Any european people, how do you convice your girl

[Charisma]

I know for sure this is different in the US, from Europe.

Over here 'multi-dating' is considered ... well that you don't care about the girls you're dating. Now heck, I can really care for multiple girls at once. But they don't accept it over here (Lowlands). How do you guys talk to a girl convincing her .. you're not just using her ? I gave up a while back, so now I'm just dating and not telling them that it's not 'exclusive' (over here dating SHOULD always be exclusive .. ). Most girls I dated also showed a 'desperate' hang-on to their 'boyfriend' (me apparently), which made it even harder to tell them they're not the 'only-one'. (and they weren't ugly or anything, it's not like I was the only guy for them, **** they could date tons of other guys).

Note, same thing from the giving-head post. Less bright chiqs don't seem to care, but the ones from my college really make it a friggin big deal ! And that goes for other 'brighter' girls.

So i'm sure there are guys that CAN make them comfortable in the multiple girls thing, let me know, I'd appreciate it.

Cheers

 

[hardwork]

Discussion

 

[bman]

you next them if they dont agree. i just dont tell them though. whoever else i date is not of their business.

 

[Charisma]

You just don't tell ? But I want them to know, so they don't go all insane afterwards if they 'find out' I was seeing other chiqs. Just saying you're dating others seems to be the same as calling them names. So I was wondering if anyone knew a more gentle approach. If not, so be it, I'll learn