AMOG lesson - power of the eyes

[Scars]

Got into a little confrontation last night at the club.

Was kinda intoxicated and just ordered a drink and spilled a little on myself, so naturally I reach over for some napkins and clean myself off, unknowingly (or maybe I just didn't really give a fvck) spilling some napkins on the floor as well. I take a seat at an open table and some little dude comes sits next to me and says, "You going to clean up the mess you made or what bro?"

Scars: "What are you talking about?"
Assh0le: "You spilt a bunch of napkins over there, go clean then up. Have some fvcking respect."
Scars: "I ain't cleaning up sh!t. They pay people to clean this place up after closing."
Assh0le: "Well I actually work here, you need to have respect."
Scars: "Oh yeah, are you on the clock right now?"
Assh0le: "It doesn't matter, go clean it up."
Scars: "**** you."

He just says "Oh ok man." but all sarcastic and with one of those "you shouldn't have said that" kind of dumb looks on his face.

I brush the whole situation off and start dancing with the girl I was earlier, not giving a fvck at all. I caught eye contact with him a couple times, and it probably tripped him out how I just brushed him off so easily and was actually out on the dance floor having fun.

I take another break and light up a cigarette and suddenly I'm face to face with some other guy, who is a lot bigger.

Assh0le2: "What the fvck are you doing start ****ting with him huh?"
*Points to assh0le1*
Assh0le2: "That's my little brother, don't fvck with him."
Scars: "I didn't start sh!t, he is coming at me all wrong."
*Puts on his most intense alpha, mean looking face, even tried doing the whole boiling face where his face shakes rapidly, and I'm still completely unphased*
Assh0le2: "We can go outside right now and I will fvck you up. Fvck your friends, you and me bro. Let's go.
At this point, I just give him the most glaring stare. I don't say a damn word, just look at him with intense apathy. So akward that it lasted about 30 seconds and he finally looked away.
Assh0le: "Man fvck you punk, if I catch you talking **** to my bro you're done."

About 5 mins later they decide to leave the club.

Point is, my eyes have saved me from conflict quite a few times. A definite fearless gaze can make most people back down. Coming off as truly apathetic, emotionless and fearless can scare the living sh!t out of some people. I'm starting to learn most of these guys at clvbs bird chesting their alphaness all the time are actually pvssies.

So basically, don't let these assh0les try and put you down and take their sh!t. Whether it's over a girl or whatever.

Man, I hate people sometimes. Seriously.

-Scars

 

[Marvin Gaye]

Hell yeah.

For whatever reason, I was born with a slightly apathetic-looking face, when I was younger I used to be insecure about it and hated if people ever asked if I was bored.

Still it always seems to garner respect from people, and girls before have told me they find it very attractive. ( I mean like what the hell......I'm personally attracted to loud, high-energy girls lol)

So it's pretty easy for me to pull an emotionless face, and discovering this site has given me deep understanding on the power of eye contact.

EDIT: wrote "pathetic-looking face" and I meant APATHETIC haha

 

[Scars]

Marvin: I'm the same way. When I was younger, and even up until today (people who don't really know me, or don't know any better) will come up to me and ask me "what's wrong?" Even when I'm not mad, sad, angry, or anything. I guess I just always keep an expressionless face. It's funny how guys come on here and talk about acting "indifferent", but I knew what the word meant before I actually KNEW what it meant. I've been accused of it many times. Woman have told me that my eyes can be intimidating at times, but also soothing and captivating. In fact, the most compliments I get are generally about my eyes. I've just always had a way with holding strong eye contact, I think it even intimidates my bosses at times.

-Scars

 

[Alex DeLarge]

I've been in this same situation man. Some assh0le was bumping into people at a bar. I figured he probably had too much to drink, but when he bumped into me for the 3rd time and I spilt my beer all over my pants, I punched him in the face. The guy was bigger than me, but I didn't give a fvck.. I'm not gonna let someone just do that sh1t to me.

The dude got all pissed and I just gave him that same glare you're talking about (An "I'm going to kill you even though you're bigger than me glare) and he just left the bar.

 

[Drdeee]

So what??

^the rotten question

 

[r0cky]

Good job man. Dont let others tool you around.
I constantly get my shoes stepped on by drunks who dont even say sorry, I've learned that you can jst push them around and they'll only talk ****, they're afraid to get physical for the most part.

 

[Aaron B]

Here's the line I've used a few times.

