Are pretty girls stupider?

bishopdonjuan

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Is it just me or is their a general pattern that a large percentage of physically attractive girls, aren't the most brightest, while those who aren't attractive have a larger propensity towards being bright. Is it because these "fine" girls have rested on their looks, and their looks only to get the majority of them men who will gravel at their feet, wait hand and knee for them, and eventually marry them, whereas the not so attractive know that they need to have a trump card in life?
 

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I think society has a lot to answer for on this one. I know of a woman who is a lawyer, and turned her back on it to become a swimsuit model, because she realised that she ain't gonna get her props being smart, so why not flaunt her bod instead?

Society children, society.
 

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it's More stupid* smart one:D
 

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I agree that this whole area is largely
driven by societal expectations and
and motivations.
How do you define 'bright', and how did
you determine a particular girl is
bright or not bright ? Education ,
verbal ability, or did you give them
a personal IQ test ?
I've met several very pretty women over the years that I would say are more intelligent than their husband's but superficially don't appear so because they don't have the professional vernacular and prestige of
their husband after his 20 years of college and working. But they are more adaptable , less rigid in their perceptions, and can learn something new alot faster than he can.
 

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Beautiful and Smart = You've got it made.

Smart but Ugly = You'll do okay, you've got the brains.

Beautiful but Dumb = You'll still do okay as long as you surround yourself with smart people to take care of you.

Dumb and Ugly = Sorry, not only are you inconvienent but you're an eyesore.

Funny and Sad but thats life.
 

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I have given this topic a lot of thought since I go to a good, academically rigorous university and here the chicks are generally lacking in the physical beauty department.

Without venturing into the realm of actually defining intelligence (I think we can all point out a stupid chick when we see one), I would definetely say that smarter chicks tend to be not as attractive. And I am not talking about IQ or booksmarts or any specific facet of intelligence, rather intelligence as a whole concept that encompasses all these things.

There are several theories which I have come across...

First theory: This could be a statistical thing. Statistically, there are not as many intelligent people as stupid ones. Thus, to come across someone who is intelligent and attractive is even rarer. And, by comparison, the attractive girls you run into are not generally intelligent because intelligence is rare.

Second theory: intelligent people do not care as much about their looks, and thus let their appearances slide. I personally think this is bs.

Third theory: it is not socially cool to be perceived as too intelligent because it makes the morons feel self-conscious about their own abilities and they hate you for it. Thus, those chicks who try to fit in with certain social groups who value physical appearance subjugate their own intelligence. They pretend not to know as much as they do, affect mannerisms of the stupid people they hang around with, stop learning on their own and seeking out new experiences, and, in sort, become stupid because they stunt their own intellectual growth.
I know people (guys and girls) who have gone this route. It's kinda sad because these people waste their own potential for self-improvement solely to ascribe to a social group that glorifies stupidity.

Fourth theory: what bishopdonjuan said, namely pretty girls don't have to rely on their intelligence.
I have noticed that cute girls (as opposed to hella fine girls) have a lot more game. They are better flirters, more socially apt, and generally know what they are doing when it comes to picking up men. Fine girls, in my experience, have no skills in this area, relying primarily on their looks to get dates.

Fifth theory: IT IS ONE BIG FVCKING COSMIC JOKE. This is the theory that I have picked because, really, there is nothing you can do about it except deal with it.

Oh yeah, and by the way, I bet the opposite idea is true as well, namely attractive intelligent men are hard to find.

Peace.
 

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If your talking about IQ level and all around potential intelligence, most of it is pre set at birth and has nothing to do with looks.

However, most women who do end up being successfull in this world, as far as career and money goes, are hideous looking. Take a look at forbes list of the richest females in the world. Moof them are butt ugly. My opinion? Most beautiful girls don't have to slave away in coprorate america and work hard. They can get rich and powerfull man to pay their bills.
 

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Not much correlation ...

except those of very, very low intelligence tend to look worse than people of average or better intelligence.

Am I so strange for being acquainted with a large number of very bright, attractive women?

I think the premise of this thread is a stereotype.
 

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Re: Not much correlation ...

Originally posted by Bonhomme
I think the premise of this thread is a stereotype.
Yes... Of course there are always exceptions. Of course intelligence and beauty are relative. But I am speaking about my personal experiences with a wide variety of people. So, perhaps not a preconceived "stereotype" but a sweeping "generalization".

Peace.
 

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Let me join in the generalizing fun!

I rate looks hard. I am good looking, I expect my women to be. My 8 is usually someones 9.5. I have never met a 9.5. I've seen them on TV and in Magozines... but never met one. With that in mind:

1-7.9's are of varied intelligence, and the # of 'intelligent' women has nothing to do with their given looks.
8-8.9 tend to be sparingly intelligent, because these are the women society looks up to. They are the HS popularity queens, class officers, captains of the cheerleading squad. They are confident, in the publics eye, and not so beautiful that everyone resents them.
9-9.4 [never talked to anyone any higher, but these women are frecking gorgeous, that tincy step away from being a well known model] tend to be intelligent, and at the very least unique. They are so good looking society turns away from them - women are jealous and guys are scared. Because of this isolation, good looking people are forced to find their own personalities, or COMPLETELY conform to society [sunshine girls].

All the way through 8th grade I was "that funny fat kid" everyone liked. Puberty hit me like a ton of bricks, and freshmen year came and nobody wanted to talk with me... guys I didn't even know threatened me, and women acted weird around me. Ppl were just freckin jealous.

Of course, these are generalizations <shrug> and we've ALL met exceptions!
 

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Being book smart can get you along to a extent, but if you have no common sense you are lost.
 
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