article: Rise of the 30-something women who have NEVER had a boyfriend

[MatureDJ]

The 30-something women who have NEVER had a boyfriend

Sarah Brill, 34, from Hertfordshire, Anna McPaul, 33, from South London and Diana, 32, from Surrey speak about their struggles with modern dating culture.

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[Smooth_texter]

The 30-something women who have NEVER had a boyfriend

Sarah Brill, 34, from Hertfordshire, Anna McPaul, 33, from South London and Diana, 32, from Surrey speak about their struggles with modern dating culture.

www.dailymail.co.uk

This is true, such cases are increasing.

An year ago I was on a first date with a 39-40 year old woman, who said that the longest relationship that she had been into was 2 months. And as an added bonus to that, all women from her friend circle had also not been in LTRs, ever.

For me that's the reddest flag of them all.

 

[Gamisch]

Bs. Every woman had a bf at some time. Sometimes they'll try to deny it ,so they "don't cheat" when they like to monkey branche. But ofcourse she had boyfriends. C'mon.

The sad irony is that as soon as I hear "single for more than 2 years" I know what the fecks up; 304 time.

 

[SW15]

If a woman is in her 30s and has never had a boyfriend, it does not mean that she's lived a life of solitude. A woman who is 34 and has never had a boyfriend likely has a notch count of 10+.

 

[Westminster]

Bs. Every woman had a bf at some time. Sometimes they'll try to deny it ,so they "don't cheat" when they like to monkey branche. But ofcourse she had boyfriends. C'mon.

The sad irony is that as soon as I hear "single for more than 2 years" I know what the fecks up; 304 time.

I would tend to agree. I can't remember meeting a woman in her 30s who'd never had a boyfriend. I'd say that extremely rare.

 

[johnrambo]

The 30-something women who have NEVER had a boyfriend

Sarah Brill, 34, from Hertfordshire, Anna McPaul, 33, from South London and Diana, 32, from Surrey speak about their struggles with modern dating culture.

www.dailymail.co.uk

Perhaps rather more like riding the c0ck carousel than settling for an LTR.

 

[Gamisch]

If a woman is in her 30s and has never had a boyfriend, it does not mean that she's lived a life of solitude. A woman who is 34 and has never had a boyfriend likely has a notch count of 10+.

You forget one zero. Make that 100. Seriously.

 

[johnrambo]

You forget one zero. Make that 100. Seriously.

I would up the body count to 100-500! Imagine a ONS every weekend for 10 years, that's 10 X 52 = 520. This is not out of the question. Even half that number puts it at 260

 

[SW15]

You forget one zero. Make that 100. Seriously.

I would up the body count to 100-500! Imagine a ONS every weekend for 10 years, that's 10 X 52 = 520. This is not out of the question. Even half that number puts it at 260

It depends on a number of factors. A lot of Millennial and Gen Z women White women are a bit socially inept. Some stay home often and the most common outcome on a dating app is "one date, no sex, no second date". A lot of these women are absurdly fussy. While they will have higher notch counts in a lot of cases, many of them won't get to triple digit notch counts.

 

[Gamisch]

I would up the body count to 100-500! Imagine a ONS every weekend for 10 years, that's 10 X 52 = 520. This is not out of the question. Even half that number puts it at 260

This man gets it.

There's a reason why this "never had a bf" phenomenon pops up while Tinder is normalized. Tgatswhy I keep saying, MAKE SURE you do anything within your power to enter that top 20%. Life will become "easier".

By the way, you "only" covered ten years. Op stated woman above 30. So if she's active from 16 to 36..that's easily double those numbers..

Now you see what a PROSTITUTE actually does..12 a day isn't unheard of.

Funny observation : just saw an add fron Hinge. Nextdoor girl talks about how she went on 12 dates, 3 ONS (" because that just happens sometimes hihi") and 1 ltr.

Ofcourse you wont see an add with a man saying: "i had 1 match with a fat 40plus ugly cvnt, zero dates and dod I mentioned I payed for the diamond subscription? "

Thats add made me sad and angry at the same time. Eventually it just enlarges my RP believes even more.

 

[Gamisch]

It depends on a number of factors. A lot of Millennial and Gen Z women White women are a bit socially inept. Some stay home often and the most common outcome on a dating app is "one date, no sex, no second date". A lot of these women are absurdly fussy. While they will have higher notch counts in a lot of cases, many of them won't get to triple digit notch counts.

Nah man. That " 1D,NS,NSD" might happen to men. Women will get D -ed down. If you get to pick one woman from 100,s of woman you'll also make sure she checks ALL of your boxes.

Now remember that fellas...everytime you failed to get noting but the "1D,NS,NSD" it was YOU who messd it up. Probably by going in way to "boyfriendish".

I generally agree with you , but imo your view on this is to old fashioned. I bet they exist, but they are FAR from common.

 

[SW15]

Nah man. That " 1D,NS,NSD" might happen to men. Women will get D -ed down.

I generally agree with you , but imo your view on this is to old fashioned. I bet they exist, but they are FAR from common.

When there's a "1D, NS, NSD" instance, there's both a man and a woman in that equation. In the "1D, NS, NSD" situation, there's a thirsty, average frustrated chump man offering a 2nd date and the woman is rejecting the 2nd date offer.

We agree in general that a woman in her 30s who has never had a boyfriend or hasn't had an LTR boyfriend in 5-10 years has a higher notch count. What we're disagreeing on is the extent of the high notch count.

 

[johnrambo]

This man gets it.

There's a reason why this "never had a bf" phenomenon pops up while Tinder is normalized. Tgatswhy I keep saying, MAKE SURE you do anything within your power to enter that top 20%. Life will become "easier".

