Another fat *****...

[ImprovingJuan]

Refused to talk to me online, and i did just wanna chat no sex, cuz she is too fat for my liking. She told me i'm a 1 from 0 to 10 and i didnt even asked her anything.

i know i'm not a model or anything but come on a 1?the ***** is crazy must be
She says her friend also would give a me 1 or a 2...

http://i1188.photobucket.com/albums/z416/Picollo30/608567_300.jpg

this is the fat cow

and this is me


http://i1188.photobucket.com/albums...OWsew9c0ywiX8F4VofBh6ugBFDO4dOh-w27hS932A.png

http://i1188.photobucket.com/albums/z416/Picollo30/1752964_2Igus1.png

come on i know im not brad pitt or clooney, i guess im an average looking guy maybe a 5,5 or a 6 depending if i take care of myself, good clother, confidence etc


im getting tired of online dating, though it was an easy way to get easy ****s, but it SUCKS. lots of fatties who give guys a hard time and stuck up *****es.

 

[May_Day]

Nice double chin she has going there. How come you wanted to chat with her? Talk with chicks you want to bang not some ugly fat ass that turns your stomach when you picture her naked. She looks English and who cares what her opinion is. You need to care less about what some 1 thinks about you from online.

 

[sylvester the cat]

With all due respect you reek of insecurity. This thread is a thinly veiled attempt at getting validation. Your looks are fine. It's your insecurity that is the problem.

Hardcore work to eradicate this insecurity is a must before you chase any tail let alone that heffa you were inexplicably conversing with.

 

[YAboi]

looks don't matter as much as you think they do. Besides...you're good looking enough. It's just that girls see guys who visit online dating sites as losers that can't get girls in real life.

You should be meeting girls through social circle game and parties. As for cold approaches, if you relax the look on your face and look a bit more approachable you will do fine.

 

[VladPatton]

Damn bro, I wouldn't be able to fück that thing with a rented rubber cὀck and 4 Viagras the size of golf balls. WTF.

http://imgur.com/3ECUNvI

 

[thunder_god]

I would have told her she's a double fat zero on a scale of 1 out of 10.

 

[3agle 3yes]

sylvester the cat hit the nail in the head, you reek of insecurity.

Why do we need to see what the woman looks like? Why do we need to see what you look like? Why waste your time talking to women off the Internet that you don't find attractive? Why do you care what a random woman on the internet has to say about you?

This quote basically somes you up.

im getting tired of online dating, though it was an easy way to get easy ****s...

Stop wishing things were easy and instead ask why aren't you BETTER.

 

[ImprovingJuan]

sylvester the cat hit the nail in the head, you reek of insecurity.

Why do we need to see what the woman looks like? Why do we need to see what you look like? Why waste your time talking to women off the Internet that you don't find attractive? Why do you care what a random woman on the internet has to say about you?

This quote basically somes you up.

Stop wishing things were easy and instead ask why aren't you BETTER.

hey guys im trying here, it's not easy losing my dad, my grandma, being dumped by my ***** ex gf and not having luck with da ladies and beinf flamed by fatties at the same time. sorry for venting but its not easy for me. honestly i'm an AFC i admit that but i'm trying to be better damnit.

 

[jurry]

hey guys im trying here, it's not easy losing my dad, my grandma, being dumped by my ***** ex gf and not having luck with da ladies and beinf flamed by fatties at the same time. sorry for venting but its not easy for me. honestly i'm an AFC i admit that but i'm trying to be better damnit.

Ok well what can you do.. Dwell on all that let it consume you and define who you are, or accept what is, let it make you stronger, and continue on with life.

Women are like mirrors in that sense.. If you are weak they will tear you apart, if you are confident and comfortable with who you are then they will sense that too and be attracted to it. That is survival and biological instincts, very simple stuff.

And as eagle eyes said who really gives a fvck about some fat slvt on the internet, what matters is what YOU think about you.

 

[3agle 3yes]

Then stop the negativity, stop being a victim of life.

And more importantly STOP giving other people and things other than yourself in general the responsibility to control your emotions.

My dad died of cancer when I was 15 and my grandma died when I was 5.

