Not sure if this helps.
I went through a year of very low sex drive (once a month I felt horny). I also had ED on a couple of occasions - failing in the act. Any man reading this who had this knows the gut renching annoyance this gives to your self esteem.
This was distressing given I was always a rampant pervert before!
i had levels checked and I was always in normal range. I was however, heavily overweight.
I lost the weight and this helped a bit. ED was gone, but still not giving it 3x a week.
Now, what happened next shocked me. I was in a job for 15 years where I did not enjoy the people. I worked remotely but I had a constant battle with 2 employees, and most there I thought were just idiots. I was constantly fending off attacks. Plus I felt held back in my role which was below me.
I took 7 exams and got a much better job.
Now I am in management and the team I work with are super cool and respect me.
My drive increased ten fold. I’ve started being honest with my wife about what I want from sex life (I don’t have dark or gross fantasies thankfully, but she has agreed to fulfil them)
We are literally at it like rabbits now. After 5 years together we are doing it 3-6 times a week (we have kids and a nanny living with us so it’s when we get opportunity basically)
moral of the story is: Test is a funny thing and stress kills it - KILLS IT! Respect and winning expands It like no tomorrow.
if a man is wondering about his test, have a look at your life and ask if you’re happy, aree you stressed. Start driving your life and asking if it’s working for you.
I guarantee that, provided you don’t have a medical problem, you will find that your sex drive and T is linked to whats going on in your normal life.
Now, a lot of the relationship problems with my wife are better. Now I’m showing a real desire for her, she is nagging me less. We are closer.
be ruthless with your life and make it work for you. Have self belief - back yourself.
there’s a reason why women love this personality. You don’t have to be perfect, you don’t even need positive feedback. Just back yourself, believe you can, and the rest of life will be built on that cornerstone.