Anecdote for the day

[BetterCallSaul]

So I usually post these for slight bragging rights but also to offer some real life interactions for guys here on what works. And I'll say that what works is the stuff posted here on SS about demonstrating value, not taking yourself too seriously, striking while the iron's hot, and perhaps most importantly using whatever it is about YOU that can potentially get a woman's pu$$y wet to your advantage.

I had to go to the urgent care doctor today and since it isn't that far from me I took my bike there. I've previously posted about how women, married women even, upon seeing me in full riding gear started getting wet. Well I didn't have full riding gear on today since it's so damn hot and so on days like this I usually just wear the jacket and boots and everything else is lighter stuff for better airflow. Frankly I thought I looked like crap and sort of felt like it too for going to the doctor for my ailment. Pulled into the back parking lot away from most patients, usually where the staff parks and already one nurse checking me out.

I go to check in, the receptionist lady is pretty hot but busy with other folks plus I'm not really paying much attention to anything but filling out forms and paying. She didn't seem too interested in me from what I could tell.
So I get called back and surprise it's the nurse I spotted earlier in the parking lot, so she's walking me back checking all my vitals and such, really smiling a lot and making eye contact with me constantly. She almost borderline giddy when my eyes meet hers and then she looks away smiling. It's obvious she's having trouble keeping composure she's actually on the clock at work. I'd say she's about a 6 but I'm not too focused on flirting back.

Later on after the doc sees me and I'm checking out the receptionist lady is back and I get a better look at her. I'd have to rate her a 7 because I had to look past the usual crap clothing that flatters no one that nurses wear (she's also wearing this). If she'd be out for the night dressed up in a short skirt and f*ck me heels, she's easily a 7. I'd guess she's probably 25, long hair to about the middle of her back, sort of a latina/mulatto mix. I had a hard time figuring this one out but damn that mutt mixture of whatever she was was working just fine. About 5'6", maybe 130 soaking wet. I notice her blatantly looking at me now whereas earlier she didn't pay hardly any attention to me. Maybe she's getting a better look at me? Maybe the nurse from earlier was talking to her? Who knows, who cares. So I look back, she looks down, that usual game. I go to sign final papers and get my prescription, she's nearby the lady who is handling this for me, so she's looking toward the exit at the parking lot, and looking back and forth then she says "Hmmm, I don't see your bike out there"

"Oh, I parked out back away from everyone else"
"Oh..."
"Why do you want a ride?"
*slight giggling* "Are you offering?"

At this point realizing pu$$y is right there for me to just reach out and grab cause it's there for the taking, of course I'm thinking "Hell yes, when do you get off work?" But I keep quiet and realize this is one of those times in a married man's life where it'd be so easy to just bang her within 30 minutes of meeting her after work. Why?

-She's already worked up and wet after seeing me, because....
-I'm demonstrating value by doing something I like
-I'm just living in the moment and not trying to actively "game" her...things are flowing naturally between us

I go to walk out....she says "Have a great day"
"Ok you too, take care now" while I smile really big and make serious eye contact with her. She reciprocates by smiling even wider.

I realize guys have to game, I've had to before too. But when you get a woman cutting through all the BS and getting straight to it, you know you're doing something right. I'm just being myself and not doing anything but being true to who I am, and I like riding.

Whatever it is you like to do, embrace it and there will be women who will be interested in whatever it is. I know sometimes there seems to be no shortage of threads talking about how much it sucks out there, but there's always hope.

 

[Slickster]

Good stuff Saul! Here's an anecdote that happened here...

The company I work for hires a bunch of young staff (in their 20's) each summer. It is a bit of a social scene and many of these young people use the job to fund their schooling so we have groups of them for several years. It's a cool job perk for me because there are always great looking young women around.

Anyhow for as long as I've been there, there has always been a crew of guys who are really into motorcycles. There seems to be two groups of riders. Those riding the cruisers (usually the older guys) and those riding the sport bikes or crotch rockets.

I don't follow the scene too much these days but there is one guy (John) who seems to be the alpha male type who is very popular, good looking, funny, charismatic, etc. He's been there for a few years now and rides a crotch rocket and seems to have his pick of the best looking chicks each year. He's one of the few guys who lives locally and almost seems to be the leader of the pack type.

Anyhow now is the time when all these young people are just showing up to start their summer jobs. As always the motorcycle crew is out in the parking lot with their bikes and everyone is checking out each other's rides and catching up. I don't ride myself but was out there chatting with a few people I know. Out of the blue John rides up on his brand new scooter!

As you can imagine he gets a fair amount of ribbing from the crew about his "cute" little scooter. John doesn't seem to mind at all. He's all smiles and explains that he's tired of getting all dressed up in his riding gear for such a short ride into work. He's been bombing around doing all his short trips around town on this scooter and LOVING it. He still owns his crotch rocket and several other bikes but is choosing to ride the scooter to work this summer.

Well over the next couple of days this episode causes quite a ruckus at work. John is getting bugged quite a bit about his new ride not only from the other motorcycle dudes but pretty much every male in the building is making some comment. John is totally cool with it. He doesn't seem phased at all. At one point in the lunch room one of the boss types makes a comment about the scooter to him and his response is something like "I betcha I have more fun driving to work than you." Everyone laughs and it's all good.

So Fridays most staff goes out for lunch and the parking lot gets quite empty. I come back early from lunch and John is out in the parking lot with half a dozen hot young girls giving them turns riding the scooter. I go over and talk with some of them for a bit while this is going on. They are absolutely giddy and having a blast riding this thing. You can tell right away that each one of them is vying for John's attention being super flirty, etc. As the lunch hour winds down people start returning and a sizeable group of guys return on their bikes and they all park in one area closer to the building. I was walking back to the building at this point and as they are all getting off their bikes and taking off their helmets they see John and the girls laughing and having fun with the scooter down below.

The astonishment and comments were priceless!!!
- "What the fawk?"
- "How the fawk does he do it?"
- "Those chicks never pay attention to my bike!"
- "Fvckin' bullsh!t"
- "B!tches!!!"

Now I drive a classic car in the summer and I get a fair amount of attention from it too. I remember one summer years ago back when I was single and gaming lots of women. I had to leave the car parked to do some work on it and I was bummed out because it was my ace in the hole so to speak. While the other vehicle I had to drive that summer didn't get me the initial looks from the women, it didn't slow me down at all either.

Summertime seems to be good (or bad) for bringing out the attention wh0res in all of us. Fancy cars, motorcycles, short skirts, beach bodies, etc. It always feels great to be getting checked out by women for sure. The important thing is to recognize why, and not let something external become a crutch for your confidence.

I realize guys have to game, I've had to before too. But when you get a woman cutting through all the BS and getting straight to it, you know you're doing something right. I'm just being myself and not doing anything but being true to who I am, and I like riding.

The REAL trick is to be able to pull off the same reaction without the motorcycle and riding gear. Internalizing that confidence so it doesn't matter what you are driving or wearing is what separates the men from the boys. Guys who have that confidence exude a certain aura that attracts women naturally. Very little game is needed and too much may in fact become a negative as it diminishes the aura of confidence.

A great quote I once heard from a woman....

"There's something about a guy who KNOWS he's hot....it just makes him so much MORE attractive."

Believing in yourself IS the battle.

 

[Huffman]

Sorry Saul, but all I can read from your post is that - until right before the end - you didn't do or say anything, but you were just cool and attractive and that's it.

Sure as hell, that's great. But I don't really see a lot of advice for anyone in there!

I often get the same kind of attention, but mostly from ugly girls...