Get over yourself...If your dad could see you now would he want to see you feeling sorry for yourself? Or would he want to see you moving on with your life?

As for your girlfriend breaking up with you I have NO sympathy...that is NOTHING compared to the other two you mentioned.

Be humble, no one owes it to you to show you love...not even fatties.

Stop looking to find f*cks and instead look for fun, most of the guys complaining about not finding a gf actually need that the most.

 

[asa_don]

treat online women as a joke, especially this hideous looking thing. meet women in person to where you can build your confidence up. i would take a short break from meeting women right now, get yourself together first to where you feel your best and feel good about yourself. your mind isn't where you need it to be, you will keep being down if you don't get yourself together first.

My dad died of cancer when I was 15 and my grandma died when I was 5.

i hate when people like you try to compare your life situations to other people when it's totally different. everybody handles their sh1t differently, so don't judge a man by telling him he should be doing this or that instead.

you lost your grandma when you were 5, you were too young to know anything going on, you probably didn't know her all that well. this guy maybe had years with her and a close bond, so it will affect him more than it did you. his situation is different than yours, it seems his losses are close to one another. that is different than you. i know people who hated their family and didn't care if anything happened to them. don't try to act like you're better than another man.

 

[Skyline]

I don't know man, online dating is kind of lame in general. And I'm not saying that because I don't get any messages. I mean apps like Tinder and Hot or Not just destroy the thrill of approaching girls. Not to mention you're protected from a screen. Once you take interest in a girl and then she takes interest, you both start talking and its just kind of dumb. I don't know about you, but I don't feel satisfied when I get rated hot or get a message back from a girl. I'd rather face my anxiety with cold approaching than just half ass it with online dating.

Like asa said, treat it like a joke. Oh yeah, stop being ego driven/hurt.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Slyvester and Yaboi hit it on the head

 

[ImprovingJuan]

nevermind

 

[Don-Kong]

If you know your worth no one can tell you otherwise.

She might like fat ugly people who are short and gross. So from that perspective, she judged you from her stinky yard stick. So what.

Besides she was probably just in it for the attention. Could have been anyone on the end of it.

The point is this: minds are subjective
If you know your reality, you wont let someone elses 'frame' fvck yours up. Fvck that beach.

 

[3agle 3yes]

i hate when people like you try to compare your life situations to other people when it's totally different. everybody handles their sh1t differently, so don't judge a man by telling him he should be doing this or that instead.

So what do you recommend? He sit there and wallow? You're seem very sensitive, especially when I wasn't even posting about you.

You can't control what happens to you in your life but you CAN control how you respond to it.

you lost your grandma when you were 5, you were too young to know anything going on, you probably didn't know her all that well. this guy maybe had years with her and a close bond, so it will affect him more than it did you. his situation is different than yours, it seems his losses are close to one another.

You criticise me making assumptions when you make assumptions yourself.

You don't know his situation either and you most definitely don't know my relationship with my grandmother and remember, I lost my dad when I was 15 (or is that too young for you as well?). I was really close with my dad...but what can you do? NOTHING...so move on.

What does losing your father and grandmother have to do with having a sh*tty attitude anyway? Does it bring people back to life? It's completely illogical because having a sh*tty attitude doesn't change anything.

That's the problem with today's feminized society...people care too much about feelings and not enough about facts.

don't try to act like you're better than another man.

Yet another assumption...I'm merely telling him there's a better way to go about things...calm down.

 

[asa_don]

So what do you recommend? He sit there and wallow? You're seem very sensitive, especially when I wasn't even posting about you.

You can't control what happens to you in your life but you CAN control how you respond to it.

You criticise me making assumptions when you make assumptions yourself.

You don't know his situation either and you most definitely don't know my relationship with my grandmother and remember, I lost my dad when I was 15 (or is that too young for you as well?). I was really close with my dad...but what can you do? NOTHING...so move on.

What does losing your father and grandmother have to do with having a sh*tty attitude anyway? Does it bring people back to life? It's completely illogical because having a sh*tty attitude doesn't change anything.

That's the problem with today's feminized society...people care too much about feelings and not enough about facts.

