Are you done yet?

[screwball]

How would you guys handle it if your gf or a girl you are seeing while having sex and thinking your doing a great job, she's moaning and all and then asks you in a bored seeming way: Are you done yet?

Immediate next? Or would you try harder to pleasure her next time?

 

[lizardking82]

Try harder to pleasure her the next time? I would just pull out right there and leave and never look back LOL. Noone asks me "are you done?" because to begin with, I am passionate about it and I want the other person to be passionate about it so I have sex with people who feel me. If they don't feel me early on, be it in the way they kiss and no further than that, NEXT. Got no time for people who see sex as something you do when you're bored.

 

[wifehunter]

Try harder to pleasure her the next time? I would just pull out right there and leave and never look back LOL. Noone asks me "are you done?" because to begin with, I am passionate about it and I want the other person to be passionate about it so I have sex with people who feel me. If they don't feel me early on, be it in the way they kiss and no further than that, NEXT. Got no time for people who see sex as something you do when you're bored.

Yeah, that would turn me off, too. She working, not having a good time. Probably faking.

 

[Urbanyst]

I would try to finish up by letting off a nice explosion in her face.

 

[Krueg]

You should of said.. Yea I am done, then get dressed and leave!

Not a good sign my friend. Was this the first time you two had sex?

 

[bigneil]

I had this happen to me in 2011 and 1998. It's rude to the point of being potentially traumatizing.

It means she is a lost cause. Dump her and don't take her back unless she begs for sex. She is cold-hearted. It should never happen.

 

[bigneil]

A good answer would be "Yes, I'm done with you".

 

[homie]

Oh, I've heard that, feels bad man
agree with bigneil, very rude, dump immediately

 

[MrOctober]

Anytime this type of situation has come up it was the end.

Exit.

 

[dude99]

Or you demote her to sex toy and make the sex all about you. You do NOTHING to please her. You get yours, then get dressed and leave.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Or you demote her to sex toy and make the sex all about you. You do NOTHING to please her. You get yours, then get dressed and leave.

Dude. Her comment is all about inflating her ego at the expense of yours. If you keep putting your D in her with this attitude and words coming out of her mouth, it will F with your erections and confidence! For real.

You could plate her and allow her to only do oral on you so she can't say nothing cause her mouth is full.

 

[dude99]

Dude. Her comment is all about inflating her ego at the expense of yours. If you keep putting your D in her with this attitude and words coming out of her mouth, it will F with your erections and confidence! For real.

You could plate her and allow her to only do oral on you so she can't say nothing cause her mouth is full.

Of course she is trying to inflate her ego. That is why you make everything about you only

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I had this happen to me in 2011 and 1998. It's rude to the point of being potentially traumatizing.

It means she is a lost cause. Dump her and don't take her back unless she begs for sex. She is cold-hearted. It should never happen.

Did you have plates when it happened to you? I was one itised and my lady was doing me like this back in 2009... She was still taking the sex, but laying their like a dead body, and then you get the
erection deflating comments like you said "ARE YOU DONE YET?"... She was fighting me actively during those years and wasn't trying to do anything that would "help" me...

 

[lizardking82]

The answer is "no", obviously.

Honestly, I had this but never overtly.

And I haven't had it once since being game-aware...

Tells you something, doesn't it? Don't be a pvssy. Take what you want, and leave her wanting more whilst you drink beer, and listen to tunes.

Don't be a sexual provider. I've tried increasing my sexual game, and I got called a "lesbian". That soon snapped me out of it.

Satisfy yourself. Be selfish, and spin plates.

What if I get the pleasure feeling her get satisfied? Like, if she's not enjoying it, it turns me off in general.

 

[lizardking82]

Is her enjoyment the priority, or yours?

Mine, but I just cannot be turned on unless I see her going crazy.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Mine, but I just cannot be turned on unless I see her going crazy.

I'm the same way. If she doesn't appear to be getting off on it, it would turn me off.