argh :(

[jack03]

I am such an idiot i don't get it. If i see a girl at the street or when i'm waiting for the bus, or when i am at a disco. I just cant get over to her and say something. Even when she looks at me and smile or something like that. I just can't do it. My pule is at 200 hundred and i am nervous. And i have the fear that if i would talk to her it would end the way that i ask 2 or 3 questions and just dont know what else to say.... i know that's bad. call me an Afc. But i am desperate. I have read dyd dating and roff jeffries "how to...." Both doesnt help.
Perhaps it is just destiny that i cant handle with women and they dont want to get to know me. or i am too stupid. Everytime i see the women i think they just look at me and see that i am no player or guy who they are attracted to. i can do what i want and they are just not interested in me.
I just dont know what i could do now ? is there any hope for such an afc ?

 

[DarkfalconIV]

Here try this. Go into chat rooms and IM random people until your comfortable with conversations. IT'll help you a lot. After you realize how ot talk to women try real life

 

[jack03]

that is the funny thing. i can chase a woman in im or irc. i can tease her and be funny. i have practiced a lot there. but it's absolute other in the real world outside there.

sorry for my english. i am here in this dj board because here in germany the seduction books and forum... only say one thing (content): "just be yourself" and i think that this dont really help me

 

[Kodiac]

3 Second rule.

Once you see a HB you'd like to approach...DO IT.
As soon as feel those thoughts 'what if this..what if that.." it's too late. AS SOON as you see someone ud like to approach, APPROACH.

See HB
Remind urself of 3 second rule
Approach HB

Once you do it a couple of times, it really will be no big deal.

 

[jack03]

thx kodiac for your post. but what should i say ?????? and what if she says something which is not nice ? and what should i say after an opening line ?

 

[Kodiac]

IFFFF she says something that isn't nice, then she's a stupid b*tch with mental problems that you wouldn't want to know anyway. I really doubt this situation would ever occur, if it did, just laugh at her and walk away.

Stop worrying so much!!!

I just go for the simple approach -

Opener - always "Hello" or "Hi, im Blah"
Look for a comment about your surroundings or something unique about her - if you can.
If not, still keep it simple eg, hows ur day, where u from, what do you do, where u headed ?

The 'where u from' and 'what do you do' questions usually allow you to develop a deeper conversation.

Don't 4get the 3 second rule though!

 

[Walden]

Yeah , DYD and RJ seem to be all about how to handle really hot women once you've already broken the ice(Actually Ross Jeffries seems to beabout nexting any woman who doesn't immediately throw her panties into your lap on sight).

Weeks 1-3 of boot camp train you to do that pretty well and from there you can use RJ.

 

[jack03]

ok thx my friends that you help a german guy. yesterday night i just wanted to throw all down and give up. i will read the dj boot camp. Perhaps it could help me.


MUCH THX I DONT KNOW WHAT I SHOULD DO WITHOUT YOU !

 

[enkai]

Originally posted by jack03
ok thx my friends that you help a german guy. yesterday night i just wanted to throw all down and give up. i will read the dj boot camp. Perhaps it could help me.


MUCH THX I DONT KNOW WHAT I SHOULD DO WITHOUT YOU !

I just posted this in the Tips forum, it might help out

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=37327

I don't think the 3 second rule will help him cuz if he's feelin' ill in the gut from it, when he does walk up, he wont make a great impression and probably will be at a loss for words, the only way to get out of this one is go upto random females, ugly, hot, and anything in between and just do it, accept rejection when it comes your way and bounce up like a rubber ball and do it again untill you get over it