Are Women More Promiscuous Than Years Ago?

[tincanman99]

I think they are.

I have observed behavior where they are basically cutting notches in their headboard of how many men they have been with. They are being far more sexual than the image they portray to the majority of the population. Recently I have seen single women blatantly dogging married guys wanting to sleep with them. They also will play with multiple guys simultaneously, the famous spinning plates.

On top of this they brag about it to their friends. They are living what I call the "Sex and The City" lifestyle. Now I am not saying they are all like this by any means but I think there are a lot more people think.

If most people knew what women did they would be shocked. What I find funny is that most women know about this behavior but men dont. Its carefully concealed from the general public that all women are forthright, honest and dont cheat on their spouse. It looks to me as women are as bad if not worse than men.

The reality is that women can have sex any time they choose. For a lot of women its a sport now.

Dont get me wrong, I am not saying this is bad nor saying they are *****s or anything. It is what it is though.

I just find it totally hypocritical from the message that is portrayed.

 

[jacob]

yep. I agree, with media altering societies perception that promiscuity is the in thing for women and females buying into this, the balance will be off and the male will end up being the loser. Since the male has to go out and expand time and energy trying to court hundreds of females just to hook one, since most men want a partner and help mate that'll be loyal to him till death.

And since a woman given that she's blessed with beauty, which most are, have to just pick and choose from the many men that go out trying to find one that'll give him attention and interest. So she can try all of them if she wanted and no longer feel shame since the culture are giving females license to be "sluts" which is "cool".

But since now we're blurring the lines between sexes, we're losing the truth between roles that are to be played between male and female, why we are created as such. The roles we need to play in order to have balance and equilibrium.

Women can now go out and get a career that'll support them till death, so no longer do they have to put up with the a man that get's difficult when the relationship runs into hard times, they also have the power over males temptation for sex. And since the idea that sex is the in thing and women, since they have so many choices and believe it, will do what's "in", will become desensitized to the act of love making and every man will just be a number that's indespensible, until the next good looking number comes along.

This'll mess with the woman's soul because they'll be left empty yet yearning because we were created male and female, but because of the corruption, they won't understand that and they'll try and find emotional comfort with their female friends which might even confuse them sexually leading to lesbian relationships. And men will be nothing to them but some play thing.

 

[Johnny Soporno]

So she can try all of them if she wanted and no longer feel shame since the culture are giving females license to be "sluts" which is "cool".

Oh, what a wonderful world that will be - when women no longer feel ashamed for enjoying sex with a variety of men, and can therefore begin dealing honestly with one another, with males, and with themselves.

Johnny Soporno
Worthy Playboy

 

[Nutz]

Absolutely women are more promiscuous. Or maybe I'm older and wiser and recognize how a lot of women are down for sex to begin with. Give this a read and see if it changes your opinion one way or another:

http://www.rsdnation.com/showthread.php?t=27&highlight=secret+society

The Secret Society

Many guys will dislike this, because it implies that women are slvts and untrustworthy. Well, I can only speak from my experience and report back what I've seen. I'm also posting in a semisatirical tone - I haven't gone off the Deep end..... yet...

A secret society exists. Around 52% of people on this earth are a part of it.
In the 52%, 50% are women, 2% are men.

Of the 2% of male members, half are gay, the other half are players.
What I'm talking about is the sex secret society - and you are either *IN* or *OUT*.

SOME RULES OF THE SECRET SOCIETY:

1) Don't talk about the secret society.

2) The priority of the secret society is to have perpetually good emotions in all members.

3) Create shrouds around the secret society, like "all men are dogs". Hide the truth that women are far more likely to cheat than men.

4) If you are part of the secret society, you will never be denied anything at any point.

5) If you are not part of the secret society, you will scrap and beg for everything you get.

6) Communication in the secret society is less often verbal, and more often spoken through body language subcommunications, and verbal subcommunications that would only make sense to members. Any other way, and the 48% of men would pick up on it, and it would no longer be a secret.

