Apparently I'm arrogant.

[Warrior74]

I was talking to a female associate yesterday who informed me that I'm arrogant and think I'm gods gift to women and all the girls in our social circle think so too. I don't think laughing in her face afterwards helped.

I asked her why (after I stopped laughing) and she said, "see, right there, you laughed at me". She also added that I always seem so ****y for someone who doesn't have 'anything'. I told her that yah, I'm broke, but that doesn't stop me from being awesome, having money would just make me more awesome. Cue dramatic eye roll.

She said that she heard I was trying to holler at two of her friends and that everyone knows that I'm a wanna be player. I told her she was just mad that I turned her down back in the day, but when she was single to holla holla holla. She just rolled her eyes again. She said they both know what I'm doing and that one of them has a boyfriend, and neither is interested. I said, 'so she has a boyfriend but she's talking about me huh? " and gave her a wink. I think her head was about to explode.

I haven't been doing anything but chatting to these girls on text and facebook between jobs. I really don't have the time to peruse anybody. Still its fun to know that's my reputation according to hot-crazy-must-be-center-of-attention female-associate-who-likes-to-gossip. Shes one of those girls that HAS to be the hottest girl in the room and is never interested in you unless one of her friend/enemies are interested in you. She'll talk shyt about me for half a month after this, all the while thinking about me. Back in the day when I had a family she threw herself at me hard, but I turned her down because I loved my girl. I don't think she's ever forgiven me for that. haha.

 

[L B]

Love it when they try to shame you and you throw it right back at them. They don't know how to counter because most people don't fight back.

I always enjoy staying neutral while others are trying their hardest to piss me off. They end up pissing themselves silly in the process. I just laugh it off.

 

[sstype]

I was talking to a female associate yesterday who informed me that I'm arrogant and think I'm gods gift to women and all the girls in our social circle think so too. I don't think laughing in her face afterwards helped.

I asked her why (after I stopped laughing) and she said, "see, right there, you laughed at me". She also added that I always seem so ****y for someone who doesn't have 'anything'. I told her that yah, I'm broke, but that doesn't stop me from being awesome, having money would just make me more awesome. Cue dramatic eye roll.

She said that she heard I was trying to holler at two of her friends and that everyone knows that I'm a wanna be player. I told her she was just mad that I turned her down back in the day, but when she was single to holla holla holla. She just rolled her eyes again. She said they both know what I'm doing and that one of them has a boyfriend, and neither is interested. I said, 'so she has a boyfriend but she's talking about me huh? " and gave her a wink. I think her head was about to explode.

I haven't been doing anything but chatting to these girls on text and facebook between jobs. I really don't have the time to peruse anybody. Still its fun to know that's my reputation according to hot-crazy-must-be-center-of-attention female-associate-who-likes-to-gossip. Shes one of those girls that HAS to be the hottest girl in the room and is never interested in you unless one of her friend/enemies are interested in you. She'll talk shyt about me for half a month after this, all the while thinking about me. Back in the day when I had a family she threw herself at me hard, but I turned her down because I loved my girl. I don't think she's ever forgiven me for that. haha.

I think you did a great job putting that AW back in her place.

Having said that, I personally try to avoid being too overtly friendly and flirty with women in my social circle. From my past experience, hitting on multiple women in your social circle is the fastest way to get blackballed one way or the other. There's way too many jealous sh*t-talking dudes and judgmental women to make it worth trying to just sex up one of them. People will call you names like sleazy, horndog, wannabe player, and then your reputation will be tainted whenever some new girl joins the circle "Oh stay away from him, he's such a sleaze"

I found that keeping a low profile is the way to go. Keeps them intrigued and triggers a bit of competition among the women to try and open you up.

Would you guys agree with this?

 

[backbreaker]

see i'm the polar opposite. women / people think i 'm arrogant because i DON'T associative with them lol. in real life I keep to myself alot unless I like you. And I don't like alot of people.

what i find ironic is that the same people who want me to talk to them, men and women, and want to be my friend, didn't want **** to do with me 8-9 years ago.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Womaneez: "You're arrogant."

Translation: "You're doing it right."

 

[The Duke]

I've had 3 girlfriends tell me I was arrogant and ****y as well. They also told me how I was the greatest guy on the planet.

Its a compliment and they are attracted to you. Stay true to yourself no matter what they tell you. Women say all shorts of schitt all the time.

 

[Warrior74]

I think you did a great job putting that AW back in her place.

Having said that, I personally try to avoid being too overtly friendly and flirty with women in my social circle. From my past experience, hitting on multiple women in your social circle is the fastest way to get blackballed one way or the other. There's way too many jealous sh*t-talking dudes and judgmental women to make it worth trying to just sex up one of them. People will call you names like sleazy, horndog, wannabe player, and then your reputation will be tainted whenever some new girl joins the circle "Oh stay away from him, he's such a sleaze"

I found that keeping a low profile is the way to go. Keeps them intrigued and triggers a bit of competition among the women to try and open you up.

Would you guys agree with this?

Usually I do. To be honest she totally caught me off guard because I didn't know she knew one of them. They recently started hanging out. So when I'm caught off guard I tend to go big. If I'm going to get blown out of the water, I might as well enjoy the ride.

Anyway Miss AW associate is not a coworker. She's just a chic I know, she used to be a DJ groupie with a rich husband back when I used to DJ and throw shows. Now she's a divorced rock band groupie with a bunch of plastic surgery and still trying to lord over the younger girls in our scene. I'm pretty sure she's completely **** blocked me by now. The last time I turned her down, she was drunk and tried to kiss me while my girl was in the other room. I told her to stop making a fool of herself and she stopped speaking to me for a year. She is still fvcking gorgeous but I've been around her to know she's worthless other than as a quick lay. And even then she's going to put all of your business out in the street.

But being an alpha female (hahahaha), she does not respect weak men or men who take her seriously. She has a horde of hangers on who kiss her ass constantly. I refuse to be one of those guys.

*ninja edit* Don't get me wrong. She's not some evil wicked witch type AW. I mean she's done some rotten things in the past, but who hasn't? We are friendly and actually like each other's company, our girls play together on occasion (we actually ran into each other taking our girls to see The Secret of Arriety and were talking while they were playing video games). But I just know how she is. I know that the poor saps that let the nice charming sweet version of her blind them usually regretted it. I just trust her to be her and I like pushing her buttons.

 

[EastWind]

Wasn't there this wisdom about how, when you are criticized, you are doing something right...

 

[vatoloco]

"The day I have no enemies is the day I know I am no longer relevant"

-vatoloco​

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