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Gambit2318

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so far i only had one serious relationship and i am in one now. This girl that i am dating now has been going out with her ex for 5 years and she is really emotionally messed up. I mean did i just pick up after his mess bc i really feel like i did. I mean this girl has everything going for me and looks are not the most important thing to me and she is like a 5. i did meet her online maybe thats why i feel like i just picked up after someone and trying to clean up the mess but i really can't and should not try to. What do you think i should do ditch her and lose out on something that might be good or stick with it and see what happenes?
 

MickoZ

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You like the girl, you feel comfortable with her. Stay with her.

You do not like her, you feel bad and forced to see her. Next her.

Simple as that.

Do what is the best for YOU. Do not forget to be respectful, but act for your own desire.

Being in a relationship is not an obligation. It shoulds help you have a better quality life, else is the relationship worth it.

That is all I have to say about this.
 

Gambit2318

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you know what my prob is its that i don't know what kind of gf i want to have and just settle
 

Ice Cold

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Originally posted by Gambit2318
you know what my prob is its that i don't know what kind of gf i want to have and just settle
Then keep fukkin this one and keep looking for the other one.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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