Are women in one's life THAT important?

[SamePendo]

Well, are they?

First consider this, I read somewhere that the majority of posters here are young (18-25ish) caucasian men from the U.S.. Should all these guys be here? I mean, the majority of us are in an age of growth as men. But are women so important?

I know that it's a huge confidence booster to a man the fact that he knows how to deal with women. But, to dedicate all this to this site? And this is sosuave, not fastseduction stuff.

I'd advice guys to stop coming here not just to stop philosophizing about female-male interaction, but to stop coming here and focus on something that really matters, like your art. And all this is supposing that women are something good in the life of a young man. One could even argue that it's actually bad, because a man can lose his focus. Some philosopher said something along the lines of "the man works towards getting what a woman wants".

Fvck that. You have a woman to have kids, and to support you on your quest to greatness. Not to spoil her and ****. Feminism this site talks about would end if one wouldn't marry or settle for a woman just for kids.

 

[user43770]

Womanizing makes me feel better about myself. For a little while, that is.

 

[The Bat]

I came to this site initially looking for advice on how to deal with women issues. The post that brought me here was Pook's Be a Man thread.

And oh how glad I am that that was the thread that brought me here.

I realized after reading more of Pook's stuff that there is a greater point to life of a man than women. I realized that the reason I was having trouble with women was because I had completely neglected one important tool in succeding with women: ME.

You see, women are like the exterior paint, artistic windows, and painted ceilings to a house that is a man's life. Sure, having a brilliant color scheme (variety of women), cleverly crafted windows (smart-witted women), and delicately designed ceilings (quailty women) will make your house look very attractive and fulfilled from the outside. But what about the inside?

What about the electrical wirings and fixtures? What about the tiles on the floor and the pillars that hold up the ceilings? What about the locks and security alarms of the house? What about the quality of wood and marble used to design the house? What about the base? The foundation?

Just as it takes much effort to design these type of things to near perfection for maximum effectiveness, it takes as much effort to improve one's personality and inner self. In contrast, it only takes a passerby to notice all the exterior qualities of your house, it only takes a quick glimpse of a man that is surrounded by beautiful women. But the difference is that the passerby won't have much knowledge about the foundation and strength of that house. Just like a quick glimpse of a "player" won't tell you much about his real character as a Man.

 

[j0n024]

I agree somewhat to what the op says but then I fall short I think.

I think in this day and age the only way to grow and become who you want to be is to come to this site, and realize that women arent suppose to be scary to talk to and you shouldnt care what other people think about you other then what you think about yourself.

THIS site has helped me in realizing that women arent scary to talk to and that I shouldnt care what other people think of me. I am starting to grow as a person and I am getting more hobbys because of this site so I think it helps to have this site ...but it seems like a contradiction that a guy with 2000 posts talks about not coming here that often.