Are women becoming lesbians?

[picard]

this might be a strange question but I have to ask you guys. Are the single women dumping men for lesbos chick? Have they become so disenchanted with us that they would date other women? I notice that major metropolitan cities have a growing lesbians population. I hope that there is no viruses that infect women and turning them to lesbos.

 

[al77]

Originally posted by picard
Have they become so disenchanted with us that they would date other women?
I hope that there is no viruses that infect women and turning them to lesbos.

Do you know the name of that virus? It is called job opportunities. The more job opportunities women have the more they dislike men...
Simple and clear. Watch it, after another 5-10 year in US marriage may become "morally old", since more and more women become more educated than men and can get a better job then men can...

 

[picard]

Are we, men, becoming obsolete just like Commodore 64?? I understand modern economic engine can't survive without women contribution to the job market. Don't women know that it takes two to make children. There are too many single mothers whom don't know how to raise children nowadays. I notice lots of kids lack discipline because there is no father guidance in their adolescent development.

Have their parents failed to teach the children the value of marriage anymore? Marriage institution is being challenged by fringe group such as gays & lesbians. It is no surprise that the Christian right wing group seek to enter the moral battle field.

I really hate when I hear women discuss among themselves that they don't need men anymore. What the fck does that mean? Do we say the same thing about women. No. We value women role in society.

sorry if I rant in this thread. I am piss off when I hear women talk of men as being obsolete. Lets see if they can make children without out contribution. The justice system are too lienient or weak in dealing with aggressive lesbians or feminists. They undermine the traditional institution of marriage.

 

[penkitten]

some women are tired of having babies and the men that make them. some are all getting into some weird libral gay thing,

very werid...

 

[DJDamage]

Originally posted by picard
I really hate when I hear women discuss among themselves that they don't need men anymore. What the fck does that mean? Do we say the same thing about women. No. We value women role in society.

sorry if I rant in this thread. I am piss off when I hear women talk of men as being obsolete. Lets see if they can make children without out contribution. The justice system are too lienient or weak in dealing with aggressive lesbians or feminists. They undermine the traditional institution of marriage.

The bitter women are usually older women who already got used up by men and couldn't capture them and hance since they are not as desirable anymore will try to come up with philosophical bullsh1t as to why they don't need men. Deep down however they all yearn for a men to fvck them hard with his hard c0ck and that can never be replaced. I wouldn't worry to much about it.

Those women who on purpose have taken themselves off the market are doing us men a favour.

 

[al77]

Originally posted by picard

I understand modern economic engine can't survive without women contribution to the job market. Don't women know that it takes two to make children.

Look at this this way: two main reasons of a divorce are money and sex.

Money when a wife doens't get enough money from a husband, and sex when husband doens't get enough of it from his wife.
There are some variations of course.

Now if women have money... they have a feeling that they dont even need a husband, they can get their kids involved in afterschool activities with male teachers, sports with a male couch, church with a male leader...
If you take money out of the equations then marriage doesn't make sense for women.... this is what is going on and it will only get worse. Thanks to the power of the mighty $, i.e. job opportunities for women.

 

[DoubleA]

Originally posted by al77


Look at this this way: two main reasons of a divorce are money and sex. Money when a wife doens't get enough money from a husband, and sex when husband doens't get enough of it from his wife. There are some variations of course. Now if women have money... they have a feeling that they dont even need a husband, they can get their kids involved in afterschool activities with male teachers, sports with a male couch, church with a male leader...
If you take money out of the equations then marriage doesn't make sense for women.... this is what is going on and it will only get worse. Thanks to the power of the mighty $, i.e. job opportunities for women.

al77,

I agree. Totally. The functional role of a husband/father has been eliminated now that they are making more money. No more asking for money for themselves and hearing excuses. No more concern, if the marriage doesn't workout, will the clown she married will support his kids? With money there is no need to gain a losing situation because she has eliminated the opportunity to let down by some guy.

Do I believe this is the route to go? No. I believe that a jaded woman can not escape the unseen hand of human isolation. No human is made to be alone. Most women are lonely. So they may turn to a girlfriend with the premise that they lean on each other for support. Even be jealous of the other, if one goes out on a date. This older cat and I were talking about this very subject. He's in his early forties. He's can't stand women like that. He's right. Women acting like they don't need a man. HA! Yeah right. No woman can give them the real thang. DACK. You yeard me. I know many reliable stories of dudes hitting clubs and sleeping with Bi-sexual women. It's the element they can't get if they think they don't need a man. Eventually they break down. Just be ready! :woo:

For the most part, gender roles have been cast out the window. Most women also have issues with the father figure they have had in their youth. I meet a lot of black women who have issues with their father. Maybe the way he treated her mother. Or the fact he wasn't there. This stuff carries over. Now ten to fifteen years later. And maybe she's not a black woman. Now she's successful chic, ran across a few duds for BFs. She's hurt. Probably making more than the men she dates..what does she need them for? Sex. "The Maintenance Man" theory.