7) At the first sign that someone who is not part of the secret society is possibly trying to pretend that he is, berate him with both love-rhetoric, and accusations of chauvinism and nit-witted-ness.

It's OK to cheat on someone who is not a part of the secret society, so long as it is for the purpose of fulfilling the needs of someone who is, or if it to fulfill your own needs and it is with someone who is a part of the secret society. Sleeping with a rare guy from the secret society is no worse than grinding with a girlfriend at a club and making out with her. "It doesn't count". This I've seen first hand and will 100% vouch for!

9) Nobody judges each other in the secret society. There is no such thing as a slvt. A slvt is only as slvtty as people who are NOT in the secret society are aware of.

10) Secret society members COME FIRST. If someone in the society is not having fun with an interaction, it is cut off. Conversely, if a secret society male is with a non-secret-society male, and a secret society female (all females) decides she wants sex from the secret society male, the friend of the female may have sex with the non-secret-society male, because EVERYONE in the interaction must feel good. However, if the non-secret-society male is blowing himself out so badly that he makes the female member feel very bad emotions, then the secret-society-male must face the consequences of bringing negative emotions into the equation, and lose out on his privilege for sex in that interaction, until he ditches the non-secret-society male. Bare minimum requirements for non-secret-society males being grandfathered in with the male member, is that he not qualify himself or make anyone feel uncomfortable. Failing to meet those requirements, both are blown out.

WHAT IS THE SECRET SOCIETY?

Women are repressed by men, and so must look out for themselves. They will take care of:

1) Their own sexual needs.

2) The sexual needs of anyone in the secret society.

3) The sexual needs of the few males who make the secret society possible ("players").

The secret society is what allows women to appear wholesome and allows them to screen for a longterm provider/emotional tampon.

Women hold off to find the perfect boyfriend, while sleeping with a guy who is likely sleeping with all of their friends, and their friends’ friends. Seen this first hand as well!

They also **** their gay boyfriends or jerk them off or give them head.

They're part of the secret society too, so they can't be left out.

EYE WITNESS ACCOUNTS FROM SECRET SOCIETY INSIDERS (based on dozens of interviews I did over the summer, with girls in London England, as well as some from my own experience as a player):

1) If you tell a girl that you're gay, and that you want to "see what it feels like to be with a girl", she'll sleep with you. She won't insist on using a condom either, unless you do. You're part of the secret society, where condoms aren't necessary because they are logical entities and not emotionally relevant.

2) If you subcommunicate that you are a part of the secret society, and tell the friend of your target "I'm really lonely. My girlfriend cheated on me, and I need to re-validate myself tonight", she'll tell her friend to **** you. Her friend will realize from this that you are a part of the secret society, and she'll fvck you. Moreover, if the friend refuses, the ugly girl will offer you a ******* to help you out.

3) If you manage to verbally subcommunicate that you are a member (its still subcommunication, because the verbal ways you communicate it aren't direct at all), the secret society members will gladly tell you all about their sexual exploits and adventures. As soon as you subcommunicate that you desire romance, she will immediately retract all of her previous statements (and she'll look completely congruent doing so), and downplay them that it was something she did just one time and that she's looking for a relationship. PUA: "I love to go out and hook up. I hate it when girls try to run my life".. HB: "Me too.. I hooked up with guys all last year.. My boyfriend tried to control me, but I do what I want.. My girlfriends all do it too." PUA: "Really? Cause to
be honest, I've always felt like I'm a romantic guy.. And girls always cheat on me.. I want to find a girl who won't cheat." HB: "I would never cheat. Guys are dogs. I'm always loyal." PUA: "But didn't you say..." HB: "No, I said nothing." PUA: "No, you said that you don't let your boyfriend control you and you do what you want." HB: "No, I didn't mean that. I'm not a slvt. I have no
idea what you're talking about, I didn't say that."

4) If you are a member, and say that you are really lonely and you need someone to snuggle and makeout with, all members of the secret society will agree to do so with you. If you are a girl, you have privilege to snuggle and kiss and sleep in the same bed as all other girls. If you are gay, you can do the same. If it escalates to sex, its an accident and does not count. If you're a player, and you make girls around you emotional, and the friends are all in good emotions about it, they sleep with you. No one is a slut in the secret society, because the secret society does not judge.

