Here's something I've pondered take it for what its worth:
This old boss I had kept telling me that if you're available you'll find a girlfriend. This guy kept on me about it too. Every other week he'd give me the old "You got a girlfriend yet" it really started to piss me off after the millionth time since the answer was always NO. I suppose he knew I didn't get what he was talking about. I always thought yeah I'm single so I'm available jackass but I ain't getting no girl. But now I realize what he meant by "if you're available." Being available is having the balls to approach women anywhere and anytime- YOU'RE READY when the opportunity arrises. If you doubt yourself, find excuses or freeze and not approach then you're not available. I must say that I see his point now.
This old boss I had kept telling me that if you're available you'll find a girlfriend. This guy kept on me about it too. Every other week he'd give me the old "You got a girlfriend yet" it really started to piss me off after the millionth time since the answer was always NO. I suppose he knew I didn't get what he was talking about. I always thought yeah I'm single so I'm available jackass but I ain't getting no girl. But now I realize what he meant by "if you're available." Being available is having the balls to approach women anywhere and anytime- YOU'RE READY when the opportunity arrises. If you doubt yourself, find excuses or freeze and not approach then you're not available. I must say that I see his point now.