to be rebellious against the "traditional asian person" which means they try to steer away from their parents' values and such. But this onyl goes for like half of the asian population, the other half is still stuck in the old traditional ways

Asian girls also like big fish in their sea, 6-inchers and up and they'll ride you all night. As for profanity...theres no generalization of it, everyone is different, some asian girls are ghetto and swear every other word, and some don't know any 4-letter derogatives.

And3 Baller!

 

[Krassus]

Right, so you're basically saying that half the asian girls are nothing like the other half of asian girls? That helps

 

[T-4ze]

Exactly!!! Well there is absolutely nothing in between, they ARE pretty much one or the other. As for girls of other ethnicities, there may be 5 general types. Sorry I wasn't very helpful...ummmm asian girls are somewhat independent that they pay their own ways, and respect is one of the greater values that they carry and cherish. This is going for normal asian girls, 'cause well the really hot asian girls should be treated the same as any other hot girl of any ethnicity

 

[killerasp]

man....someone after reading the thread title, i knew jakethesnake would have something to say about it.

 

[bludb0i]

the thing about the azn ladies is that if they good girls then you strait gotta play good with them. but then the bad girls a strait players. they got there game down and are high maintenence and think they all that. I would recommend on finding the good girls but if you want a the bad ones they are good as fukk buddies.

 

[Shiftkey]

Don't talk a lot about Asian culture or any of that.

I don't see why not. I've had an Asian girlfriend (me being your typical white guy) and she didn't seem to mind the occational question. However I only asked if I was genuinly curious, it was never to build rapport or any of that crap. Most of my questions were about food, we went to a lot of Asian restuarants

But for the most part I treated her the same as any other girl - she pretty much acted like any American girl.

 

[jakethasnake]

Originally posted by killerasp
man....someone after reading the thread title, i knew jakethesnake would have something to say about it.

Hey killerasp! How's my white-washed Korean brother doing?

 

[jakethasnake]

Btw kraussus,

I would say that the above were pretty spot-on assessments of Asian girls. What have we established here?


1 - a sincere question about her Asian culture is good. Don't be random... let that question stem from a discussion about different world cultures, or food, or movies... something like that.

2- There are two types of Asian girls: those who are repulsed by whiteboys, and those who like them a lot. There's no inbetween (That's the way it is, my brother. ).

Many of these types claim that they are "open-minded" and don't shut out any race of men, but that usually means they'll only date white, if not Asian. It's a way of masking their own internalized racism.

I have to agree with 4Tze in that other races of women - white women for example - have MYRIADS of different types. Some like Asian guys, some are indifferent, some don't like us at all, some just like athletic/artistic/funny/cute/whatever guys of any race period, some just want "something different" but black guys are "TOO different", etc.... but with Asian girls, some might want you just because you're white (they are damaged goods... **** them hard ), and some won't care if you're hot... you're just not Asian enough for them. All the rest (your personality, money... status, etc.) are just perks.

 

[Kibblez'n'Bitz]

I'd just like to add my 2 cents to the Asian chick philosophy.. More or less of what's been described of them is pretty much true. I have to agree that there is really no middle ground with the types.. Either pro-Caucasian or pro-White. I myself am Caucasian and have a preference for mainly Asian females. However, from my experiences with them (only 'as friends' of course), they do indeed play up this front about how important family, education and so forth is to them...But news flash-- if one plays his cards right, he WILL score, just like with any other females..

I unfortunately could not say the same for myself because of course then I was still a major AFC. I was always so considerate and somewhat passive at times which I'm sure was a real plus in their books NOT. I dated a few in my time and the very last time that was I out on an actual date with one and a date with any girl at all for that matter, was about 4 years ago. She was Korean, a co-worker (big mistake there-- will explain later) and an average rating of 6-7 I guess.

We dated for about a month and nothing of ANY SORT ever resulted... No intimacies whatsoever.. Then we just kinda drifted apart and not talk to each other for awhile. She then shortly after quit her job. Then, I hear from an informed source at work that one known pr*ck co-worker who already seemed to have some ties/relations with her had already apparantly been seeing/f-ing her. It has been going on for who knows how long.. Personally, I wasn't that surprised and I was disappointed/annoyed with this b*tch, but she already had quite a bit of issues that needed straightening out... and it was then that other co-workers who knew what was going on of course telling me "You just needed to be more aggressive" and I was like f**k that.. What's more, you know the funny thing about her, even though I liked her, but of course never approached her first, she approached me! That's what I could always take with me knowing that I didn't have to do a damned thing. I never even talked to her to begin with but she came up to me one day and asked me out on a date. I guess there's bound to be some chicks that are keen on certain guys that they may like not paying attention to them. She was however the only one who ever approached me.

