Are tight shirts gay?

[ImprovingJuan]

i mean v necks or those that are more into your skin.

Yesterday a filipino girl and friends told me i look cute, have an angelic face, but i look gay, because of one pic, a tight shirt in a photo, that she says only fits skinheads or badasses. its not the first time a girl says im cute but thinks i am gay. dont ****in' laugh, because something is not right here. if i'm giving gay vibes i might be attracting the wrong kind of attention. things like angelic face, too young, tight shirt... she says she would like to see me with a normal tshirt

Reshiel Defante
i got 2 friends here.the one she say u look like an angel.ur eyes are perfect.such an angelic face.the other one say ur so yummy but you look gay.are you? its a pity.
Reshiel Defante
yes.they say tshirt are better for u
Paulo Barros
wtf?
Reshiel Defante
3:45
Reshiel Defante
yes from now on,u should change ur style
but in formal occassions,u look better when u wear tight slacks,tight long sleeve.
they say mas pogi ka if u wear normal t-shirt
Reshiel Defante
i love seing u in shades
and to be honest
tight shirt mostly gays wear that stuff
Reshiel Defante
just wear not so fit shirt,u must have skinhead type of hair to look more manly

wtf

seriously is this real or just a **** test?

havent you guys ever wear tight t-shirts and such (no talking about tight trousers, that's gay as ****) ? is it really considered gay?

http://i1188.photobucket.com/albums...GiPBXBlQmIzOBf1Q_DbaVNgaRmgtGe_9ECZzukqwA.png

this is just plain stupid imho. but whatever

 

[ImprovingJuan]

i was calm and kept the convo short. was a bit surprised but remained calm and collected, been trying to remain calm and dont stress about what women think like narcisistic said in his useful post, improve your inner core. its hard but these things make you wonder.

Anyway i've seen guys using tight shirts and they dont look to me gay at all, and they get girls also.

 

[cordoncordon]

OP to answer your question no a tight v neck t shirt is not gay in and of itself.

But......your body type while wearing said T shirt DOES determine if it looks gay or not. For example, in the pic below, a well built guy is wearing a tighter V neck. Is that gay? No. It shows off his physique and looks good. I happen to have a v neck in just about every color there is. Really like them as they are comfortable, fashionable without going over the top, and look really good.

But.....if you are either super skinny or even worse over weight with no real shape or form to your body other than a blob with a gut? And you wear a super tight V neck? Yep, it looks gay. Very gay. You see lots of chubbier gay gays wearing t shirts like that and that has helped to further the stereotype. You can't have a gut and wear a tight t shirt because it just shows people how fat you really are since it is skin tight.

Now, as for you specifically? I think you fall towards looking gay in that shirt rather than not. Reason being, as I said above, to me your body shape looks kind of skinny fat. Skinny arms with kind of a gut. And you have no definition to your lats or delts. And that is a look gay men have. You are just kind of a square with skinny arms. But....the good news is if you worked out at the gym....hard? I can see you having a great physique and wearing a shirt like that really well.

So my advice is work out more. Slim down your gut. Develop some definition in your physique. Then show this girl the new you.

Good luck.

 

[ImprovingJuan]

yes i've started hitting the gym again, although i dont look like john candy or have a beer belly, in fact i have only 13% body fat, i think it's time to bulk up fast. there's always creatine, a good protein to build muscle and the proper diet to boost up the process.

as for the girl she's cute, and if she didnt like me she wouldnt have said that and give those tips, dont you think?

 

[cordoncordon]

yes i've started hitting the gym again, although i dont look like john candy or have a beer belly, in fact i have only 13% body fat, i think it's time to bulk up fast. there's always creatine, a good protein to build muscle and the proper diet to boost up the process.

as for the girl she's cute, and if she didnt like me she wouldnt have said that and give those tips, dont you think?

That is why I called you skinny fat. You are skinny, but out of shape at the same time. You need some muscle definition and toning to your body. Work out and eat WELL. Lots of lean meats, chicken, fish. TONS of veggies, fruits, nuts, beans, sweet potatoes etc. Avoid too many sweets, soda's, fatty goods etc.

If you want a good program to lift with, do this.

http://www.simplyshredded.com/mega-...ll-powerhypertrophy-routine-updated-2011.html

What is your weight and height?

 

[ImprovingJuan]

condorcordon

1,75 cm (5'9")

and 78 kg

sent you pm

 

[cordoncordon]

condorcordon

1,75 cm (5'9")

and 78 kg

sent you pm

OK so you are 5'9" and 170 or so? About what I thought. Just do a slow bulk of about 15 to 20 pounds of lean muscle using that program I posted and you will be just fine trust me.

 

[Masculinity]

I don't think they look gay, although some women may inevitably think you are.

If anything, you'll get more attention--especially if you're in good shape.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

OP. Nope. So long as you don't have noodles for arms and a flat chest, I prefer a fitted shirt of over any other. Kinda has to match the outfit though.

I have warn a tight white t-shirt to the office on dress-down Fridays a couple of times. A whole bunch of girls have tried ripping me a new one for it, saying I should be auditioning for Lev!s ads/joining a boy-band....

Obviously caught their attention, didn't it.

 

[sylvester the cat]

Skinny arms with kind of a gut. And you have no definition to your lats or delts. And that is a look gay men have. .

so you are saying gay men don't work out? with all due respect your worldview is somewhat narrow and could do with a work-out itself in order to broaden it a little.

