Are clubs REALLY a "meat-market"???

[squirrels]

There's this impression that dance clubs and the like are "meat markets", places where people go to hook up and have sex.

I'm not so sure that this is the case anymore...especially in common urban areas. I see so many bachelorette parties, birthday parties, girls' nights out, etc etc....that I don't get the impression at ALL that women are out to hook up.

Go to a tourist city like Vegas, or even a beach resort, and it's a lot easier to find women looking for men to "hook up" with. Go to your average city, and it seems like clubs are just party-places for groups of women...not really an ideal hook-up spot at all. Sure you can talk to the girls, but they'll only hang 5-10 minutes at best before their friends pull them away. And don't even TRY to dance with them...you'll get cut off by one c*ckbl*cker or another.

Is the "meat-market" a myth?

 

[Eyecandie4ya]

Originally posted by squirrels
There's this impression that dance clubs and the like are "meat markets", places where people go to hook up and have sex.

I believe this is somewhat true. Most of the girls in the club "are" looking for Mr. Perfect because some other female stated that there are nice men there. The Don Juans in the club know what most of the women are there for and use it to their advantage.

Some women are mad at the boyfriend/husband for some reason and look for validation in knowing that she still has it going on because the fellas at the club gives her that reassurance. And to get free drinks.

Most women are there to get boned. This is a fact. If not the same night than soon.

This is how it is in Atlanta

 

[dionysius_d]

Guys go to a club absolutely only for one reason.
Girls might have several reasons.

That's why I don't bring girls to a club.

 

[Starman]

Most girls do go to clubs to get sexed up..you just have to be discriminate..and weed out the chicks just lookin for an evening ego boost..from the ones with low self esteem who drink to oblivion to get hammered..get laid..then blame it on their drinking

Clubs ARE meat markets..people hook up with one another at one point or another

 

[bugsquish]

From my experiences I agree with most of the comments here. I go to the same club in Glasgow every weekend. EVERY chick who is single (and even some who aren't) are open to approaches. If you get rejected it's cus they don't fancy you or you screwed up your approach. Chicks I meet seem to have one of 3 goals.

1 - Ego
Almost every time I go out I meet chicks who just want their egos stroked on that night. They make out with you and grind but don't give you their number.

2 - Sex
I had a ONS with a chick who was cheating on her fiancé and she was drunk and horny when I met her - didn't have to do much. I saw her fiancé since and he's HUGE, so I don't mind avoiding her There must be a few chicks like this but not really my type, sluts.

3 - Romance
I have met a few chicks who seem to be really looking for love and romance, these seem to be the hottest too. I snared one as my GF. I met another one the other night still not sure what to do there. These chicks give you their number and will meet you again but you gotta work for the puss. Worth it though!

On ****blockers
Show them a little attention too if you are worried. I find that UG friends seem to back off a little when I approach my main target. If your target likes you they won't let their UG friends get in the way. If they let themselves be ****blocked, then I take it as an indirect rejection.

 

[Player_Supreme]

1. Women spend hours putting on their make up...getting dressed, driving to a club...just so they can have fun with their girlfriends?...or maybe they are hoping that they will meet "the one" so they don't have to sit at home on a fri or sat night or have to go out with their girlfriend and compete for attention.

2. sure bachelorette parties are out there but if you look deeper there are also alot of available women out there too. I have gotten to women in bachelorette parties as wells as a brides groom (several years ago at a club called American Live).

3. Single women are available. They want to meet someone who will sweep them off their feet, someone they can brag to their friends about how they "caught this man".

4. You gotta be smooth when you approach women in groups. What you gotta do is study the group and pick out the leader. You've all seen the dominate female in the pack...that is the one you want...cause she is the one who has the balls to bone you on the first night and not care what her friends think...she is the one they all look to for advice. don't go for the blond easy pickings one cause the leader will co*ck block you...I'm sure you've seen that happen...where you try to dance with the easy one and "she" will come over and pull her away...

5. Be smooth when you approach her and be a man. Don't bow down to her or you will lose her respect. Since she is the leader she is the one who really wants the most attention and will do the deed with you in payment for it.

peace

 

[bugsquish]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
4. You gotta be smooth when you approach women in groups. What you gotta do is study the group and pick out the leader. You've all seen the dominate female in the pack...that is the one you want...cause she is the one who has the balls to bone you on the first night and not care what her friends think...she is the one they all look to for advice. don't go for the blond easy pickings one cause the leader will co*ck block you...I'm sure you've seen that happen...where you try to dance with the easy one and "she" will come over and pull her away...

Genius! I never thought of it that way...

 

[Derek Flint]

This is why I find myself avoiding dance clubs and going more to the Pub / Bar & Grill type places: Women go to Dance Clubs to Dance.

Women that go to a Pub type places where there is no music or dancing are there to drink and meet Men.

 

[iqqi]

Women go to Dance Clubs to Dance

that's why i go. i love to dance.

i have maybe actually given my number to two men in the past year and that is it.

but it does seem like alot go just to hook up for sex, and it is so sad. makes me feel kinda depressed. thats when i have another drink, and go dance into oblivion!