Anyone else feel a bit creepy using this site?

[Jariel]

I've been feeling it for a while now. Every time I write about women I'm seeing or any scenarios I'm involved in, I feel weird. I'm all for helping guys out with self-esteem problems, fears etc, but "how to get [read: manipulate] her to do x?" posts, field reports and especially lay reports are creepy!

It's not quite as bad a lock of hair on your pillow or 100s of photos of an unsuspecting girl on your wall, but (in my mind at least) it ranks on the same level of creepiness.

I think if I ever saw a FR/LR by a woman involving me I'd get freaked out big time and get a restraining order! And if there was a photo of me included, I'd go mad!

I'm actually getting more and more cautious about posting in general just in case someone I know happens to identify me.

Am I the only one to think this way?

 

[crowes22]

Originally posted by Jariel
Am I the only one to think this way?

No.

 

[undesputable]

I dont even know what youre trying to say.....but to answer the question on the title, no i dont feel creepy

 

[CLOONEY]

Your probably like me and paranoid, but that was an emotion given to us for a reason! I have had things bought up about me to girls I have been with! Causing serious problems! Just watch out who knows about you on this site, and be careful should you choose to post pictures! They are the things that got me done in!

 

[diplomatic_lies]

Most people don't appreciate "general learning" (learning stuff outside school), and there is often a stigma attached to learning soft skills such as charisma from books or internet sites.

See, people think that Bill Gates "got lucky" to become rich, and Bill Clinton was "naturally charismatic". Read both of their biographies, and you'd be surprised at how horrible their initial attempts at business/politics were!

(The fact that 99% of self-improvement sites are either new age crap or fakes sold by slick-suited shiesters doesn't help either)

There's nothing wrong with learning soft skills. After all, those same people laughing at you won't be laughing when you're out with a hot woman, while they're home alone with Mr Hand for company.

 

[comic_relief]

Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
There's nothing wrong with learning soft skills. After all, those same people laughing at you won't be laughing when you're out with a hot woman, while they're home alone with Mr Hand for company.

Agreed, some people tried to put me down about using this site and how they were picking up girls that were hot with B's and C's. I told them about how I was picking up girls with D's and DD's. It shut them right up

 

[Mr. Mystery II]

Lol! Thats why I chose the name Mr. Mystery, I didn't want people to know who I was and I couldn't think of anything witty at the time.

And Clooney, why post pics? Natually thats what is gonna happen...

Mr. Mystery

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
See, people think that Bill Gates "got lucky" to become rich, and Bill Clinton was "naturally charismatic". Read both of their biographies, and you'd be surprised at how horrible their initial attempts at business/politics were!

(The fact that 99% of self-improvement sites are either new age crap or fakes sold by slick-suited shiesters doesn't help either)

There's nothing wrong with learning soft skills. After all, those same people laughing at you won't be laughing when you're out with a hot woman, while they're home alone with Mr Hand for company.

What you are describing and what Jariel is missing in the posts he has read so far is authenticity and congruency. Like you described, both Bill's didn't start off as successful as they are now; however it should also be stated that they aren't fooling anyone to just 'believe' in their success by tricks and tactics.

They are authentically good businessmen and orators respectively. They learned the skills necessary to and their actions are congruent to the persona's they emote. No tricks, no subterfuge, no BS.

As we know that 'get rich quick' schemes seldom pay off, the same holds true with 'get popular quick' schemes. One may get lucky in fooling a woman once, twice or even a few times; the fact is that there will be those that will see though the facade.

Jariel, you should read the DJ Bible and threads throughout the forum and use what works for him and pass on what doesn't feel right to you.

 

[Jariel]

I am getting a touch of paranoia I guess. It's usually when I'm posting about specific women I always feel a bit devious discussing private problems or experiences on a public forum.

I believe I've left all manipulation tactics in the past and try to be 100% genuine with people, which may be why I'm starting to feel this forum is like a dirty secret.

 

[penkitten]

i dont even feel creepy and im a chick

 

[Climax]

Originally posted by penkitten
im a chick

No ur not

Anyways... I dont care if someone i know see's what I post here, I have nothing to hide If they have a problem, then thats THEIR problem, not mine, and if they dont like it, then they can go f*ck themselves.... softly


Laterz...

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

A very small percentage of the population frequents this site.... The things discussed on here are for a select few people who are open minded enough to accept the info.

It's kinda like in The Matrix... Morpheus tells Neo that some of "them" just aren't ready to be unplugged. The same goes for this place. Most people just accept what they see and hear as the truth and don't know how to REALLY handle dating, and women. That's why none of them come to this site, because they just don't want to accept that their "reality" as far as girls and dating is concerned is cloaked by AFC chump rolemodels in our society.

You're a member of a group of like-minded individuals and you shouldn't feel any shame for coming here to better yourself. Just don't tell anyone about this site and don't use real names... You can even change subtle details about locations and such, when you share a story...if that makes you feel better.

 

[undesputable]

Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
A very small percentage of the population frequents this site.... The things discussed on here are for a select few people who are open minded enough to accept the info.

yea very very small percentage....we have like 17000 members and about half of them have never posted or posted once

 

[George Gordon]

Originally posted by Jariel
I am getting a touch of paranoia I guess. It's usually when I'm posting about specific women I always feel a bit devious discussing private problems or experiences on a public forum.

Does it creep you out that women get together in bathrooms to talk about guys and how they can capture them? It's been happening since grade school. And it will probably continue well into your experience, even after you're married and have kids (if you decide to).

Is there really any difference between bathroom congregations and this site? The purpose of both is to discuss 'game'. The only difference is that where you access this site is not surrounded by tiolets.

!GEORGE GORDON!

 

[PRMoon]

Originally posted by Jariel
I've been feeling it for a while now. Every time I write about women I'm seeing or any scenarios I'm involved in, I feel weird. I'm all for helping guys out with self-esteem problems, fears etc, but "how to get [read: manipulate] her to do x?" posts, field reports and especially lay reports are creepy!

It's not quite as bad a lock of hair on your pillow or 100s of photos of an unsuspecting girl on your wall, but (in my mind at least) it ranks on the same level of creepiness.

I think if I ever saw a FR/LR by a woman involving me I'd get freaked out big time and get a restraining order! And if there was a photo of me included, I'd go mad!

I'm actually getting more and more cautious about posting in general just in case someone I know happens to identify me.

Am I the only one to think this way?

I said it before and I'll say it again, if you're going to be a DJ you're going to have to stay off of the drugs there son.

 

[h2o]

Originally posted by Jariel
Am I the only one to think this way?

ah...sort of. i mean, i don't feel creepy using this site...i rather feel empowered.

because i know stuff that 90% of other guys out there either wouldn't accept or don't know. i feel priveledged to have access to this knowledge.

true though, know one wants their privacy invaded...and personally, the only people who i would not want reading my posts here would be my parents (and sister), simply because they hold conservative views towards relationships, marriage, monagomy, etc.

other than that, i'm the same person to almost everyone, so i don't have anything or any facades to hide

 

[tj]

I think websites that you have to pay for are seriously creepy..porn etc. This site is mainly for shts and giggles. Most of this stuff is common sense.

 

[George Gordon]

Originally posted by GodsGiftToWomen
That is why a secret website with a forum with a password needed to even view the forum is a great idea.

Who said that they don't exist?

 

[Flogger]

Originally posted by George Gordon
The only difference is that where you access this site is not surrounded by tiolets.

Actually...

3 words: dsl, wi-fi, laptop