By the way, you "only" covered ten years. Op stated woman above 30. So if she's active from 16 to 36..that's easily double those numbers..

Now you see what a PROSTITUTE actually does..12 a day isn't unheard of.

Funny observation : just saw an add fron Hinge. Nextdoor girl talks about how she went on 12 dates, 3 ONS (" because that just happens sometimes hihi") and 1 ltr.

Ofcourse you wont see an add with a man saying: "i had 1 match with a fat 40plus ugly cvnt, zero dates and dod I mentioned I payed for the diamond subscription? "

Thats add made me sad and angry at the same time. Eventually it just enlarges my RP believes even more.

I am being conservative and just estimate ONS occurred in a 10 year period. Even in that case, the body count in beyond imagination.

Yes, a pr0st1tute has even a higher body count. 12 a day is possible, especially in a brothel situation. Say she "works" 3 days a week,
40 weeks per year, that's 12 X 3 X 40 = 1440 tricks. Say 60% of the tricks are unique customers. That's 864 unique tricks per year. A 5 year "career" puts a unique body count of 4320! Totally mind boggling. What are chances that she doesn't have some kind of STD? I am not even talking about HIV (they are hard to catch), but more common STDs like herpes. That goes for the pr0st1tute as well as the ONS club sluts.

 

[Manure Spherian]

Every woman had a bf at some time.

Maybe nearly all, not every. I have two cousins, sisters, one who is about to start college, the other in her early 20's with a career, who've never had a boyfriend, and I believe this is true considering they've never mentioned men and never had men come by their home. My uncle and aunt do not know of such men either. They are permitted to date and my uncle wants the older one to find a man, a good one that is.

A woman in my wife's family, in her mid 20's, highly educated and with a career, does not have a man, and no one knows of a man she has ever spent time with. And like my example above, it's not as if her parents are discouraging her from finding a man. In both cases, parents would like to see marriage and children.

 

[Dr.Suave]

In recent years, I met like three girls who never had a boyfriend before. Their were not in their 30s, they were mid to lates 20s and most of them didnt pass the boner test.

 

[SW15]

I don't think I've ever met a 30 something that had never had a boyfriend. I have met 30 somethings that haven't had a boyfriend of 1 year or longer for many years.

 

[Solomon]

This is true, such cases are increasing.

An year ago I was on a first date with a 39-40 year old woman, who said that the longest relationship that she had been into was 2 months. And as an added bonus to that, all women from her friend circle had also not been in LTRs, ever.

For me that's the reddest flag of them all.

If a woman has never been in an LTR (even if it was just a year) and she is not a virgin most likely she is just getting pumped and dumped by men above her league women like that, especially in their 30s are batshyt crazy and should be avoided unless she is Amish or super religious

 

[SW15]

If a woman has never been in an LTR (even if it was just a year) and she is not a virgin most likely she is just getting pumped and dumped by men above her league women like that, especially in their 30s are batshyt crazy and should be avoided unless she is Amish or super religious

Tech-based dating options have made it so much easier for women in the 5-6.9 range to get pumped and dumped by the top tier men as compared to the 1980-2003 era. In 1980-2003, women would have to spend more time in bars and stay up past midnight to have to that happen.

 

[Slowhandluke]

Tech-based dating options have made it so much easier for women in the 5-6.9 range to get pumped and dumped by the top tier men as compared to the 1980-2003 era. In 1980-2003, women would have to spend more time in bars and stay up past midnight to have to that happen.

Society would also slut shame these women. Average women in the past would also avoid the "players". Today, the male chad is "allowed to be"; he is allowed to plow through average women and society allows women to be run through because "she has to find herself" or "it's just the 'natural' process of dating". Society in general is giving average women too much self-esteem. These women don't know that they are average and ruining their chances of having a decent and happy relationship with a man.

For society to change, fathers and mothers must impart to their average daughter that they are nothing special. SoooOOOOoo is that going to happen anytime soon?? Maybe, but most fathers sees their daughters as their "little special princess". So, it might take a generation or so. After all, if their fathers don't do that, then what usually happens is that their "little special princess" becomes old, lonely spinsters in real life. Obviously, fathers don't want that too.

God made average young women attractive at a young age so they can find an average man. Not to waste their youth chasing chad. Yes, I have met a few young 20's who haven't had a LTR... but I can tell, they have been on a few dates (I'm assuming with Chad who only used them for sex). Situationships are a thing now. Average women being treated badly by Chad in situationships. So yeah, men are the gate keepers of relationships. Average women trying to get LTR from Chad - this isn't going to happen for a alot of average women. Ultimately, that is why a lot of young women haven't been in LTR. There's only so many Chads to go around. They can't give LTRs to every average girl they run through.

And average young men sitting on the side lines asking themselves "what the F.... Rachel?????" But these young men can't do anything about it because slut shaming... telling these young women the truth, etc... That would be misogynistic and anachronistic. 10 to 15 years later, the average women is now burnt out (some with even higher expectations then they started out with). The average man doesn't want her; no families are created.. She's asking where are all the "good men". The average men for the most part are going their own way a little sad they don't have families and kids; to protect and raise.

The feminist on the other hand are laughing all this time, because misery loves company.

 

[MatureDJ]

I am being conservative and just estimate ONS occurred in a 10 year period. Even in that case, the body count in beyond imagination.

Yes, a pr0st1tute has even a higher body count. 12 a day is possible, especially in a brothel situation. Say she "works" 3 days a week,
40 weeks per year, that's 12 X 3 X 40 = 1440 tricks.

Ugh, that's 10 times gross!