Yet another assumption...I'm merely telling him there's a better way to go about things...calm down.

you were making assumptions of this guy when you don't know anything about his life. how does it feel? i don't recommend anything, it's up to him to deal with it on his own the best way he can to get himself together. what i say or what you say doesn't matter, he needs to get it together in a way that only he can do. that's your opinion, people have been there for a peson for thousands of years if someone lost people they loved, that's nothing new.

 

[goldengoose]

nevermind

Why are you saying "nevermind"? Don't say "nevermind". You got some good advice here, use it.

treat online women as a joke, especially this hideous looking thing. meet women in person to where you can build your confidence up. i would take a short break from meeting women right now, get yourself together first to where you feel your best and feel good about yourself. your mind isn't where you need it to be, you will keep being down if you don't get yourself together first.

Now, this is really good advice that you will probably ignore. Your mindset is not at the right place to be dating right now. You insult other women in chats and get torn down over women you talk with online. No way should you let a woman you've never met make you feel that bad about yourself. Especially some stranger you don't even know. Who knows if the profile is even real? People make fake profiles just to fvck with dudes on there. Don't take the women or stuff on there seriously.

You need to get a strong positive mindset along with a solid inner core first. Until you do that you won't have any success with women. Do that first and then you will see better results. Like asa said, take a break for now, get you mind clear, then start getting your inner game going so sh1t like this doesn't bother you. If you don't, you will still be insecure about yourself and with women.

So what do you recommend? He sit there and wallow?

You can't control what happens to you in your life but you CAN control how you respond to it.

Take Elvis Presley "The King of Rock n Roll" for example, here is a guy that could have fvcked any girl he wanted to in the world. He had an amazing voice where he could sing any genre of music, the looks, the fame, the money, the attitude that turned women on, was the most known person in the world, and the richest solo performer besides Frank Sinatra. Even when he was fat and bloated, poured into his jumpsuits, women would line up for miles trying to fvck the guy.

Elvis' mother died in 1958, right when he was becoming a star. Her death upset him so much his entire life that he mourned her almost everyday. Which was a reason he turned to drugs and abused pills up to his death. That fvcker took so many pills each day that it would kill the average person 20 times over.

Even with all his fame, talent, the money, women, that still wasn't enough to fill the void in his life. Basically, he sat there and wallowed for his mother. Is that what you want to do? No, but telling someone just to "get over it" does make you sound ignorant.

 

[DonGorgon]

men need to understand that there is massive male over population nose so fatties are getting chase and begged for sex just lie hot chicks...lol

 

[ImprovingJuan]

as someone pointed out i'm definitely not ok, and its better to get my **** together before entering the dating scene, if i ever will. besides losing my father and grandmother and my mother being absent since, things havent been well, i mean friends who only smoke pot or like to play pool or go to bars and grab a beer or 2 and talk about nonsense. then i got unemployed, i was an hardware technician. i'm going to start a networking cisco ccna course in september, maybe that will help me forget about women at all.

i know in my gut i'm ugly, looks matter whatever you say. i have a weak jaw, a receeded chin,i use braces to **** my confidence even more (it's the 4th year i use them) i will need to wear glasses because i'm practically "blind" (not really blind) from one eye (cant see at distance from the left eye) and i have somekind of intermitent strabismus. sometimes my eyes are centered and fine and when im tired or nervous bam! there it shows. i got the strabismus surgery but it didnt work as nothing in my life does (im going to a doctor to ask for a new surgery but i doubt he will do it).

and yeah in some of my photos it doesnt show but its there, and i know people notice. what does it matter that i go to gym, or tanning beds, or dress well or use an expensive cologne (i still saved some money and can do that) and take care of myself if no girl is going to look at me?

should i do a mentoplasty to improve my chin for them ?
should i go through another strabismus surgery with the risk of becoming worse for them?

some of you guys talk about building confidence, but it's because some of you guys had the luck of having good genes i didnt. i could have had the strabismus surgery while as a kid, the same with braces (which i could only afford 4 years ago, i'm 38). the women are shallow, they are not benevolent with me as you guys are. sorry for venting but that's how it is.