5) If a group of girls living together find a guy who is in the secret society, they will all fvck him. They'll recommend him as an honorary secret society member, and enjoy him. Meanwhile they may be in relationships with non-secret society members that they've fallen in love with, however this is not an issue because nobody in the secret society judges and sex with people in the secret society does not count. Seen this first hand so many times it'd make your head spin! If you are a secret society member now, but in the past enjoyed a romantic relationship, what you may not realize is the part that was left out of the romance novel story (due to rules no1&2 of the secret society code), which was that after you dropped her off your romantic star watching, a secret society member came by and fvcked the **** out of her without a condom and gave her the money shot all over her face.

6) If a secret society male has a non-member male friend, the friend of the girl who wants sex from the male member will have sex with the non-member even if she doesn't like him. However, rules state that if if the non-member is "creepy/scary" (kinos too much, leans in too much, asks dumb questions, tries too hard to impress, overqualifies), then the male member will be expected to return either alone or with another male member. Also, the male members must remember that positive emotions are always priority, and if he is alone he must still maintain the positive emotions of the female member who will not be getting sex, secret society rules not to be breached. Number 1 rule of the secret society, outside of not talking about it, is that EVERYONE
maintains GOOD emotions.

To be continued...

 

[Nutz]

Secret Society Part 2

Part 2

THE UNDERLYING MISUNDERSTOOD TRUTH OF THE SECRET SOCIETY:

The 49% of men who live outside of the secret society don't understand the mental model of attraction of people who are in the secret society.

Men view attraction in their MALE MENTAL MODELS. They believe that attraction is "sexual aggression". They understand attraction as having a physical urge to have sex, and then mentally deciding that you will go after it.

They try to seduce women by touching and grabbing them, and getting them very horny. They try to seduce them in the SAME WAY that a woman would do well seducing THEM. They try to seduce them as if they were seducing a GUY. This sometimes works, and the propaganda is spread - "this is how to get chicks".

Secret society members will not fill them in, due to breach of the code.

What the secret society members are not telling you, is that they understand that most sex occurs when women are not sexually AGGRESSIVE, but sexually RECEPTIVE.

They understand that for women to be ready for sex, they need not feel horny, they need only feel EMOTIONAL.

They understand that women are not logical, and that they are emotional.

They understand that for women sex is not a big deal at all, and that its their LOGIC that puts the breaks on it.

They understand that most women are afraid of sex because they lack TRUST, and because their LOGIC is putting on the breaks.

They disarm logic by making the women EMOTIONAL, so that their LOGIC (which is the BREAKS of emotion) becomes disarmed, and at the same time maintain TRUST, so that the emotions generated won't be interfered with.

Then they simply have sex, because although the women are not WANTING sex, they are too EMOTIONAL to DECLINE sex. Then, once they BEGIN to have a physical interaction, the women become horny and sexually aggressive as a result, and sex begins.

(NOTE: This is why girls must ****BLOCK for each other. Because they know that clubs are emotionally charged environments, and that it wouldn't take much for a guy to use her resulting sexual receptiveness to lay her. The guy may not be a guy that the girl would lay normally, were she feeling more logical, so the girls must look out for each other. Guys don't need to do this
because firstly, they will not be judged for sleeping around (no logic), secondly, they are sexually aggressive - not receptive - so their decisions will not be regretted later usually, and thirdly, because they do not need trust because they are not usually in any physical danger).

They also understand that value + trust + attraction = sex (rough lazy model).

Value = being someone in the secret society (it can also be SO many other things, but being a member can in some cases be sufficient)

Trust = not telegraphing interest

Attraction = increasing her buying temperature by making her emotional (emotionally aroused, not necessarily physically aroused.. the former will cause her to be too illogical to prevent you from causing the latter, when she's ready)

Don't tell anyone about this. All knowledge will be denied and you will be ridiculed.

