Im kind of confused about certain aspect of friendship or rather about some of the people that I know.
I am confused about some of the people that I know whom I consider as friends but I dont know whether or not they consider me thier friends.
Im having a hard time telling whether or not the same feelings of friendship are there or not.
We are talking about guys here, no girls.
The first person I am talking about, I have known for about 4 months now, and is in my class in college. While in class we joke and horse around and seem to have a good laugh and enjoy each others company. I have called a few times and said lets go to the city or hang out somewhere. In class the response is always yes that would be awsome, but on the weekend when I have called him, he always says he is tired or that its too late. Ive asked about three or four times and I havent heard any counter proposals to hang out. So now Im kind of thinking of not persuing a friendship with him anymore, in class, not trying to talk to him or make any conversation. im just confused. maybe I shouldnt worry or let this affect my self esteem, but it is.
Then my second friend I have known for years but he never calls, I havent spoken to him for a month to see if he call back but he doesnt.
I am confused about some of the people that I know whom I consider as friends but I dont know whether or not they consider me thier friends.
Im having a hard time telling whether or not the same feelings of friendship are there or not.
We are talking about guys here, no girls.
The first person I am talking about, I have known for about 4 months now, and is in my class in college. While in class we joke and horse around and seem to have a good laugh and enjoy each others company. I have called a few times and said lets go to the city or hang out somewhere. In class the response is always yes that would be awsome, but on the weekend when I have called him, he always says he is tired or that its too late. Ive asked about three or four times and I havent heard any counter proposals to hang out. So now Im kind of thinking of not persuing a friendship with him anymore, in class, not trying to talk to him or make any conversation. im just confused. maybe I shouldnt worry or let this affect my self esteem, but it is.
Then my second friend I have known for years but he never calls, I havent spoken to him for a month to see if he call back but he doesnt.