Unlock the Secrets to Dating Success

New to the SoSuave forum? Start your journey to becoming a dating rockstar with our essential guide.

This comprehensive resource will give you the tools and strategies you need to overcome obstacles, build confidence, and attract the women you've always wanted.

Don't let another day go by without taking control of your dating life - start now and get ready to experience the success and fulfillment you deserve.

Thanks for visiting, and I look forward to your success!

Any tips for dealing with Russian girls and their BS?

pikachu69

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 6, 2009
Messages
159
Reaction score
1
I have dated a few Russian girls and I have discovered they seem to play a lot more games and go to greater lengths to cause drama than the average HB. I don't know if it's a clash of culture or they expect men to put up with their BS but I am getting tired of it. Can anyone give me any tips on what to do differently dealing with such females?

I know in their culture men are men and women are women. However, I have noticed that say for instance you arrange a date with 1 and she cancels she almost never will counter offer with another time expecting the man to come back. If she does it twice then she's not interested, but I have experienced that if you get that initial cancellation it does not mean she's not interested but playing a silly game to see how into her you are.

I've noticed also they all pull that eyes looking down avoiding all possible eye contact pretending they don't see you with a stern look on their face like they've got together to discuss how to do it hahaha.

Even with girls I was friends with but never wanted to get with pull this same stunt! It can't be a coincidence.
 

guywhoneedshelp

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 17, 2008
Messages
650
Reaction score
8
I took out one Russian girl in my life and although it seemed to have went well, I dealt with very similar issues when trying to hang out with her again. After the dinner we had together she expressed interest to hang out with me again, and even contacted me a few times seeing what I was doing. Sometimes I'd be doing something, and I'd simply reply "lifting weights" or whatever and then she wouldn't say anything back.

Then there were a few times where I'd text her, see if she wanted to hang out, and then she'd agree, only to stop responding. I never liked her enough to chase after her, which may have been what she wanted, so I never really had a second date with her. Too much bs.

Don't really get it, but at least I can say I know what you're talking about.
 

f283000

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 28, 2007
Messages
2,158
Reaction score
197
pikachu69 just don't give in to her games! Russian girls take advantage of us because they see us as weaker then the men from their homeland (and it is true). Russian guys are tough they don't put up with their crap over there and they will beat their ass if they mis-behave. But they get over here and once they get a little taste of western corruption most become lost cases like the rest.

Don't let her games rattle you, don't show that you are bothered by them, show assertiveness and don't show too much interest in them. Russian girls know they are sort of an exotic item and are in great demand so your games needs to be even tighter with them and you can't let them influence you by putting her on a pedestal and treating her like a prize.
 

Pie in the Sky

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 17, 2009
Messages
63
Reaction score
2
lol all you guys that talk **** about American women should take note. All women are pretty much the same all around the world. There are some good ones and tons of bad ones.
 

f283000

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 28, 2007
Messages
2,158
Reaction score
197
Pie in the Sky said:
lol all you guys that talk **** about American women should take note. All women are pretty much the same all around the world. There are some good ones and tons of bad ones.
They are not bad...IN THEIR HOME COUNTRIES!

If you want to get a real woman you need to travel abroad and pick them fresh from their countries of origin. Coming to the west will corrupt any woman and in cases like Russian girls who a lot happen to be very hot they will be corrupted even faster with all the attention they get.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

handle

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 18, 2005
Messages
882
Reaction score
82
Impress her with your knowledge of her home country by using unique negs like "yes, I'll take you to the big theatre in st petersburg, but I don't know if you're worthy of the extra cost of buying a program"
 

pikachu69

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 6, 2009
Messages
159
Reaction score
1
I think you guys know what I'm talking about, my other thread about them looking down avoiding eye contact is really about them! Haha. I should probably list some problems and please feel free to post answers how to deal with them. A lot are so spoilt they expect u to sit around trying to make u run around while they take u for granted. Should u walk away more and not react to their games?
 

Veridin

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 21, 2009
Messages
235
Reaction score
17
f283000 said:
pikachu69 just don't give in to her games! Russian girls take advantage of us because they see us as weaker then the men from their homeland (and it is true).
Source for that theory?


Actually, there is a phenomenon in Russia where a girl keeps one guy as her "pension," who is expected to give her money and pot, while she also has a real boyfriend who she gives up the sex to.
 

Veridin

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 21, 2009
Messages
235
Reaction score
17
f283000 said:
They are not bad...IN THEIR HOME COUNTRIES!

If you want to get a real woman you need to travel abroad and pick them fresh from their countries of origin. Coming to the west will corrupt any woman and in cases like Russian girls who a lot happen to be very hot they will be corrupted even faster with all the attention they get.
So. Russian men are stronger than Western men. And Russian women are good in their home country, and only act bad when they come to the West. So we Westerners are just inferior in every way, and non-Westerners only act bad because of contact with Westerners.

You wouldn't happen to be Russian or otherwise of East European ancestry, would you?
 

pikachu69

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 6, 2009
Messages
159
Reaction score
1
If she starts to act spoilt and starts flaking etc will NC'ing really work on a russian girl? I would have thought it may show her you're not that interested in her.

I don't know if all the DJ rules still apply to them. I understand essentially they're still women so respond to their emotions, so actions. not words.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

pikachu69

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 6, 2009
Messages
159
Reaction score
1
What differences in regards to tactics would you use for Russian girls instead of Western HBs?
 

ALPHAROMEO

Banned
Joined
May 13, 2009
Messages
655
Reaction score
6
Location
france
women

:trouble: MARION COTILLARD looks like a man? CATHERINE DENEUVE?
BRIGITTE BARDOT?
FRENCH women look like men ?
ENERGIZER < WHERE DID YOU GET THAT FROM
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

2eggs

New Member
Joined
Dec 8, 2009
Messages
3
Reaction score
0
I love Russian women because they are women-- not girls like many Americans are.

From my experience they will give you the best sex and will say no to nothing in bed as long as you treat them with PROVEN love which is good restaurants and quality time together. They are high maintenance but they are worth it as long as you can be a MAN by putting up with here BS because she will put up with anything in the bedroom. ANYTHING.

Russian women are high maintenance but they know and HONOR their part which is contrary to the average American girl who thinks she might be considered a slut. Russian women KNOW they are sluts and are proud to demonstrate it to a man who can be her pimp. After all, WE all know the value of PINK.
 

Nutz

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 22, 2008
Messages
1,584
Reaction score
72
A$$hole game. Learn it, live it, love it. Women from Eastern Europe and Russian respond exceedingly well to it. Not entirely sure why, but it seems to be a solid politically incorrect truth.
 

pikachu69

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 6, 2009
Messages
159
Reaction score
1
Nutz said:
A$$hole game. Learn it, live it, love it. Women from Eastern Europe and Russian respond exceedingly well to it. Not entirely sure why, but it seems to be a solid politically incorrect truth.
Can you give examples of this i.e. what to do?

If you try to arrange a date with her she'll agree, then just cancel last minute saying she wants to go partying with her girls. She expects you to come back with a new time.

Are you saying set up another date time then just cancel on her and then ignore her for a bit to p1ss her off?
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

Top