Are women more responsive to covert ways of comunication than overt ones ?

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Its kinda hard for me to give examples because english isn't my first language so i'm gonna give a simple one.

So i've observed , women will tend to accept some propositions if you comunicate them in a covert way, even if they know in their heads how things will end, for example, (not an exelent one i know but you get the idea) if you say at the end of a date: "lets get to my place and drink/eat/watch something" instead of "lets go upstairs so i can fvck you" , you will get results with the first one more often than not .
And other times even when its an obvious lie, they will believe it EVEN tho they know in their heads its not the truth , but why ? How can I be a good liar ?

What are your thoughts on this , is it true? Some advice from your experiences is welcome. Cheers
 

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Her response is going to vary greatly based on her environment; women don't even take chances in front of strangers the way a dude sometimes will, much more conscious.

By yourselves, should the proposition be any different than if in front of strangers, I think it should, so you gotta be mindful of that.
 

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Its kinda hard for me to give examples because english isn't my first language so i'm gonna give a simple one.

So i've observed , women will tend to accept some propositions if you comunicate them in a covert way, even if they know in their heads how things will end, for example, (not an exelent one i know but you get the idea) if you say at the end of a date: "lets get to my place and drink/eat/watch something" instead of "lets go upstairs so i can fvck you" , you will get results with the first one more often than not .
And other times even when its an obvious lie, they will believe it EVEN tho they know in their heads its not the truth , but why ? How can I be a good liar ?

What are your thoughts on this , is it true? Some advice from your experiences is welcome. Cheers
All depends on what she thinks of you at that moment in time. It can go both ways, it's not always a black and white thing.
 

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Its kinda hard for me to give examples because english isn't my first language so i'm gonna give a simple one.

So i've observed , women will tend to accept some propositions if you comunicate them in a covert way, even if they know in their heads how things will end, for example, (not an exelent one i know but you get the idea) if you say at the end of a date: "lets get to my place and drink/eat/watch something" instead of "lets go upstairs so i can fvck you" , you will get results with the first one more often than not .
And other times even when its an obvious lie, they will believe it EVEN tho they know in their heads its not the truth , but why ? How can I be a good liar ?

What are your thoughts on this , is it true? Some advice from your experiences is welcome. Cheers
At 22, you have good observation, young man. This is especially right in the context of seduction. For example, in this case, it is an invitation for fvck. Women would respond more positively to "go home and watch netflix" instead of "come here to fvck" because they have been socially programmed to talk, behave and act in ways that would not make them look like sluts.

So yeah, in this particular example, you are correct.
 

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Yes, women communicate covertly it’s how they’re programmed and what confuses men the most.
You shouldn’t say “come over so I can f*ck.” It has to be disguised as something else like “I have a pool table at home, want to get a couple games in”?

“Hey, let’s f*ck back at my house” is a major turn off to most women. Be indirect, and if you learn how to read between lines women in general will easier to understand.
Have you ever had a woman flat out say:

“we could go out but honestly I just don’t feel like seeing you right now”, or “I could see you, but I’m seeing this guy other guy too and he invited me on a date a week before you did” ..

You won’t. You have to read between their lines and see what’s really going on.
 

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nah man not too much more than men. some girls are dumb as sht and later have to reflect on it like "wht did he mean by that when he did that thing or said that thing the other day".. then they go and ask their girls

its just that when **** is said outright and bluntly, its just not as attractive as when its suggested. of courser on first dates and **** no girl wants to make herself seem easy and open.. you gotta lead it on in a subtle way.. thats just how it goes

overall don't think too much into it.. because women are legit not much different than men when it comes to thinking. they are just more emotionally sensitive and can be much more moody.
 

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I use to think this. Then one day, I just asked to make out and have sex. It worked. Girls rather you tell them what you want. But I like to talk them up first. Always depends on the girl.
 
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