This is the greatest crime of the post-feminist generation. Most young adults have been indoctrinated with the sensitized fiction that they are special and therefore deserve rewards and riches irrespective of effort.
Even alpha males and DJs have it more difficult because women have been trained to expect and respond differently than how they should naturally. Their natural inclinations are to be feminine and submissive, and respond to the power, sexuality, suaveness, and indifference that alpha males and DJs naturally communicate. But a generation of misandrist feminists have demonized white men as the enemy and tried to indoctrinate women with the fantasies that the world runs on their inner beauty, feelings, sensitivities, and fears. The '70s feminists chanted, "I don't need a man," their daughters grew up learning, "I don't want a man," and their sons grew up learning, "I don't want to be a man."
So when alpha males and DJs wind up powerfully being willing to walk away if a woman won't hold herself accountable for things that an entire generation of women have escaped accountability for, it will be foreign to most women, even if it's what they naturally want. I submit that the problem is that most women don't know what they actually respond to and have lost touch with it, don't understand themselves, and have unfortunately become more rational which is in stark contrast to their natural inclinations. They're confused themselves.