I see it alot in this area. Women with that attitude. Forever pitching the negative ad campaign. There are still women out here looking for real men. Recognize them, not some chic with issues.

I'm no therapist; therefore, I don't provide therapy.

 

[Deep Dish]

Women who are lesbians—and I don’t mean the young girls who feign lesbianism in nightclubs and maybe not girls who “experiment” in college—were physically or sexually abused as kids, most often by a parent or relative but many are molested by a teenage female friend, or emotionally or physically abandoned. Many teenage lesbians simply are trying to piss off their (abusive or neglectful) parents. Most blatantly obvious lesbians are old, in their late thirties or forties. They go lesbian not because of an inherent non-attraction to men but because, of course, they grew sick of men who hit the crap out of them—a tell-tale pattern of a dysfunctional childhood. They grow fat because there is no pressure from the strong male eye. It also seems the overwhelming majority of lesbians are drug addicts, and of course why do they do drugs but to feel good and avoid pain, deep pain rooted in prior abuse or abandonment. Intriguing enough, judging by sexual frequency statistics, lesbians don’t really have sex. Gay males have the most sex, straights have medium amounts, but lesbians barely have any.

It has nothing to do with economics. The behavior and lifestyle of an “independent” career woman who is a lesbian is result of an abused or abandoned childhood with economics playing only a secondary role.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Originally posted by DJ_in_making
I agree w/ you completely,
Most lesbians are looking for the freakin' MANLIEST over-testosteroned butch they can find. They want a girl w/ every single characteristic of a man (mind the penis) and then they say they don't want men....wtf?

Can you just go to the high school forum? Or are you too stupid to read the notice "Those 25 and over should post here"

 

[iveyleeger]

women consider themselves to have the privelige to fvck whoever they like, including other women. so, not needing a man anymore, they will do this if they can't get the alpha guy.

functionally, this means that fewer guys get laid, since the basic role of being a provider no longer matters.

meantime the perceived alpha male -- not the actual alpha male, like bill gates, but the cool, funny, sexy guy who may actual be a jobless alcy -- gets the most.

to conclude, if you want them, you need to be the perceived alpha male, not the AFC. DJ skills are more critical than they used to be.

 

[having_guts]

DJ's you sound like a bunch of scared chicks!

I think it's about time to throw some facts into this silly, however entertaining discussion:


Is Sexual Orientation a Choice?

No, human beings can not choose to be either gay or straight. Sexual orientation emerges for most people in early adolescence without any prior sexual experience. Although we can choose whether to act on our feelings, psychologists do not consider sexual orientation to be a conscious choice that can be voluntarily changed.


and for more:

http://hem.passagen.se/nicb/facts.htm

 

[SAYNO]

HUH?

Is Sexual Orientation a Choice?

"No, human beings can not choose to be either gay or straight. Sexual orientation emerges for most people in early adolescence without any prior sexual experience. Although we can choose whether to act on our feelings, psychologists do not consider sexual orientation to be a conscious choice that can be voluntarily changed. "

So if a human being gets the urge to be a serial killer he/she wont be able to resist that either?

What about being a pedophile?


Sayno'

 

[having_guts]

Yeah right... pedophile, mass murder and homosexuals... all the same... *yawn*

If it's about choice that would mean YOU could also choose men?!

Hm. Interesting thought Ever had a guy???

 

[having_guts]

Originally posted by DJ_in_making
He made a very logical point and now you're just brushing it off. I hate seeing people do that, take into consideration what he said. How is a pedophile different from a homosexual? The pedophile is only acting on their involuntary urge....right?

I think the main difference between pedophiles and homosexuals is that pedophiles are harming others, which makes them potential dangerous. Whereas homesexuals are not, which makes them potential harmless. Putting them into one basket is as fair as this feminists slogan from the 60ies... 'every man is a rapist'.

Didn't mean to brush anyone off... I just tried to make a point about 'becoming' gay. I don't believe more girs (or blokes) are gay nowadays. But I'm sure it's more accepted and so, more visible.

My question was serious. Can you 'choose' being attracted to men instead of women?

 

[Tboner]

Most of these women that I've met are not converting to become lesbians, but rather are exploring their bi-sexual nature since it's socially acceptable now. My experience is this bi-sexual nature exists in maybe 50 to 60% of women. They haven't given up on men, just on AFC's and abusive a$$holes.

When I accepted this reality, MFF threesomes became much easier.