Anyone dated an actress before?

[diplomatic_lie]

I met one today and asked her out, thought it was a change from the regular college chick (she's a real actress, not one of those college girls doing acting courses).

Anything special that comes with an actress? Mood swings? Drama? Lots of sex? HIV?

 

[Aztec]

Yes I have. No wait, she just have plenty of drama in her.

 

[Climax]

She is living the lifestyles of the rich and the famous, and if u wanna keep her, u need to "keep up" to her lifestyle, ot chances are, that she will leave you for some other rich actor etc.

This is all true UNLESS she truly loves u.

So what i suggest u do, is just try make her FEEL like a million dollars if u cant afford to GIVE her a million dollars

Good luck.

 

[JT47319]

Yes.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
Anything special that comes with an actress? Mood swings? Drama? Lots of sex? HIV?

You've just described the typical American club slut. Point?

 

[Climax]

*sigh*

JT47319: wanna tell us abit about it? a simple "yes" doesnt answer his question, or help this post in any way.

 

[squirrels]

Re: *sigh*

Originally posted by aequitas
JT47319: wanna tell us abit about it? a simple "yes" doesnt answer his question, or help this post in any way.

That was probably his point. There's nothing to be said here.

Does her being an "actress" mean that she adds something to your life that you can't get anywhere else? Is she WILLING to add that to your life to get the kind of pleasure and affection YOU have to offer? Is it worth something to you?

Or are you looking at "actress" as an excuse to lower your own value, toss aside the DJ mentality, and "sell out" on this girl as if she's "the one"?

Actresses are women just like everyone else. They should be treated as such.

 

[Climax]

treat her like just any other woman and she will leave you.

Celebs expect to be treated "better" than others, thats just how life works, and if this guy likes her alot, he WILL need to put some extra effort into her.

 

[diplomatic_lie]

Yes she's a woman like everyone else, but seeing how I took the effort to ask her out despite warnings about her ambitious character, I'm hoping an actress might have something a little different. You know, sort of like when you wait 5 minutes to get a big mac with extra cheese, the bonus is worth the wait.

She's not a celeb by the way. No grade A movies like those blockbusters. Mostly just local or national films, advertising, etc.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by aequitas
Celebs expect to be treated "better" than others, thats just how life works, and if this guy likes her alot, he WILL need to put some extra effort into her.

Your mentality is weak because you're assuming that HE needs HER more than SHE needs HIM.

What does he get from her if he sells out on her just because of her celebrity status? Status for himself? He's a Don Juan, he can get respect and admiration from other people without an arm-prize. A pretty girl? They're a dime-a-dozen.

On the flipside, do you have any idea how hard it is for a celebrity to find a GOOD MAN?? Look at the way Hollywood marriages work.

What is he investing his time and effort into? He should give her a taste, display what he has to offer, then see how far SHE is willing to go to get more of it.

You're thinking along the lines of, "Once you find a good one, don't EVER let her go." But the fact is that he doesn't HAVE her yet. If he tries to hold on, SHE will be in the influential position and work him for whatever she can get. If he tries to put the death-grip on, she will run for the hills.

 

[Climax]

She's not a celeb by the way. No grade A movies like those blockbusters. Mostly just local or national films, advertising, etc.

Well in that case, then yes, u should treat her like any other woman.

I thought u were talking about a professional actress that was rich and living the "lifestyle of the rich and famous".

Well.... with this kind of woman, i think that u should find that her confidence levels are alot higher than the average woman, which is a good thing.

U have to just realise that people all over are gonna look at her as a "queen" ... so u just need to make her feel "special" too

Good luck.

Laterz...

 

[Climax]

Your mentality is weak because you're assuming that HE needs HER more than SHE needs HIM.

thats not true, all i am saying is that in this kind of case, she will have the mindset that "this guy should be lucky to be dating me" ... So i am saying that he needs to breat that "mindset" of hers.

On the flipside, do you have any idea how hard it is for a celebrity to find a GOOD MAN?? Look at the way Hollywood marriages work.

yes, i am aware that they are unstable and have alot of problems.

You're thinking along the lines of, "Once you find a good one, don't EVER let her go."

Dont put words in my mouth.

Laterz...

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by aequitas
thats not true, all i am saying is that in this kind of case, she will have the mindset that "this guy should be lucky to be dating me" ... So i am saying that he needs to breat that "mindset" of hers.

In that respect, yes, he needs to make sure she is aware of what he has to offer. When you said "work", I took it to mean somethign entirely different.

 

[Player_Supreme]

1. They are attention freaks. Even the shy ones!

2. They are also women like anyother woman. But to do their craft their personalities have been stretched out....and if they are really good they are bordering on psychosis.

3. As far as fawking ...hot like minks. That personality stretching makes horny as fawk. When I was studying with a cat in my town named Ed Claudio I did a scene with this one actress. Right after the class we went straight to my car and boned like rabbits.

4. So catch her when she has just finished doing a love scene and she will be down for it.