approach

[mustfirstregister]

if you are not physically attracted to the girl you are approaching. what would you say to her or talk about when you approach her. Sometimes when I approach she doesn't ask any questions back and I'm the only one running the show.

 

[RedZone]

If you are not attracted to them...then why would you want to talk to them in the first place?

 

[mustfirstregister]

If you are not attracted to them...then why would you want to talk to them in the first place?

If the girl is not physically attracted to me, I mean.

 

[PapiChulo]

Just be light, casual and funny-that's the way to go. I would start with a joke. If you are thinking about ONS at a bar somewhere-forget about it-it's like beating a dead horse.

 

[mustfirstregister]

Just be light, casual and funny-that's the way to go. I would start with a joke. If you are thinking about ONS at a bar somewhere-forget about it-it's like beating a dead horse.

Could you elaborate more. I didn't really get it.

 

[blueline]

well, if she's not attracted to you from the get go, you're more or less done.

 

[PapiChulo]

well, if she's not attracted to you from the get go, you're more or less done.

yes, but let that not scare you, as any other chump would run away. Get in there and see what can be done, because you could spark something, or literally advertise yourself to other "interested" women. Open yourself to chances and possibilities, because from my experience if you keep sitting on your butt, no good/bad/awesome things will happen to you.


Plus, you learn how to diffuse them and win over them women. if you keep wits about yourself- you are already there-they wont know what hit them.


Good like to you! Go get em b!tches!

 

[Coffeebazooka]

Some women are shy, some got ***** shields, some women are tired, some women are not in the right state of mind to be approached (change it by persisting), some women are just not attracted or have boyfriends, some are just messed up in the head or spoiled *****s.

Make the ho say no is a good plan in some cases. Keep talk to her in a light hearted way and see if she changes. ****y funny or maybe a neg could work ok.

 

[joe henny]

If she is not interested why waste your time? Why sell yourself out trying to make her interested, trying to please her? Uh uh homie you are the man. Let me re-phrase that. you are the MAN. So why waste your time trying to prove yourself to some hoe who does'nt see it when you can find plenty of other females who do see it.

Makes no sense to struggle to swim upstream when you can happily float downstream

 

[kingsam]

these are very defeating mindsets... you often dont know the randomness of getting laid,
if you are basing it of IOI's then you are making it hard for yourself, dont wait for them, dont "try"

ASSUME ATTRACTION

its still legal to talk to girls you dont fancy/dont fancy you... its called being social....

 

[ALPHAROMEO]

I Am A Rep

actually when i ring a broad for the first time i pass myself off as a salesman i really do i ve found that s a cool way of getting into a convo with her ! it s INDIRECT and it does my nerves a power of good

i might say " my name is jim crabapple i work for such or such company
2 seconds a quick Q " do you think the AMERICAN people should speak an extra foreign language "?

WAIT FOR HER REACTION IF it s a negative one quickly say ' i m playin aroind it s me jim we met the other day "

AGAIN it s a cool way to start the convo and bust your legitimate anxiety