 

[Smack]

Yes women are more promiscuous than today. Anyone on this site who claims this is a bad thing is a bloody hypocrite since this forum is primarily about sleeping with women.

 

[trv26]

Oh, what a wonderful world that will be - when women no longer feel ashamed for enjoying sex with a variety of men, and can therefore begin dealing honestly with one another, with males, and with themselves.

Johnny Soporno
Worthy Playboy

That is not so much the Utopia for the majority of guys as you seem to think.

 

[Darth]

Yes women are more promiscuous than today. Anyone on this site who claims this is a bad thing is a bloody hypocrite since this forum is primarily about sleeping with women.

I think it's a bad thing. And it's a source of a lot of sadness for me. I just hope I can find a good girl to marry whenever that time comes.

I'm on this forum to attract girls (*gasp*). Not have sex with a bunch of wh0res.

And BTW, I hate "Sex and the City," but more than that I hate the hippies for what they did to our society in the 60's and 70's.

But I still try to assume the best about people.

 

[LostAndConfused]

I think they are.

I have observed behavior where they are basically cutting notches in their headboard of how many men they have been with. They are being far more sexual than the image they portray to the majority of the population. Recently I have seen single women blatantly dogging married guys wanting to sleep with them. They also will play with multiple guys simultaneously, the famous spinning plates.

On top of this they brag about it to their friends. They are living what I call the "Sex and The City" lifestyle. Now I am not saying they are all like this by any means but I think there are a lot more people think.

Fvcking yes! I got head from some girl and I had NO intention of telling anyone, and 1 minute late her friend hears about it and in the next day at school, 3 people who knew her (she goes to another school) had heard about it too.

PLUS, on dates, girls talk about what they've done with guys openly with you. It pisses me off. Its like they think you think its hot. It really isn't.


BUT, I feel you guys are wrong in some aspects. Not ALL girls are like that. Back when I was on the forum a while ago, I used to think all girls just wanted to sleep with every guy who had the capability of spitting enough game....or, any guy who she looks better if she sleeps with him.

Its not necessarily true. Alot of girls don't buy into this cultural sex phenomenon...more girls than you'd think.

Darth: The game that we learn from this site and other "seduction" sources inevitably works best on the "promiscuous" girls. Natural game works best on the girls we all want to date.

If you go to a club or a party with alcohol (esp. in high school), what type of girls do you EXPECT?

We're making too great a generalization about girls here, if you take it further you just get jaded and misogynistic (i will admit that girls have singlehandedly sent our society down the toilet with their overly sexual ways).

That secret society article was good...but it seemed absurd at some points. Many of those tricks just don't work.

PUA: "I love to go out and hook up. I hate it
when girls try to run my life".. HB: "Me too.. I hooked up with guys all last year.. My boyfriend
tried to control me, but I do what I want.. My girlfriends all do it too." PUA: "Really? Cause to
be honest, I've always felt like I'm a romantic guy.. And girls always cheat on me.. I want to find
a girl who won't cheat." HB: "I would never cheat. Guys are dogs. I'm always loyal." PUA: "But
didn't you say..." HB: "No, I said nothing." PUA: "No, you said that you don't let your boyfriend
control you and you do what you want." HB: "No, I didn't mean that. I'm not a slut. I have no
idea what you're talking about, I didn't say that."

I LOL'D

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

I just wrote an article about this. Click the link in my sig to read it.

Also, I think shows like Sex and the City and movies like Zack and Miri Make a Porno have facilitated this type of behavior. Our values are shaped by the media.

Also, a lot of them want it, will admit it to friends, but will never admit it. They want the slvt lifestyle. Some of them. It's plausible deniability.

 

[jacob]

The "cheating slvt" post is so very true.

 

[Forty0ztoFreedom]

Sh*t like this pisses me off. Not because of me. My brother just got married to a really cool girl . . If she ever pulled sh*t like this on him and hurt him, I think I would become the most evil woman-hating man on the fvcking planet.

