Anyone else at the point where you are pulling more girls than your friends?

[Sofomore]

I realized that all of my friends get cases of oneitis. Some have a girlfriend, or are sleeping with one person, or are not getting laid at all. They "shoot with a sniper instead of a shotgun." This website has shown me that you need to be constantly spinning plates, dropping the ones that are not interested, and it is starting to pay off.

The "game" just makes sense to me now. This has led to me being the only one out of my group that pulls on a regular basis. I have noticed that my friends really don't get it. They find one girl and wife her up like she is the last woman on earth.

Now, I love my friends. Very cool people that I hope to know later in my life. It's just odd taking a step back and seeing my friends as "AFCs" when it comes to women. None of my friends seem sexually frustrated (like I was when I joined this site), they just don't know that with time and practice you can get laid on a regular basis with new women.

This could be a difference of opinion on monogamy. Maybe my friends don't know that you can establish a non-monogamous relationship with women. Maybe they WANT a monogamous relationship (the horror!!! ).

What are your guys' opinions on this? Are you pulling more girls than your friends?

 

[JohnChops]

I realized that all of my friends get cases of oneitis. Some have a girlfriend, or are sleeping with one person, or are not getting laid at all. They "shoot with a sniper instead of a shotgun." This website has shown me that you need to be constantly spinning plates, dropping the ones that are not interested, and it is starting to pay off.

The "game" just makes sense to me now. This has led to me being the only one out of my group that pulls on a regular basis. I have noticed that my friends really don't get it. They find one girl and wife her up like she is the last woman on earth.

Now, I love my friends. Very cool people that I hope to know later in my life. It's just odd taking a step back and seeing my friends as "AFCs" when it comes to women. None of my friends seem sexually frustrated (like I was when I joined this site), they just don't know that with time and practice you can get laid on a regular basis with new women.

This could be a difference of opinion on monogamy. Maybe my friends don't know that you can establish a non-monogamous relationship with women. Maybe they WANT a monogamous relationship (the horror!!! ).

What are your guys' opinions on this? Are you pulling more girls than your friends?

not gonna lie i had oneitis for awhile now -__- but honestly out of all my friends i do pull the second most next to my other good friend. Since im starting to get over this oneitis **** i have been spinning more plates , its the way to go. I see my friends as really reliant on women though, like if they dont get laid there pissed..... so its retarded in their thinking but i have noticed that.

 

[Eternal_water]

erm, technically my friends aren't pulling more than I am.

 

[LearningSlowly]

In one group of friends, yeah. We were at a party, and it had gotten really small, and we started talking about getting girls. And I said I would get girls and started working on it. I told other guys to try to, they barely had any attempts to make. I have had more girls in my life than other guys had.

They don't understand that you need to cycle through girls in your life, they stick with the same ones they've always known.

 

[WorkingDJ]

I've had more girls in the last 5 months than two of my friends have had over the entire year. One of my friends mostly because he won't give up on his EX at all.

 

[ladyzman]

Before I started being more active in my dating life I averaged like 1 girl a year, 2 or 3 if it was a good year. Now I'm meeting/dating/sexing at least 1 new girl a month. That's like a 1200% improvement for me. Sometimes I meet 3 different girls in one day. My sex life is definitely better now, but this stuff does take up a lot of your time. Maybe your friends get that and prefer to find the one girl, stick with her, and focus on other things like a career, friendships, etc.

 

[Kenny Powers]

I'm literally coaching two of my of my friends at the moment. I dont mind because we've been good friends for a while and this is what friends do, but as I've told them coaching them is difficult because Im still learning myself.

Also i'm fairly extroverted while their more introverted. So its difficult for me to give them advice on picking up girls since my game involves C/F, alphaness and being overtly sexual. However, this won't work for them since they're both the quiet type. I tell them quiet guys can pull too by being chill and playing it cool, but i struggle to teach them how since that's the opposite of my game (i like to get right up in girls faces all alpha like and kino).

Its frusterating since I know they want to talk to girls like I do, but still sturggle to despite my efforts to teach them. Also its difficult since I've gotten so many numbers over the past few years that getting digits means little to nothing to me now. I'll literally ask out of habit now or just in case I see the girl again. However, a few of my friends rarely ever get a number and thus don't understand how over-rated the whole thing is. I try to explain that girls give out numbers like candy nowadays and they just need to learn to ask, but they still always fail to do so. This is frusterating since I know inevitably when they start getting numbers they'll get rejected like every other man and feel bad. Luckily I'll be there to remind them of the futility of numbers

Still, it hasn't hurt my image of them and if anything the experience has brought us closer together, no homo. I talk about many of the things we discuss on this site with them (being alpha, craziness of girls, not caring, etc.) but since im still working on mastering the art of pickup its difficult to teach them. Its frusterating since Im leading my group of friends socially, especially since many are with girl, but I see it as a good growing experience for me. Plus we're f-ing bros so i dont care if they're pimps or not, I still have their backs and know they have mine.

 

[Packers2010]

I would say no. because i was SOOO sacred. i guess i am to some degree. but once i get over this fear. i will surpass those looser so quickly it will make there head spin! i can't wait to see the looks on there faces. i dropped them as friends and have becoming a completely new person. i can't wait to see how much i don't need them now.

 

[FairShake]

I have a girlfriend but still go out with single friends (probably more often than I should). I am absolutely better than chatting up a female than they are and do so in order to make the introduction. I do this at least once a night.

I also hook up my female friends and gay friends. It's surprising how many people need a middle man.

 

[Zerro]

I'm literally coaching two of my of my friends at the moment. I dont mind because we've been good friends for a while and this is what friends do, but as I've told them coaching them is difficult because Im still learning myself.

Also i'm fairly extroverted while their more introverted. So its difficult for me to give them advice on picking up girls since my game involves C/F, alphaness and being overtly sexual. However, this won't work for them since they're both the quiet type. I tell them quiet guys can pull too by being chill and playing it cool, but i struggle to teach them how since that's the opposite of my game (i like to get right up in girls faces all alpha like and kino).

There was one guy who was pulling more than me but I stopped being friends with him because he was getting on my nerves. (1) he was becoming more and more of a douchebag about it and (2) he was insisting that I needed his coaching despite us having vastly different styles. He did pull more but he tended to pull trash while I pull less but at consistently higher quality than him. The final straw came one night when he started ****blocking and trying to pull away a chick who I was pulling with almost no effort and becoming an annoying clown in the process. Good riddance.