"If you was gonna do sh**, you'da done it by now"

 

[Kerpal]

Here's the line I've used a few times.

"If you was gonna do sh**, you'da done it by now"

+1

I always stay "So stop talking about it and do it". For some reason they never do

 

[Iceberg]

Here's the line I've used a few times.

"If you was gonna do sh**, you'da done it by now"

Ha. True.

The few times I've lost my cool and hit someone, I just went ahead and did it. No talking.

The more these clowns talk about how they're going to "f**k you up", the less likely they are to do it.

 

[Jaylan]

Whats the difference between chest thumping in the club and you guys trying to do it on an internet forum.

Fighting in the club is stupid, especially if youre attacking someone drunk. If someone steps on your feet just say "dude..." or "hey bro" and most of the time they say my bad.

Usually after that when I see them later the guy gives me a pound, offers me a drink, or we just chat a lil. No hostility. The only reason most people dont apologize is because they think that stepping on feet is part of the usual with being in a crowded night life venue...it just happens and sometimes you slow down walk ways trying to turn around and say "my bad" to everyone.

And if you do get legit azzholes like scars had, do the same thing. Just say "whatever dude" and walk away from the idiots. Dont let them get you angry on a fun night out.

Because for all the talk going on in this thread, you never know what can happen when you get into an altercation...i.e..security or police get invovled or god forbid someone gets really hurt. Screw the immaturity. Plus you gotta stay fresh, and looking beat up or having someone elses crud on you is not a good look lol

 

[Chamber36]

Last night I approached a blonde in a pink shirt with: "Where's Ken?". She laughed, but then her (seemingly AFC) boyfriend came and started saying I was gay and that he didn't want me hitting on his girlfriend. Anyway I told him he was the one wearing pink, his girlfriend laughed, and his friends all came and surrounded me and tried to make fun of my jacket. All 4 of them individually told me to keep walking, and I just looked em all in the eye and asked what for. They all shut up, except for the one in the pink, and eventually his barbie girlfriend told him to let it go.

I was considering getting in a fight because I've never been in a street fight and I've been kickboxing for 3 years, so I just want to test my skills. And the guy was bigger than me so I say that would have been fair. Anyway he and all his friends got super tense, while I was just laughing and making jokes.

 

[justanothernormalguy]

You always come off better to the girl letting the guy get all frustrated and just being calm and collected. Even if its game over with her, you can be sure that when she goes home with him later in the night that she will be very much considering how much of a loser he might be.

Plus, you might have been doing kickboxing for 3 years, he might of been doing it for 10? You never know mate. If you wanna fight, step in the ring/cage, the amount of guys I have seen who think they can fight in the street and it just turns out as two guys flailing about until their friends pull them away and walk off saying 'did you see how i f**ked that guy up man!!'.

Besides, you never know what might happen after you hit somebody, you might end up in court on charges on anything from affray to murder...its just not worth it. Walk away and enjoy the rest of your night, if you are clever you can always sneak your number into the girls hand before you walk away.

 

[Scars]

The funny thing is, I'm pretty sure that guy was lying about working there. I go to that club about every other weekend, or at least drop in for a minute to see if it's poppin' or not and that was the first time I ever saw either one of them. They were clearly just looking for a fight. Honestly, I think they were just mad at the fact that I was getting a lot more female attention than them.

The girl I was dancing with was one of those girls on a "girls night out" sort of thing. So I wasn't even expecting to get layed, was just having fun. She had 4 other girls in her circle, but I made sure to befriend them all, and they all seemed to like me. The fat girl (which as we all know, are usually known for CB'ing) actually pulled me aside and said "I like you, and I approve. You can do whatever you want with my friend, just don't hurt her." One of those types of pow wows.

When all this stuff went down, they saw the whole thing, and if I hadn't already earned their respect before, I'm pretty sure I had it after that. They were impressed and wanted to keep talking about it (woman love gossip I guess), and I just kept saying "It's not a big deal, now let's just dance and have fun."

I wrote about another time where I got hit in the face by a girl at a party, and the girl I was gaming watched the whole thing go down, and was completely turned on by how I handled the situation.

It's one thing to tell a girl that you're a "man" and don't "take any sh!t", but it's another when they see it happen right before their eyes. I'm pretty sure all those girls panties were wet for me.

-Scars

 

[cola]

He wasnt bout **** or he would have punched you instead of talking. Where im from that situation would have got ugly