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The Art Of Seduction
Okay, here it is - the only advice you'll ever need to help you seduce the woman you desire.
All of our relationships are based on power. Be it our boss, co-workers, neighbors or lovers we are continuously trying to gain control over the people around us.
Overtly, covertly, consciously or subconsciously we are constantly spinning our web of influence and power in hopes to better ourselves, it's human nature.
So, you can buy colognes, smile a lot, show up at her house unexpectedly, write love letters, buy more product... or you can learn about it for free, because that's just the way it should be.
Of course the tricky part to any advice is, to listen to it. But secondly, to know when to apply it.
It's one thing to cram your brain with all the "pit bull techniques" required, but it's another to know when to use them.
Experts drone on and on (much like I'm doing now) about first dates, body language or pick up lines... here's some quick advice: sit up, don't slouch. Don't pick your nose, don't lean in too close to her and never ask her if she likes you. Don't ask her creepy questions and always act as if your mother is watching. Done. All the advice you need for a first, second and third date, and all the days in between.
Colognes will not attract a woman to you. It will make her more attracted to you AFTER she gets to know you... or not. But to depend on a smell to get a chick.. what are you chocolate cake?
Love letters creep girls out. If you've been dating for a while, a nice love letter is wonderful; but to get into your feelings after the first week is never a good idea.
Showing up at her door: you've just surrendered your power by going to her place.You have also backed her up into a corner just by showing up unexpectantly. Bad idea.
Now that we know how to behave, let's move on to the matter at hand.. seduction. How do we attract "that person?"
First you must fool the person into thinking that you only are interested in a friendship. When you see them in the corridor at school, or in the lunch room, you must be nonchalant. Say "hello" and go about your business.
This takes patience and willpower. If you have neither, you're phucked. So let's assume you have both...
You never want your "opposition" to know your intentions. It is important to conceal yourself behind a veil of mystery.
Basically don't let on that you like them - never tell them or show them. Reserve all romantic sentiments for much later. Remember, patience and willpower.
It's easy to talk a lot, it's natural for us to want to express ourselves and to talk about our feelings, it also takes control to keep your mouth shut, but you must. So bite your tongue and don't express your true feelings.
If they already know that you are interested, then stop being interested (willpower) Stop going out of your way to say hello or strike up conversation. This will confuse them and they'll stop taking your interest for granted, maybe you were only interested in a friendship...
Feeling any emotion, be it jealousy or dazed and confused is better than feeling no emotion at all.
So you want to confuse your opponent, it means they have interest.
So now you have gone a week or so without showing her/him any extra attention. It is time to start flirting with someone else. It is time to make them jealous.
By talking to other wo/men you instantly become more desirable and it is always more fulfilling to "win you" when others are involved.
You have now stopped paying extra attention to them and have started talking to other people...by this time they are confused and jealous, so it is time to beguile them.
If s/he expects to see you at a party, don't show up (willpower). This will start to create intrigue. Suddenly you're not always available. where can you possibly be and with whom?
Then show up at places where she never expects to see you... (just not on her doorstep)
All this confusion creates excitement. Deep down we may know we are being seduced yet we let ourselves go because it's fun and new. But the moment we are blatantly made aware of what is happening, the moment we are shaken from our daze by an ill-timed "I really like you" the veil drops and our defenses go up. It's as if we become insulted by such a vulgar and obvious display of emotion.
In order to properly engage your opposition, you must be subtle and keep them guessing. In order for someone to follow you, you must bewilder them and keep them confused.
Of course the trick again is to know when and where to apply these methods - it all depends on your age and social settings. You can use school events as your battle ground and if you're older, your office may be your play ground.
The same rules apply, you just need to adjust your frequency to suit the environment.
Confusion, jealousy and deception = the perfect art of seduction.
Okay, here it is - the only advice you'll ever need to help you seduce the woman you desire.
All of our relationships are based on power. Be it our boss, co-workers, neighbors or lovers we are continuously trying to gain control over the people around us.
Overtly, covertly, consciously or subconsciously we are constantly spinning our web of influence and power in hopes to better ourselves, it's human nature.
So, you can buy colognes, smile a lot, show up at her house unexpectedly, write love letters, buy more product... or you can learn about it for free, because that's just the way it should be.
Of course the tricky part to any advice is, to listen to it. But secondly, to know when to apply it.
It's one thing to cram your brain with all the "pit bull techniques" required, but it's another to know when to use them.
Experts drone on and on (much like I'm doing now) about first dates, body language or pick up lines... here's some quick advice: sit up, don't slouch. Don't pick your nose, don't lean in too close to her and never ask her if she likes you. Don't ask her creepy questions and always act as if your mother is watching. Done. All the advice you need for a first, second and third date, and all the days in between.
Colognes will not attract a woman to you. It will make her more attracted to you AFTER she gets to know you... or not. But to depend on a smell to get a chick.. what are you chocolate cake?
Love letters creep girls out. If you've been dating for a while, a nice love letter is wonderful; but to get into your feelings after the first week is never a good idea.
Showing up at her door: you've just surrendered your power by going to her place.You have also backed her up into a corner just by showing up unexpectantly. Bad idea.
Now that we know how to behave, let's move on to the matter at hand.. seduction. How do we attract "that person?"
First you must fool the person into thinking that you only are interested in a friendship. When you see them in the corridor at school, or in the lunch room, you must be nonchalant. Say "hello" and go about your business.
This takes patience and willpower. If you have neither, you're phucked. So let's assume you have both...
You never want your "opposition" to know your intentions. It is important to conceal yourself behind a veil of mystery.
Basically don't let on that you like them - never tell them or show them. Reserve all romantic sentiments for much later. Remember, patience and willpower.
It's easy to talk a lot, it's natural for us to want to express ourselves and to talk about our feelings, it also takes control to keep your mouth shut, but you must. So bite your tongue and don't express your true feelings.
If they already know that you are interested, then stop being interested (willpower) Stop going out of your way to say hello or strike up conversation. This will confuse them and they'll stop taking your interest for granted, maybe you were only interested in a friendship...
Feeling any emotion, be it jealousy or dazed and confused is better than feeling no emotion at all.
So you want to confuse your opponent, it means they have interest.
So now you have gone a week or so without showing her/him any extra attention. It is time to start flirting with someone else. It is time to make them jealous.
By talking to other wo/men you instantly become more desirable and it is always more fulfilling to "win you" when others are involved.
You have now stopped paying extra attention to them and have started talking to other people...by this time they are confused and jealous, so it is time to beguile them.
If s/he expects to see you at a party, don't show up (willpower). This will start to create intrigue. Suddenly you're not always available. where can you possibly be and with whom?
Then show up at places where she never expects to see you... (just not on her doorstep)
All this confusion creates excitement. Deep down we may know we are being seduced yet we let ourselves go because it's fun and new. But the moment we are blatantly made aware of what is happening, the moment we are shaken from our daze by an ill-timed "I really like you" the veil drops and our defenses go up. It's as if we become insulted by such a vulgar and obvious display of emotion.
In order to properly engage your opposition, you must be subtle and keep them guessing. In order for someone to follow you, you must bewilder them and keep them confused.
Of course the trick again is to know when and where to apply these methods - it all depends on your age and social settings. You can use school events as your battle ground and if you're older, your office may be your play ground.
The same rules apply, you just need to adjust your frequency to suit the environment.
Confusion, jealousy and deception = the perfect art of seduction.