An Open Letter to the Men Still on the Edge

[self_is_an_illusion]

Listen closely, because this is for you. We know you’re standing at a crossroads, still holding on to ideas that promise power but only deliver emptiness. You’ve been fed the belief that to gain respect, you must control, dominate, and manipulate. But let’s be clear: this path will destroy you.

You don’t need to tear others down to build yourself up. True strength doesn’t come from belittling women or pushing your anger onto the world. It comes from self-respect, empathy, and understanding. If you think dominating others is the key to happiness, you’ve been lied to.

Take a moment and look inside. What kind of man do you really want to be? The bitterness you carry, the anger you hold toward women, and the warped sense of validation you seek only rob you of your true potential. Stop using rejection and failure as excuses for a life that lacks meaning. You are more than your frustration. You are capable of growth.

You can choose a different path, a path where respect for yourself and others leads to real connections, not hollow victories. But this starts by rejecting the toxicity you’ve internalized. Stop following the voices that feed your insecurities. Start questioning your beliefs and challenge your own actions.

This is your chance to step into a better version of yourself. Don’t waste it.

The choice is yours.

With urgency and clarity,

Those Who Believe You Can Change

 

[New_Journey]

Since you like to gospel, I'm gonna ask you a few questions. I mean "understanding" means, respect other people points of view, and you listed that as something good to have.

ideas that promise power but only deliver emptiness.

This implies someone has power over me, and nobody does. Also, nobody in here wants power.

you must control, dominate, and manipulate.

Control your emotions
Dominate the women
Manipulate the environment to your benefit

Why is this a bad thing? What do you see wrong with that?

The bitterness you carry, the anger you hold toward women

Men who are angry at women is because they've never had them. Once they start having them the anger disappears.

your true potential.

Exactly, MY true potential, and the only one who gets to decide is me. Or do you want to decide that for me?

real connections

I don't want real connections. Is my decision and you understand it, right?

Start questioning your beliefs

Very important. I do agree on this.

This is your chance to step into a better version of yourself. Don’t waste it.

Oh I know. I don't know about other members in here, but I am sure not wasting it.

 

[The Duke]

Self, how about you tell us about yourself instead of spouting your feminist agenda and telling everyone how to live their life and how bad they are.

Scat GPT keeps your mouth pretty full.

Maybe we should start a poll to have you voted out of here?

 

[BadBoy89]

The bitterness you carry, the anger you hold toward women, and the warped sense of validation you seek only rob you of your true potential.

I will let go of any bitterness as soon as women are virgins before marriage and aren’t allowed to divorce and cash out.

Dont tell us, tell the people who write the rules.

 

[JacquesMemoirs]

Self, how about you tell us about yourself instead of spouting your feminist agenda and telling everyone how to live their life and how bad they are.

Scat GPT keeps your mouth pretty full.

Maybe we should start a poll to have you voted out of here?

there should be a players lounge forum that is invite only and not visible to anyone on the outside

because the original poster probably is not breaking any rules

 

[BPH]

Listen closely, because this is for you. We know you’re standing at a crossroads, still holding on to ideas that promise power but only deliver emptiness. You’ve been fed the belief that to gain respect, you must control, dominate, and manipulate. But let’s be clear: this path will destroy you.

You don’t need to tear others down to build yourself up. True strength doesn’t come from belittling women or pushing your anger onto the world. It comes from self-respect, empathy, and understanding. If you think dominating others is the key to happiness, you’ve been lied to.

Take a moment and look inside. What kind of man do you really want to be? The bitterness you carry, the anger you hold toward women, and the warped sense of validation you seek only rob you of your true potential. Stop using rejection and failure as excuses for a life that lacks meaning. You are more than your frustration. You are capable of growth.

You can choose a different path, a path where respect for yourself and others leads to real connections, not hollow victories. But this starts by rejecting the toxicity you’ve internalized. Stop following the voices that feed your insecurities. Start questioning your beliefs and challenge your own actions.

This is your chance to step into a better version of yourself. Don’t waste it.

The choice is yours.

With urgency and clarity,

Those Who Believe You Can Change

Why do you suck so hard?

This is the first thread I've ever seen that has tags on it: #personalgrowth and toxicmasculinity...I've been here since 2010 and I didn't even know you could do that.

I think you have more problems than all of us combined.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Knights in White Satin
Never Reaching the End
Open Letters I've Written
Never Meant to hit Send

 

[Barrister]

OP,

The more posts you make the more I firmly am becoming convinced you are actually a woman who has an agenda to post nonsensical, idealistic, feminist garbage on our site. It’s really the only explanation for a person who continues to just try to stir the pot on here with such silly drivel over and over.

