Anyone for revenge? Is it worth it?

[Lost1]

Does anyone think it's worth it to take revenge on a girl that has hurt you bad? I have an opportunity this weekend, not sure if I should take it? This girl is begging me to hangout, she lives out of town and is coming into town for a birthday party where we'd be going to bars.

I was going to ask her to come to town a little early so we could go out for dinner. I planned on ordering something real nice, then proceed to the bathroom but really making my way to the door.

Is it AFC to hang with her? She's blown me off a couple times, not nexting is AFC right?

Or is it childish to mess with her like that?

Or is she getting what she deserves if I leave her high and dry at the table?

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Revenge never accomplished anything.

If she hurt you, chances are 9/10 that you let her in some way.

Just cut contact with her and move on with your life. That's the only good revenge... let her know in actions that she means nothing to you.

 

[Lost1]

thanks for the .02 i would love to hear everyones spectrum on the subject!

 

[lookyoung]

Move on revenge is not worth it. What is hurting her going to do for you. Your a DJ you move on like a man. There is a saying that says revenge is like throwing hot coal on someone you may burn them but your hands get burned at the same time.

 

[619joe]

Whats that gonna do for you?

Give you satisfaction that shes gonna be pissed as hell?Then what?Dont stress about it just cut contact and move on.

 

[SharinganUser]

Revenge is a little extreme don't you think? The fact of the matter is that she didn't hurt you, you hurt yourself. That's that.

I would say that you should take this oppertunity, not as revenge, but as a chance to just have some good times with this girl. I could be fun, and it could lead to getting ass. Or it could be terrible, but that is up to you. I'd say its an oppertunity to accomplish something that you obiviously failed at in the past.

Just forget all this crap about getting revenge. If you want to have sex with her(not vengence sex)*, then go for it. If you dont have sex with her, then you arent any worse than you were before.

The issue here isn't about wether or not you should get revenge on her. We were all at a point where we wanted revenge, but you know what happens to those guys that keep thinking about it? They become an empty shell of a human-being. They get sick in the head.


EDIT: *Vengence Sex is... AWESOME! jking

 

[Lost1]

Yeah actually, we've been talkin alot on the phone mainly but she's been hinting toward some booty hahahah! Thanks!

 

[Ken785]

Yeah actually, we've been talkin alot on the phone mainly but she's been hinting toward some booty hahahah! Thanks!

fvcking the sh!t out of her is the best revenge.

You: "yeah?!? you like that?!? you like it don't you, you fvckin wh0re! say my name b!tch!"

HER: "Oh!!! OHHH!!! OHhHh!! AGHHH!!!"

 

[Lost1]

fvcking the sh!t out of her is the best revenge.

You: "yeah?!? you like that?!? you like it don't you, you fvckin wh0re! say my name b!tch!"

HER: "Oh!!! OHHH!!! OHhHh!! AGHHH!!!"

LOL hahahah!:crackup:

 

[KontrollerX]

Depends on the severity of the offense.

 

[KarmaSutra]

I posted this little nugget in one of DongFu's threads:

It fits appropriately with any revenge labeled thread. This was in regard to putting up with sh!t and b!tch tests.

Enjoy:

I wasn't aware of my own DJ-ness back then. I have always been a rather shrude cat but it wasn't until I came here and began walking my path that I realized what I had been doing was what we label as DJ MENtality.

Some of my rebuttals were rather idiosyncratic of my boy-man mentality but consisted of:

"Do whatever just suck my d!ck."

"If you're going to be b!tchy about it then I'm putting it in your butt."

"Fvck you."

"Alright, whatever just shut up."

Funny sidebar about this particular ex girlfriend. I was hanging out at her Mom's place and GF went to pickup her sister from work. We're chatting about nothing and her Mom switched the tv over to the vcr (this indicates how long ago this was) and on the tv is a chick sucking c0ck like no tomorrow!

I know what's up and pull her Mom over to me and kiss her playing itty biggy t!tty. Of course she starts fumbling with my buttonfly's and gets them off to give me one of the best oral lessons I've ever recieved. Off the hook good.

She recieves my gift and goes to the ladies room to gargle and rinse out my goo. Short while later GF and cvnt jr get there and she can smell it.

She knows.

Something happened but we ain't talking. Never said a word UNTIL I came home from vacation in CT to find half my sh!t gone.

Then, I told her Dad (that's where she moved back with MY stuff) that if I didn't have all of my things back at my house within two hours, his neighbors and everyone at his church would have glossy 5x7's of his beloved eldest daughter taking acupuncture up her dirtchute with my beef injection and
8x10's of her giving me mouth to meatwhistle rescucitation.

After about an hour and a half they roll in to my yard and all of my stuff has been replaced where it had been taken.

Just goes to show that it certainly does pay to keep something from every relationship in your back pocket. There will ulitmately come a rainy day in EVERY relationship.

Interesting postscrip to the ex GF; After my things were back and they were leaving is when I sprung it on them both that every time they had kissed thier Mom/Wife they had sucked my d!ck by-proxy!

"Have a great life." were the last words I uttered to them both.

Not the last time I had fvcked her Mom though .

 

[fresh_to_death]

Dude...revenge. There's no other way.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Maybe she is setting you up?