Are all the good women taken?

[RZA26]

Do many guys think like this in their twenties:

"I'll have plenty of fun until Im about 30, then I'll find me the right girl and settle down"

and then realize at 30 that

A)they're facing an unfavorable women-men ration as the good-looking women are all taken (as women are much bigger on committing then men)

B) A gets even worse, because it's not as simple as "settling down" (as finding a pretty chick with a good personality can be a long journey)

?

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Actually, it's the opposite.

Girls want wealthier, more powerful men. Men want younger, more attractive women. The older and more successful you get, the more attractive you become. (proving you don't sabotage your brain with dirty old man thoughts), and the less competition you have.

There will ALWAYS be a large pool of young, attractive women to game. Until you are ready to settle down, sharpen your qualifying and disqualifying skills. So when/if you are ready, you'll know exactly what to look for, and exactly how sort and qualify.

 

[Jeffst1980]

When you're 30, there is a MUCH larger pool of available women than when you're 25. If you look after yourself, this should be the prime of your life: you have financial stability, life experience, and game- all while still appearing physically young.

Settling down should not be a goal- it should come about organically, whenever you decide it is the right time for YOU. It shouldn't be because you are worried you might "miss your chance." Otherwise, you will be in for a rude awakening when you realize that marriage unleashes a floodgate of brand new problems.

If you feel that your dating pool is limited, do something about it. Make new friends. Move into a major city. Become a more interesting person. There are PLENTY of single girls out there at EVERY age.

Guys that are having problems getting girls in their 30s are usually the same ones that had problems in their 20s.