anyone ever have one of those days...

[tbhforever]

edit: im cool now i was just pissed. mods please delete

 

[jeffthechef]

ahaha just answerd your other post.

if your friensd have been avoiding contact for a long period of time..they are probably trying to tell you something without hurting your feelings..but if you're good friends with all of them, it's probably somethign small
the only way to know is by asking them

stop thinking about what some of your friends are doing and think about what you could be doing

you could be improving yourself
working out, reading, studying, etc.

you could be setting up plans
make your own outing, call some people up

you could be improving relations with other friends
start some brief conversations/plans...make new friends


dont spend time thinking about what you're missing out on...think about what you could be doing to improve your life and thus, the lives of others

 

[Mofongo]

It has happened to me plenty of times and there is usually a reason for not being invited. The reasons have been that I was too boring and that they thought I would just sit there and do nothing, another reason was that I would get drunk and act stupid. Some people also don't like others who are always trying to hit on all the females. Your friends reasons might be different than these examples and the only way to find out is by asking, and like jeffthechef said "You could be improving yourself". In my case, I already knew what the reasons where but I used to say to myself "This is the way I am and I'm not going to change for anyone", well this attitude didn't get me anywhere until I decided to change some things that I knew I was doing wrong. Also, make more friends, the tactics that we learn in here can also be used to meet friends, by just being the charming outgoing person that people like to be around, guys notice that too and think to themselves "This is a cool guy, I would like to hang out with him, look at him he is not afraid to talk to girls, maybe he can help me out" and that is how you make new friends that will look up to you and consider you the alpha male and have great respect for you. These are just my experiences and my 2 cents.

 

[tbhforever]

it was only today. and im feeling better about it now.
one friend invited me to a baseball game and another one called me but i didnt answer cause i didnt feel like hanging out with him
im pretty sure it was a one day thing and im about to make moves today to make sure it doesnt happen again

 

[jeffthechef]

wow..you were worried after only 1 day?

you really need some independence

 

[eaglez1177]

Ya no offense, but based off this thread and the other one, the OP sounds like a very needy person