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[mtnkng]

Rarely does a website have such an impact. This is one is saving my life.

Check that. This website is helping me recover my life. 42 years of being a AFC. I feel reborn.

The short story - divorce/separated last summer. Hooked up with a borderline right at separation. Still a AFC. Had great sex. got used and played (as you would expect). Hit some depression, confidence, what little left was shot. Therapy helped a little. KontrollerX pointed me here.

The thing about this site.....its just unearthing the Man thats always been there. The confidence, ****iness....this crap you always friggin knew you shoulda been doin but, listened to society's BS instead.

What comes to mind....that stupid movie with Billy Crystal and Jack Palance...City Slickers. Before Palance's character dies, he tells wussboy Crystal that life is about that "one thing". Figure that out, and you'll have a good life.

Im walking the path. Im ready to run.

(so, yeah, dropped 25 lbs in 5 weeks, bulkin up the shoulders and chest, and starting to kick a$$ and take names and numbers. Its a feel good.)

Thanks - Pook, Interceptor and too many others. Especially, thanks to KontrollerX for getting me here. Got my b@lls back.

 

[Victory Unlimited]

The Victory Unlimited New Recruit Briefing:


Consider the information you get here as WEAPONS for you to sample. Pick out a few, try them out, use them on a few FIELD MISSIONS, THEN decide whether or not THAT weapon is worthy to be added to YOUR arsenal.

If not, then throw it away and yank another big assed Uzi from off the DJ Gunrack. Do this until you get SO comfortable using the techniques, strategies, and weapons that you INTERNALIZE THEM---and they become a part of who YOU are. You must focus on becoming a LIVING WEAPON.

Never change anything you like about yourself (ESPECIALLY if it's working) just because the DJ Bible or some famous poster says it's Wack. Filter your training here through the lens of behaviors that you have ALREADY battle-tested for yourself. Is who YOU are working? Or is it NOT?

Dont' fall into the trap of HORIZONTAL THINKING and assume like many here that ALL women are EXACTLY the same. Yes, there are MANY similiarities, so ONLY those that break the mold in a POSITIVE way should merit more than 5 minutes of your concentrated attention. But until one rises to the top by the BEHAVIORS towards you that she exhibits, treat them all the same.

Continue to focus on being a better man. SoSuave is just a headquarters, a training ground, a military school for you to use to build yoursef into a TRUE MASCULINE MAN. In MY branch of the soSuave Armed Services, this is defined as a MAN who rules himself----and is NOT ruled by women, his hormones, his weaknesses, OR the 'half-assed" opinions of other people. So BATTLE-TEST every goddammed thing...

As you go about your missions, you will find that there are women that you need to use only a minimum amount of strategies, techniques, and weapons to engage. And you will also meet women who REQUIRE that you use your WHOLE arsenal in order to engage. Much of this depends on how high that woman's interest in YOU actually is.

Growth into a mature man is often predicated on how well you can discern the two apart, AND how DEDICATED you are to ONLY engaging those women that you suspect will ultimately ADD to your life rather than detract from it.

Welcome to the War, soldier.

You HAVE been briefed.




March on!

 

[DavenJuan]

Rarely does a website have such an impact. This is one is saving my life.

Check that. This website is helping me recover my life. 42 years of being a AFC. I feel reborn.

The short story - divorce/separated last summer. Hooked up with a borderline right at separation. Still a AFC. Had great sex. got used and played (as you would expect). Hit some depression, confidence, what little left was shot. Therapy helped a little. KontrollerX pointed me here.

The thing about this site.....its just unearthing the Man thats always been there. The confidence, ****iness....this crap you always friggin knew you shoulda been doin but, listened to society's BS instead.

What comes to mind....that stupid movie with Billy Crystal and Jack Palance...City Slickers. Before Palance's character dies, he tells wussboy Crystal that life is about that "one thing". Figure that out, and you'll have a good life.

Im walking the path. Im ready to run.

(so, yeah, dropped 25 lbs in 5 weeks, bulkin up the shoulders and chest, and starting to kick a$$ and take names and numbers. Its a feel good.)

Thanks - Pook, Interceptor and too many others. Especially, thanks to KontrollerX for getting me here. Got my b@lls back.

welcome brother....

at 42 and still NEVER to late to START your new life. you will find a ton of information on this forum, take what you need to better yourself and disparge the rest.

the one thing that you mentioned is so true that i placed in bold. but the biggest thing that i came to realize is the things YOU convinced YOURSELF that you should be doing even when you knew different... you still did them anyway

i myself still make AFC mistakes when i KNOW that this is not how i should handle this. its a part of learning and growing.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

When is the best time to plant a tree? 30 years ago. When is the next best time? Today. - Chinese Proverb