Are woman intimidated by good looking guys?

spaceman2001

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We all know guys can be at good looking woman, but you never hear much about them. Do they get gitters also? Cuz I just don't see many girls get intimidated by studs.
 

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yeah man, have you ever been talking to a girl that does not make eye contact with you? There was this one girl in my high school that was absolutly obsessed with me. However whenever I tried to start a conversation she would turn bright red and stuff.

Also whenever you ask a girl for their numbers, you know when you're the **** when they start turning bright red and get flustered. Personally that is my favorite

Anyway back on to your subject, girls are afraid of good looking guys. Most of them will never approach either, because they feel it really isn't their role (which it isnt) and they actually fear rejection more than we do.

I hope that helped.
 

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I would say that a Professional, Intelligent, Educated, Good Looking, Healthy woman...a woman with ALL those qualities...is NOT going to feel intimidated by a "good looking" man.

However, they might feel a little intimidation (or some of them might feel that) if they are dealing with a TRUE alpha-man. Or a POWERFUL man.

You guys are starting to think like woman. Women and men don't think alike.

Now...if you are talking about average or below average woman (or high school kids)...then they MIGHT feel that intimidation.
 

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Girls self esteem is always worse than guys.....hence girls never approach (In general)

Girls do get intimadated by good looking guys but not in a bad way. They will just turn all AFC on you.....fumble...make mistakes....be speachless...go red..
 

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Tomatoes said:
Girls self esteem is always worse than guys.....hence girls never approach (In general)

Girls do get intimadated by good looking guys but not in a bad way. They will just turn all AFC on you.....fumble...make mistakes....be speachless...go red..
I would say that women will always have self esteem issues. I don't care if that woman is the President of the United States or Jennifer Anniston.

I would say however (and judging by this Forum too), that a considerably amount of men TODAY are as bad or worst.

Women don't need to get intimidated by "good looking" men. Women get approach by MANY men in their life. Many of which are probably good looking (there are lot of good looking men out there).

But...very few men can be considered alpha. And when an alpha approaches a woman...that woman is going to feel a little intimidated by his presence. Because she doesn't have the experience of getting approached by LOT of alphas.

No every man is an alpha. We have a LOT of alpha wanna bes...but NO true alphas.
 

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Latinoman: you're speaking the truth! It's the same as with guys. A woman will get intimidated by your looks only when she has self-esteem issues. Just think about a situation like that and notice how you are not attracted to that woman...
 

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there are lots of more bad looking guys than me..but they can eat the chicks :) good looking might be a plus..but only a little.
 

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Latinoman said:
I would say that a Professional, Intelligent, Educated, Good Looking, Healthy woman...a woman with ALL those qualities...is NOT going to feel intimidated by a "good looking" man.

However, they might feel a little intimidation (or some of them might feel that) if they are dealing with a TRUE alpha-man. Or a POWERFUL man.

You guys are starting to think like woman. Women and men don't think alike.

Now...if you are talking about average or below average woman (or high school kids)...then they MIGHT feel that intimidation.


WRONG WRONG WRONG. WRONG. ANOHTER EXAMPLE OF BAD ADVICE GIVEN BY WRONG PEOPLE. THEY WILL BE IF YOU INTIMIDATE THEM. remember, they have alot of ego and they are working hard in their brain to keep you down. YOU GOTTA DOMINATE HER AND MAKE HER FEAR YOU. but by it self, of couse she wont be intimidate you, she will try anything to get her self confidence up.
 

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girls are inimidated by good looking guys. Im good looking people tell it to me all the time even fvckin guys its weird. youll see a hot girl go up to some chump and talk to them for whatever. but when it comes to a good looking guy its different. girls just have assumptioins of good looking guys and they act accordingly. it seems they act with a calculated plan around you so they dont come off as whatever cause your good looking. if you care youre somewhat inimidated cause your scared the other person will think of you in a certain way.
 

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I totally agree.. I think that "most" women are intimidated by good looking guys. Not all, but most! Like aix237, I get compliments on my appearance almost everyday; even from guys, that it sometimes makes me wonder if everyone is complimented liek this.. lol

Personally I have experienced a lot of girls thinking I'm a player because of the amount of girls that want to be around me. I consider myself alpha among people around me. Which is probably why whenever people gather, they gather around me and it seems as if the whole groups focus is on me!

I do believe that social proof matched with good looks can be very intimidating if you're talking to a woman.
 

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Tell Tale Signs

Do women get jitters around men they are attracted to? If you get the following reactions from girls (without having said anything to them, or almost nothing to them), you can bet you are good looking:

a. blushing
b. staring
c. stuttering
d. her body becoming stiff as a board
e. conversely, she moves around too much
f. the girl is stroking herself: her neck, her hair, her arm, her leg, or some object she's carrying: a purse, a bag, her skirt
g. laughing too much
h. not saying anything at all when the occasion calls for her to talk
i. eyes wide open, or her mouth falling open, looking mesmerized
j. staring, then looking away quickly once they've been caught.

The answer then is obviously "yes."

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spaceman2001 said:
We all know guys can be at good looking woman, but you never hear much about them. Do they get gitters also? Cuz I just don't see many girls get intimidated by studs.
 

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h. not saying anything at all when the occasion calls for her to talk. Nice norpacwolf that reminds me of the other day at work. This hb 8 or so. Really nice arse and all. I said something, in regaurds of her getting off work, and she didnt even say a word. Had her back to me bent down cleaning and stuff. Nice pink thong ^_6 woo. So maybe she froze up like a ghetto computer.

Just tonight. Received like 3 compliments from hot ass women...

Surfer girl I went to school with .. Compilments me on my physique

Random cat call from girl on balcony when riding motorcyle.. Holding me in regaurds to a hunk :rolleyes:

Plus some gay haters shouted some crap at me and I dont even know them?@?@! ( whatever its the small dogs that make up for their size with their bark. Big dogs seldomly bark. )

LoL I feel pretty good now.
 

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No they are not, gorgeous girls know that the good looking guys desire them, it is more than likely that it is the good looking guys and also definately the average looking ones that are more worried about what the gorgeous girls think about them. :D
 

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1-5s will probably down right HATE you cause the value gap is huge,8-10s will like you and flirt with you.6-8s will be shy etc but once you open to them they will be intimidated ****less,and be putty(sp?) in your hands.All this if you're good looking AND major alpha.
 

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They wear make up, take an hour and a half to decide what to wear, take two more hours to get ready and most dont approach guys...how do you think their self-esteem is??
 

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just like i said,
my average looking buddy and my good looking buddy both made street approaches with the same chat up lines and my average looking friend got more response. when 3 of us made group approaches at a club or anywhere my god looking friend is ignored no matter how much he says, this chap is a fitness a model but still hasnt got laid since feb 2005. i think girls may not be intimidated but hate goodlooking guys and want them to suffer im not bad looking either and some girls act hash to me.

lurker.
 

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Here in Australia anyway, the best looking girls prefer to be with the best looking guys, maybe it is different in other countries around the world, but you are much better off being a hunk or a hot babe here. :D
 

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No...

Women are intimidated by confrontation. At best, a good looking guy can make them feel self consious = not the same thing.
 
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