Its one things to think this is just nature and its all cute and funny and "Sex and the City" but there are REAL PEOPLE being hurt by this sh*t. I am all about embracing sexuality but we still a society of HUMAN BEINGS, not animals. Pook never taught to be consumed by your sexuality like this, he taught to be in CONTROL of it.

I don't care what excuses chicks or players make for this behavior, its wrong and they need to be held accountable.

Screw this "secret society." How bout being the guy who knows about it and shakes their head in disgust at it, while making money and living a happy life with a clear conscious? I'd rather be in that percentage, thanks.

 

[Darth]

How bout being the guy who knows about it and shakes their head in disgust at it, while making money and living a happy life with a clear conscience? I'd rather be in that percentage, thanks.

Me too.

 

[Johnny Soporno]

That is not so much the Utopia for the majority of guys as you seem to think.

Of course - that's why the tagline at The Worthy Playboy Institute is "Enlightening Men <---> Emancipating Women".


Here are a couple of Google Video links which highlight the most-critical reframes which I'm working to help people 'get'

Women's Emancipation - Stage One: WOMEN ARE NOT PROPERTY!


In this seminar-except, I'm speaking about the history of gender roles, and the biological and evolutionary experiences between pre-"Agricultural Revolution" societies, and all generations since.

In particular, I'm concentrating on the overriding compulsion of men to believe the children they are supporting/raising are "their own", and women's social acceptance of the necessity to encourage men towards this obsession (especially where it is actually a delusion!)

Womens' Emancipation - Stage Two: Eliminating the "Sexual Cartel"

This second video explains why men all expect to have to 'pay for sex' - always (ie, whether in dating, with prostitutes, or in marriage)

Women worldwide are raised to believe that if they do the things they'd like to do, with the people they choose, for their own entertainment, enjoyment, satisfaction, etc, without concern for maintaining a "high market value" (by demonstrating that their 'sexual access' is exclusively available to a very small number of men), they will end up alone and unloved in their old age.

They are constantly reminded that their happiness and security, and ultimately their MOST SUBSTANTIAL SOCIAL VALUE rely upon their contracting themselves to an appropriate man. (Without such a man to support her in her role as mother and wife, she risks being criticized and derided by her parents and friends, and pitied or resented by the majority of onlookers at large.)

These two brief videos (11+15 mins, respectively) are brief segments from my "Introduction to Seductive Reasoning 101" seminar, available for free download in its entirety (approximately 1.2GB, 6 hours) from HERE.

As I mentioned, my videos are free, and may be downloaded and redistributed by everyone. In fact, that is my goal.

Johnny Soporno
Worthy Playboy & Lifestyle Guru

 

[Ana1106]

I guess for PUA's it's a good thing, but I feel sorry for the SOB's who have to marry these wh@res.

And a woman's number never goes over 10.

Ask the average girl how many guys they've been with?

You'll get 5,4,8,7,9. Yeah right, you meant 5 + 10 or 5 x 5. Most girls will never admit that they've been with 17 men.

 

[Johnny Soporno]

I guess for PUA's it's a good thing, but I feel sorry for the SOB's who have to marry these wh@res.

WTF? No one HAS to marry anyone; if a man chooses to contract one woman as his exclusive wh@re, that's up to him. Some of those poor SOBs will even hire VIRGINS as their wives! Crazy.

JS

 

[Nutz]

I guess for PUA's it's a good thing, but I feel sorry for the SOB's who have to marry these wh@res.

And a woman's number never goes over 10.

Ask the average girl how many guys they've been with?

You'll get 5,4,8,7,9. Yeah right, you meant 5 + 10 or 5 x 5. Most girls will never admit that they've been with 17 men.

A friend had one tell him, in bed just before sex, that she'd been with something like 80+ guys. It's funny when women turn a corner from teh slut phase of their life and want to "respect themselves" and *then* they make guys wait for sex. I think there was a Tom Leykis episode on this and he made a good point. Guys don't generally want women like that who do a 180. They want women when they're young, fun, and giving it up. It's when they're getting older and want to snare a guy they start rationing out the pvssy. To hell with that!