 

[New_Journey]

I will let go of any bitterness as soon as women are virgins before marriage

Have you fvcked a virgin? Having to teach sex to a girl who doesn't know $hit and then not being able to do it how you want because of the pain she's feeling? Nah I'll pass.

aren’t allowed to divorce and cash out.

That only happens to weak men, divorce is good when women are with men who behave like you.

 

[The Duke]

Listen closely, because this is for you. We know you’re standing at a crossroads, still holding on to ideas that promise power but only deliver emptiness. You’ve been fed the belief that to gain respect, you must control, dominate, and manipulate. But let’s be clear: this path will destroy you.

You don’t need to tear others down to build yourself up. True strength doesn’t come from belittling women or pushing your anger onto the world. It comes from self-respect, empathy, and understanding. If you think dominating others is the key to happiness, you’ve been lied to.

Take a moment and look inside. What kind of man do you really want to be? The bitterness you carry, the anger you hold toward women, and the warped sense of validation you seek only rob you of your true potential. Stop using rejection and failure as excuses for a life that lacks meaning. You are more than your frustration. You are capable of growth.

You can choose a different path, a path where respect for yourself and others leads to real connections, not hollow victories. But this starts by rejecting the toxicity you’ve internalized. Stop following the voices that feed your insecurities. Start questioning your beliefs and challenge your own actions.

This is your chance to step into a better version of yourself. Don’t waste it.

The choice is yours.

With urgency and clarity,

Those Who Believe You Can Change

Why don't you come clean about yourself? Tell us the story of the men that made you hate so much? You accuse your target group of having so much bitternes, anger, and a warped persona, yet that is exactly who you are. If you think dominating this forum is your key to happiness, YOU have been lied to. Keep smoking the feminist crack.

Take your own damn advice and Start questioning your beliefs and challenge your own actions.

What kind of WOMAN do you really want to be?

 

[plumber]

Listen closely, because this is for you. We know you’re standing at a crossroads, still holding on to ideas that promise power but only deliver emptiness. You’ve been fed the belief that to gain respect, you must control, dominate, and manipulate. But let’s be clear: this path will destroy you.

You don’t need to tear others down to build yourself up. True strength doesn’t come from belittling women or pushing your anger onto the world. It comes from self-respect, empathy, and understanding. If you think dominating others is the key to happiness, you’ve been lied to.

Take a moment and look inside. What kind of man do you really want to be? The bitterness you carry, the anger you hold toward women, and the warped sense of validation you seek only rob you of your true potential. Stop using rejection and failure as excuses for a life that lacks meaning. You are more than your frustration. You are capable of growth.

You can choose a different path, a path where respect for yourself and others leads to real connections, not hollow victories. But this starts by rejecting the toxicity you’ve internalized. Stop following the voices that feed your insecurities. Start questioning your beliefs and challenge your own actions.

This is your chance to step into a better version of yourself. Don’t waste it.

The choice is yours.

With urgency and clarity,

Those Who Believe You Can Change

well, there are some that also don't like what must be done. this is a forum for improvement about interactions of men with women.

the cold hard truth and what works is different than what you want it to be.

what you can do is continue to fail and continue to be angry about it. or... pay attention and read, research, and try. you don't have to like what you learn but you do need to understand it.

first step is to understand what men and women are, what they really are.

 

[The Duke]

well, there are some that also don't like what must be done. this is a forum for improvement about interactions of men with women.

the cold hard truth and what works is different than what you want it to be.

what you can do is continue to fail and continue to be angry about it. or... pay attention and read, research, and try. you don't have to like what you learn but you do need to understand it.

first step is to understand what men and women are, what they really are.

Self isn't here to understand. Self is here to push HER agenda. She is fueled by hatred towards men.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Kick rocks

 

[BadBoy89]

That only happens to weak men, divorce is good when women are with men who behave like you.

Brad Pitt, George Clooney, Donald Trump, Rupert Murdoch, Justin Trudeau, President Xi, King Charles, Elon Musk, Nelson Mandela, Vladimir Putin, all divorced, all weak men.

Sosuave men are strong powerful men.

 

[Manure Spherian]

Brad Pitt, George Clooney, Donald Trump, Rupert Murdoch, Justin Trudeau, President Xi, King Charles, Elon Musk, Nelson Mandela, Vladimir Putin, all divorced, all weak men.

Good post. Add some others that either divorced or were publicly humiliated, like Kevin Costner, Tom Brady, Johnny Depp, and Will Smith, some of the most desirable men on the planet.

 

[New_Journey]

Brad Pitt, George Clooney, Donald Trump, Rupert Murdoch, Justin Trudeau, President Xi, King Charles, Elon Musk, Nelson Mandela, Vladimir Putin, all divorced, all weak men.

Sosuave men are strong powerful men.

Fame doesn't mean you are good at relationships or even vetting a woman.