Also i don't see any bulging gut in op's picture. as for his arms, i've seen skinnier. my verdict - gayness is largely down to actions (how you walk, carry yourself, talk, effeminacy and over preening, etc) you don't look gay in that pic OP.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Everybody thinks everybody is gay these days. If you wear a tight shirt? Gay If you are a loner? gay If you like to dance a lot? Gay If you don't drink? Gay ETC

 

[cordoncordon]

so you are saying gay men don't work out? with all due respect your worldview is somewhat narrow and could do with a work-out itself in order to broaden it a little.

Also i don't see any bulging gut in op's picture. as for his arms, i've seen skinnier. my verdict - gayness is largely down to actions (how you walk, carry yourself, talk, effeminacy and over preening, etc) you don't look gay in that pic OP.

LOL I live in S Cal. Go to Vegas all the time. Trust me I have seen it all. And yes I know there a lots of gay men who work out and have great bodies. But if you had read my post you would have seen where I said the stereotypical look for a gay guy...imo....is a skinny fat guy with a tight shirt on. Not saying all gay men are like that. Just that a lot of people perceive them that way.

 

[sylvester the cat]

LOL I live in S Cal. Go to Vegas all the time. Trust me I have seen it all. And yes I know there a lots of gay men who work out and have great bodies. But if you had read my post you would have seen where I said the stereotypical look for a gay guy...imo....is a skinny fat guy with a tight shirt on. Not saying all gay men are like that. Just that a lot of people perceive them that way.

fair enough but this:

http://img.escapade.co.uk/SALEHIRE/Large/27088.jpg?1

and OP's picture are a million miles apart. he's insecure as it is, why push him over the edge?

 

[JohnChops]

OK so you are 5'9" and 170 or so? About what I thought. Just do a slow bulk of about 15 to 20 pounds of lean muscle using that program I posted and you will be just fine trust me.

Putting on 20lbs of LBM is very very rare, that would take years but I do like Layne Norton's PHAT, even though Layne himself is not a natural even though he claims it.

You wouldn't even gain 20 lbs of LBM in a year without test/tren/dbol lol. You will gain a bit of fat because you will be in a calorie excess. No biggie, just eat clean to mitigate some of the fat gain.

 

[In2theGame]

If your going to wear a fitted t shirt, you have to have the body for it IMO. I wear Calvin Klein's Micro Modal t shirts in Large and they fit me perfectly without being too tight or too loose. I wore one last night and i literally had loads of women trying to hang around me. Muscular Lean body + Nice fitted shirt = Panty dropper.

 

[In2theGame]

Everybody thinks everybody is gay these days. If you wear a tight shirt? Gay If you are a loner? gay If you like to dance a lot? Gay If you don't drink? Gay ETC

I agree with this. Everything these days has to be or might be gay. If a dude is looking good with nice fitted clothes... Oh he's probably Gay. If your just hanging out with your guy friends, Oh they must be Gay. He's really good looking, Hes probably Gay. He smells good, He must be Gay. He looks confident, Gay. He likes to dance, Gay. Gay Gay Gay Gay, Every fvcking thing is Gay. Its just getting ridiculous.

 

[ImprovingJuan]

guys i dont have a gut, its just i was fat as f***, 6 months ago i was 86 kg i dropped to 78 by only eating protein and no carbs whatsoever, maybe that contributed to the insecurity and depression and being nervous dunno.

i dont do weights, just cardio and cycling, that's how i did it plus CLA+Lipo 6 and L-Carnitine. i recon i dont have a muscular body, but i dont think i look gay, i've seen worse guys pulling chicks with a tight shirt believe me.

i guess that nowadays with every gay coming out of the closet and even celebrities claiming to be gay, that sh1t is exacerbated a little imho.

 

[Bible_Belt]

You know what's gay? photobucket. That web site has become a complete piece of sh!t. imgur is a much better choice to host images.

I remember being in wrigleyville, which is the rich white trendy area on the north side of Chicago. I kept seeing buff guys in tight v-neck shirts. Then I noticed that a lot of them were holding hands.

 

[ImprovingJuan]

You know what's gay? photobucket. That web site has become a complete piece of sh!t. imgur is a much better choice to host images.

I remember being in wrigleyville, which is the rich white trendy area on the north side of Chicago. I kept seeing buff guys in tight v-neck shirts. Then I noticed that a lot of them were holding hands.

LOL

 

[gravityeyelids]

Going down a shirt size or two is one of the best things that nearly every guy can do in terms of his physical appearance, especially if you're in decent shape. I can't tell you how many guys i know that are otherwise attractive dudes but they look goofy as hell because their shirts don't fit properly.

If you are lean or skinny or muscular, you are not doing yourself any favors by wearing looser shirts. I know people that hit the gym like 4 times a week and have great ripped physiques but you can't tell at all because their clothes fit too loose.

When trying on a shirt, the shoulder seams should run right over the edge corners of your shoulders. Meaning, if the seam is closer to your traps or neck, it's usually too small. If it's down further, more on the side of your shoulder, it's usually too big.

My recommendation would be this. If you're a thin, lean, fit, but not very muscular and built guy, wear shirts that hug your body and are tapered but not skin tight. If you are muscular and have defined arms, shoulders, traps, etc...You can wear stuff that is surprisingly tight and you will look good. I'm talking like tight enough to where it basically hugs your entire torso and the shirt even has to stretch a bit to fit you.