Approval: the #1 reason why a woman has sex on a one night stand?

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Lets say a guy is really good at picking up girls at bars.

He's high value, challenges, commands, leads, teases, qualifies, etc.

He brings home many women.

Of course he creates comfort and is fun, trusted etc.

Women will sleep him him for a number of reasons...

But what is the most common reason most of these women end up having sex w him? Is it to win his approval?
 

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has status and alpha vibes.

they crave men who go against the grain.

this is why you should limit your spending on first dates.

I can guarantee she has purchased gifts for an alpha male that week to win him over after he ****ed her good and went non chalant.
 

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She has vaginal tingles and he quickly moved to the top of her Desdinova´s High Score List
 
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For non slooty girls, it is mostly timing tbh. Catch a girl at the right time in a social setting and she will put out for any guy she finds attractive that night. If you are going out on a planned first date with a girl, she will more than likely have her anti sloot shield up and have plans on not sleeping with you that night.

Again, timing makes a difference.

Is she trying to get over some guy by just sleeping around?

Is she dating a guy that treats her like shvt, but she still has feelings for so she’s just window shopping….Bad Timing

Wants to end a dry spell…Good Timing

Is already with a guy she likes…Bad Timing

Is monkey branching from her current partner….Good Timimg
 

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He chose to pursue the woman who was interested because of preexisting conditions as mentioned above^ with timing being paramount

He gave off the vibe of a time constraint and the fact that it was a limited time opportunity for her.
 

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New 21s going out on a Friday/ Saturday night.
 

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She meets me. And I meat her.

case closed
 

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confidence and sexuality. Status is important for initial attraction but honestly ive gotten girls where iw as new to the area without having any status just by looking at her like a piece of meat
 

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Even the most high value and experienced guys I know say that ONS is pretty rare and random when it comes to meeting girls at bars/parties.

For me it's so rare that I think ONS are a Hollywood invention that doesn't happen in real life.

But when it comes to high value YouTubers, apparently ONS happens when you look like a Chad in your OLD profile.
 

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Women have overnight stands under a few circumstances.
Women hate to be slt shammed, it can take them years to recover from cheating or sleeping around. So they avoid that.

Women will have one night stands if A) she is out of town B) She is out at a sexual venue (bar,club,etc).

there is no reprocussion so she would be more open to it.

So remember. Always go for the chicks who are from out of town and out with their girls. It's about to go down.
 

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I just assumed they were horny... I personally do not think ONS’s are rare. I try and avoid them... I always think dammit how many d!cks were in this skank if she’s willing to bang after knowing me for an hour... and doesn’t care about a rubber .

I think every single guys trip I have been on in the last 15 years I’ve had the opportunity for a ONS... maybe I give off a male slut vibe or something
 

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I've had several. Some of them I never saw again, some I did. I never tried very hard to pursue the girl either. I made my self available and let them do the rest, basically acted like a woman does when a man is pursuing her.

Girl 1:
Was at a country bar, this girl was actually trying to get with my friend. He was tall and nice looking, girls were always after him but he had no game, and was a big pu$$y. I quickly saw she was getting turned off and I put myself in position after telling him to bow out. A few drinks later I was at her house. This girl was recently divorced and I'm guessing I wasn't the first dude she fuhked out of a bar. I think this girl was basically horny coming out of a boring marriage. I also found her on Bumble and she was talking to another friend of mine.

Girl 2:
Met this one at a concert. She came onto me. Just a young girl in her 20's about half my age. We had a lot in common and came from similar backgrounds. This one was all about timing and sometimes people with the same energy have a way of finding each other.

Girl 3:
Met this one at a $trip club. Complimented her on her song selection when I approached the stage. Tipped her $3 on stage. Told her to stop by my table afterwards and she did. We connected thru music. After she got off work she met me at a bar. Had a few drinks, and Later that night she was in my bed. She was comfortable with me and the timing was right.

Girl 4:
Started texting a girl on POF late on a Friday afternoon. Turned the conversation sechsual. Soon I'm getting nudes. About 11pm I am headed to her apartment 45min away. We had two drinks and she almost shut things down. So we drank some more and more foreplay. Had crazy sex for 3hrs. This girl was straight horny and bored. Her pics were old and she was straight up crazy. She blew up my phone for two weeks following our encounter making all sorts of threats.

I've had a few others I met on dating apps, and started texting them on a Friday/Saturday night and would push the conversation sechsual. They were usually at home, bored, horny, and drinking. I'd always have to drive and it was usually 45min-1hr away but always ended up having sechs. The recipe was usually the same. None of these dating app one night stands were that impressive, All HB7's, with issues.

Girl 5:
Hit it off with a $tripper while having conversation at my table. I went to the VIP with her and spent $150. When we are done she says she has to go work a bachelor party for but she wants to hang out afterwards. She is a traveling stripper and is in town for a week so she has a hotel room. She gives me the key to her hotel room and she is off to work the bachelor party. I photograph every thing in the room and go thru all of her personal belongings in case this deal goes bad. I texted all the info to my buddy. She finally shows up and the sechs was horrible. Next morning I'm headed out the door, and she asks if I will take her to breakfast. I told her no, I really wasn't impressed. I told her we could of had a good deal going but she messed it up. She then begs to suhk my dihk in the doorway and apologizes. I say no thanks and never saw her again.

I never used any magic PUA pickup lines. I never tried very hard. Sechs was never my goal. I was also never the best looking nor the tallest guy in the room. But I always smelled good, was confident, fun, and had good conversations with women. A lot of luck boils down to preparation and putting yourself in the settings to make these things happen. You have to bring something to the table that other men don't. For me its the ability to connect with a stranger thru conversation.
 

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Women will have one night stands if A) she is out of town
a few females I know drink in surrounding towns about 30 minutes away and have a rooster of side lovers in these towns.

they then return to there town and housing estate and people in that demographic are none wiser
 

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It's a matter of timing, logistics, and some element of male game, mainly looks. Game is always some combination of looks, money, status, and persona.

With same night lays from night venues and first dates off of swipe apps, looks are the element of game that men can control that matter most. If a man looks good (6'0"+, muscles, good facial aesthetics, and some style), he can get laid.

Timing is unknowable. On a first date or in the bar/nightclub, no man will know what's been going on with her. It's possible to screen a woman for likelihood of being DTF quickly, but that's not foolproof. Always escalate.

Logistics are crucial. Your home or hotel room is best if it is walking distance from the date venue or nightlife venue. In the past decade, I haven't lived within walking distance of typically good date spot bars and pickup bars. The best date and pickup bars have been a short Uber/Lyft/taxi ride away (roughly 10-15 mins). That's not insurmountable but not ideal for same night/first date bangs. I have known men who have been persuasive enough to get same night bar sex while living a 10-15 minute ride in a shared ride service away from the venue. For me, I have found that effort to be more difficult and decided to pursue a longer term strategy that involves dates and extended relationships.
 

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Yep being able to be in a nightlife area and having a suite (balcony) at an upper shelf hotel two three blocks away is crucial.

Cannot tell you how many times the suggestion of “want to see the view from my 36th floor corner suite balcony?” Has worked. Of course have drinks and snacks staged too.

Make sure the concierge and doormen know you by name - slip them a $20 and ask them to greet you whenever you are accompanied by name.
 

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well if your main venue is parties and bars then of course you will have more ONS. If you are going on dates then it’s much harder.
This is true...Nearly every ONS has occured on a first meeting at a venue with alcohol and music well after dark...And Physical escalation occured because it was a low risk endeavor. If she didn't play along, someone else would.

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