Anyways, my point being that despite she's Asian, she still wanted from what it seems to have some guy just aggressively rock her world.. And I did want to.. But, be that as it may, it's pretty hard to do anything when she tells me over the phone crying that she's been raped and whenever we went out, she always wanted to go for a drink.. I don't know what is it with that bs rebellious attitude. I definately learned some things even then, long before the plethora of stuff that I learned on here. That being, to not be some dumb-f**king chump and stand your ground like a man, not a jerk though. I never EVER digged that attitude cause that simply isn't morally right.

I've said enough, you all could wake up now

 

[T-4ze]

Originally posted by jakethasnake

2- There are two types of Asian girls: those who are repulsed by whiteboys, and those who like them a lot. There's no inbetween (That's the way it is, my brother. ).
[/B]

This is exactly how it is and this is what I meant when I said that they are either traditional and stick to asian guys, or they are rebellious and want to date white guys. When they date white guys a lot of time I get the sense that they have even larger shields of *****-osity when they look at me, as to say, "I'm tired of the Asian stuff, my guy is what Asians aren't." But I ain't no typical Asian anyways, I'm 6'2, nicely built, half of the asian chump guys in my city could not equal the backbone that I have, and in bed I have been told that my magic stick is 7-9 inches, I've never measured but I guess girls can feel how deep it gets. An average asian male's penis is what these days? 4? Sometimes I feel that asian girls USE white guys as a physically enhancing tool just to get more looks. (Like using make up, mascara, etc..) That's somethin to think about

Very VERY rarely will you see anything else, maybe twice have I've seen asian girls date black guys, and NEVER have a seen asian girls date hispanics.

After the age of 17-18 they start to get tired of that whole asian pride crap, that's why a lot of them turn to white guys. Most asian guys aren't mature enough to handle them, and that's a fact. When they date white guys, their mentality is that they are tired of asian men because:

Insecure
Short (height and...the magic stick)
Tied too closely with Asian culture
Pu$$ie$
Immature

In any case asking about asian culture is fine if it comes up with the conversation, it shows you're interested in her background. But I believe that whoever said "don't talk about asian culture" I think they meant not to use it as a conversation starter.

And3

 

[chlywly]

I've never slept with an asian girl let alone dated, one I'm really interested

 

[seloifter]

hmmmm, nice post

I myself and particularly attracted to asian girls, however, being a culturilist, I know a thing or two about the situation....

first of all, I have to disagree with the popular statement that "half azn girls are rebellious and date white guys, the other half are traditional and only date other azns, there is no in between" that's bull. Just like any other race, there are all sorts of different varieties of asian girls.
I have seen an azn girl in a LTR with a hispanic guy.
I've seen azn girls that are traditional, yet will date white guys.

It's true that alot of asians are rebelling against their parents and heritage, but most of them (at least not the ones I know.... and I do live in a heavily populated asian area) don't rebel to an EXTREME extent..... they just don't want to learn the language and simple things like that.....

generalizing asian girls into two solid groups and saying "all asian girls fit into one group or the other" is stupid. There are uniquenesses in every asian girl, just like any other race.

And yet, somehow..... every one of them remains exotic and hot.... mmmmmmm

 

[Krassus]

I agree, there is no possible way that absolutely every asian girl could belong to one group or the other. I think that what they mean is that a great majority of them do, yet of course there are always exceptions.

 

[STR8UP]

Originally posted by T-4ze
Sometimes I feel that asian girls USE white guys as a physically enhancing tool just to get more looks. (Like using make up, mascara, etc..) That's somethin to think about

So if I'm dating an asian chick she might be using me as an accessory? Never been compared to a Gucci handbag before. That's pretty funny....

I started a similar thread awhile back cause I didn't know what I was in for.

So far she isn't any different than any of the white girls I've been with. She was born outside the country but is about as apple pie as they come by now.

Being that this is my first asian experience I don't have a means of comparison, but if she's as Americanized as mine is there isn't much difference.