arrested for being a male

[jtrain 289]

i just got arrested from school for a girl saying that i sexually harassesed her and the whole school knows about it i didnt even touch but they just said i did i was dancing around her in a sexual way though but didnt touch her. Now iam at home on suspension what do you think the girls will think about me when i get back to school ?

 

[nmartinez12443]

i just got arrested from school for a girl saying that i sexually harassesed her and the whole school knows about it i didnt even touch but they just said i did i was dancing around her in a sexual way though but didnt touch her. Now iam at home on suspension what do you think the girls will think about me when i get back to school ?

F-EM. Next dance make up a story that she did the same thing to you. The girls will probably think your a bad ass. That or wait a few years and throw a brick through her car window. Or do nothing which is fine too.

 

[jtrain 289]

so the girls will actually like what i did? I thought they would think iam a rapist

 

[nmartinez12443]

sue them

sue the school, if it was a dance you should have some witnesses. Make a huge stink. I am a teacher and trust me when parents call bytching it works. Just make a big deal about it and let your parents do the screaming. My bet is though you did do something a little more than your letting on. However, if none of these things work just wait a few years and throw a brick through her front window in her car. As far as you being a badass if the girl is not liked maybe, but if she is popular you could look like a rapist.

 

[jtrain 289]

it wasnt at a dance it was after school and i just started dancing around her moving my hips but i didnt touch her and they are saying that i did touch her

 

[Vypros]

it wasnt at a dance it was after school and i just started dancing around her moving my hips but i didnt touch her and they are saying that i did touch her

Good god, man, use your head.

That's sexual harassment, and it's not "being a male."

Here at work all you have to do is say the wrong thing and it's considered sexual harassment, and you don't think that grinding a girl outside a school is?

Come on, man, seriously, think a little bit before you act.

 

[daygameguy]

Just let people think whatever they want. Maybe you did something vulgur/sexual. Maybe you didn't. The best you can do now is - Be cool. Have a mindset that you didn't do anything wrong, and people will sense that you are secure and confident, and even though that girl fvcked u up, you are not an AFC to start whining and planning on your petty revenge.

Just be cool. At least you are famous. People's perspective of you will ALWAYS derive itself from YOUR perspective of yourself.

 

[Number_One]

its ok, being sexual and freaky is all part of being a don juan

lol, i joke of course

 

[Sandow]

You're probably not gonna be seen in a good way when u get back

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Just let people think whatever they want. Maybe you did something vulgur/sexual. Maybe you didn't. The best you can do now is - Be cool. Have a mindset that you didn't do anything wrong, and people will sense that you are secure and confident, and even though that girl fvcked u up, you are not an AFC to start whining and planning on your petty revenge.

Just be cool. At least you are famous. People's perspective of you will ALWAYS derive itself from YOUR perspective of yourself.

+1.

Just have a strong reality that you did nothing wrong and people will be drawn to it.

 

[TheRealSupreme]

I think this is only the beginning of women fighting back. They don't want nerds and goobs trying to pick em up.

What this kid did was kind of creepy. It was after school not at a night club or dance. You don't do that to another human being unless it's invited.

Which is also the danger of putting this pua so called material or style in the hands of nerds. Nerds have no social connection and do not know when to try to be funny and when not to.

In German a group of PUA's were banned from a train station after they tried to so called SARGE.

In another part of Germany several PUA's were banned from a night club.

On this board we read how a guy was thrown out of 2?? places for trying to sarge by the security guards.

I say it is only the beginning of society fighting back.

Even kids are realizing that it's sexual harassment when it's uninvited.

To the poster I hope you get off lightly. The last thing you want is to have to register as a sex offender. That will ruin your life and future jobs and homes.

Get a attorney and fight it hard. Tell the girl your sorry for acting stupid if that is what it takes and get her to drop the charges.

What ever it takes get out of it. Your too young to ruin your life.

 

[TheRealSupreme]

its ok, being sexual and freaky is all part of being a don juan

lol, i joke of course

In the right place and right time with the right person it is. A few years ago a asian guy in Canada was arrested at a club for bad behavior. I believe he was trying to grind on a girl when she didn't want it. And I am sure he spent a lot of money trying to clear his name.

It was getting bad when women would just ignore puas or spit on them or slap them now they are fighting back it seems.

In 5 years due to this whole Sarging thing I predict it will be really bad. Especially with the so called guru's selling the community out for a tv show.

 

[jtrain 289]

i dont get it like wahts rong wit yhese girls?

 

[Smack]

Lol maybe they'll start putting advice in women's mags:

"Warning, if he says Hi he may be a pickup artist! Other signs include good body language and confidence!"

Wouldn't be surprised if that happened.

 

[Bogard]

What TheRealSupreme is saying is that jtrain didn't make sure the girl was into him before acting sexual around her. He needs to become more socially aware, learn to read eye contact, etc.

Personally I've become much more socially aware lately and I understand things like eye contact, how to tell if she is a flake before giving her the opportunity to flake, how to tell if she is actually into me(hint: If she ignores you then she is not into you). And it's even opened my eyes to things like a girl giving me hints that she wants me to stop seeing her but wants me to be the one to say it.

So basically you need to become more social.

 

[Bogard]

i dont get it like wahts rong wit yhese girls?

Nothing. You're the problem, that's why you got arrested.

 

[CapedCrusader08]

well,why can't "nerds and goobs" pickup the women? What's the difference? It's **** like this that confuses me,like you have to wait for her signals,I say,skip it all,and get to the bangin.

 

[Bogard]

well,why can't "nerds and goobs" pickup the women? What's the difference? It's **** like this that confuses me,like you have to wait for her signals,I say,skip it all,and get to the bangin.

Nerds and goobers are socially awkward people. It's not just because of weird hobbies or being smart. It's because they are fat or weak or skinny, and have poor social skills. You can improve all of that easily.

Being a nerd is not a role that you have to be stuck in for life. You need to be a normal person because that is what girls want. Normal people have good social skills. Waiting for a her to show interest in you will help weed out the girls that you won't have a chance with. It's only confusing to you because you spend your entire life holed up in your room playing video games, going on the internet and jacking off. Go outside.

Alternately their is a way to skip it all. It's called prostitution.

 

[CapedCrusader08]

Haha.Well,in my case,it's half true. I am a bit fat,social skills have somewhat been a problem over the years. I think I am a normal person,I am just consumed by these problems that have severely manifested themselves into impossible to overcome things.

I do get out alot of the time,for work mostly.

 

[ElStud]

In the right place and right time with the right person it is. A few years ago a asian guy in Canada was arrested at a club for bad behavior. I believe he was trying to grind on a girl when she didn't want it. And I am sure he spent a lot of money trying to clear his name.

It was getting bad when women would just ignore puas or spit on them or slap them now they are fighting back it seems.

In 5 years due to this whole Sarging thing I predict it will be really bad. Especially with the so called guru's selling the community out for a tv show.

This is why you don't use the lines or routines. If you are truly being yourself and not using the lines/routines, it should not matter if the "Guru's" sell out. Most people here won't agree with me because of their mindsets, but it is true you can say almost anything and get away with it, if you have good subcommunication. Just look at RSD guys. They say sh*t you guys would say "you're not suppose to say" or would call "stupid" but in the end, who gets the girls? Them. But you can always make up your own routines too.

Me? I just use "Hey" and so calledly "interview" her and still get numbers and consistant interest. So is the questions or WORDS? That makes them attracted? No, it's the subcommunication.