Originally posted by Wyldfire
Today's men feel just as entitled as today's women do. Today's men are just as selfish as today's women are. Today's men are just as lazy as today's women are. Today's men are just as irresponsible as today's women are. Today's men, just like today's women want something for nothing, feel entitled to have everything handed to them on a silver platter and don't think they have to work and earn a damn thing.
It was demigraphics that provided insight on this matter for me.
If you take a Westernized male outside of his country, he can easily marry any girl in the world provided he can meet her on a language/cultural level. American Husbands are the most desired in the world. "That is because they make the most money!!" True. But they are also the nicest, less likely to cheat on their wives compared to other countries.
If you take a Westernized female outside of her country, she would forever be alone. So I asked recent immigrants to go take up the American women I was avoiding and they went, "No! No no no no no Mr. Pook!!! We want American Dream, no want American women." American wives are generally seen as the world's worst wives. They take the most and give the least. American men have options, American women do not.
If sex was money, then American women could be said to be inflated and headed for a correction. To single girls (I know) who, when talking, will mention they are tired of being single, I tell them to emulate foreign women in personality and feminity (if she did this, she could get any man in America). But she does not have enough sense to do this or even consider it. All she does to 'get a man' is to 'work out' and be 'pretty'. When they base all their efforts on that (and instead of say character), they become expendible since every girl has the same body parts.
Many women lack connection to reality. This is why re-engineering your life to satisfy women (rather than yourself) will backfire.
Finances- Financially, it is best to limit liabilities and create assets, especially passive income. 99% of women have no grasp of this. She judges finances on materialism and not time. She will think wealth is a new convertible instead of a stock portfolio. She will think going into massive debt to buy a huge house is better than renting out a house to someone else. If she has some sense, she will 'save'. But she will never invest. Most men remain poor because of their wives. They must buy the big house, with two new cars, replaced each couple of years, and with multiple vacations a year. Many women do not grasp the basic nature of finance. They believe wealth is deappreciated
things rather than income producing assets.
Status- What most women value for status should be considered red flags. I have witnessed people go into overcrowded professions such as law or media and wonder why in the world they did that. To women, professions in, say,
mass production or
manufacturing just do not exist, even though they help the world go round.
There are times to be single, and times when not to be. Every time a guy is single, he is considered 'sad' who has 'women problems' while a woman who is single is considered 'strong' or 'independent' who is 'picky'.
A good example is professional writing. A woman who wants to be a writer asks how to get there. Professional writers tell her, "You must lock yourself in a room and write every single day." They are shocked by this. "You mean, I have to be in a room
by myself? And that I have to work on it every day?" She is more interested in being a 'writer' than actually writing.
When I go out to eat, I am interested in paying for the food rather than paying for the 'atmosphere' of the place. I am perfectly satisfied going to truck stops or Mom and Pop type restaurants where the place (though clean) looks like hell, I get some darn good food. But most women I run into would prefer 'fancy' places where you pay for the 'environment' and get poor food. Why? Because it satisfies their sense of status.
We all know the easiest way to get a girl is to have other girls like you. Women are suckers for status. It is good for pick ups but bad for life-long purposes.
In womens' world, men do not exist. Men are to women almost a bit higher level than their cats (though this is debatable. She will pet the cat every night, rarely her man). Women seek to impress other women, to get other women's envy. A woman would be bored to tears in a male only harem.
I hear occassionally of the wife exclaiming with joy that her husband got a new job and is making so much new money (or even lost weight!). Yet, I have never heard of a guy who comes in saying his wife lost 50 pounds, looks hot, and his sex life is sky rocketing (usually it sky rockets only if there is something she wants bought).
Men ought to act in their own best self-interest. If you do not want to go out and be 'social', then don't regardless what 'women' say. If you want to be single and do your own thing, do it, regardless whether women call you 'gay' or 'sad' or whatever. If you want to work in a lower paying job you enjoy rather than a nasty higher paying job you hate, do it despite what women say. If you have a choice of going on a date or reading a book you like, read the book. It's cheaper and educates you more.
It's your life that must be lived. I am sick and tired of people living their lives based on what other people want, be they women, their parents, their church, their friends, and even people on the Internet.
We are in a pseudo Greek Silver Age where we all live as children then rapidly age and die. To heck with growing up or taking risks. Lets all just live the life of a child with no work or responsibility. Let both men and women focus on attractiveness of bodies and charms and let our minds and souls narrow and rot. Then we all will believe that every generation before was stupid and worthless, that all History is a waste, that Literature a bunch of words, and Math to be "too hard". Instead, let us watch TV and movies all day, read fantasy books that do not challenge our world, and totally suspend reality to exist in a realm of hyper-reality where everyone is atomized, bump into each other purely for sex, and cheer the magnificent rantings of Oprah.
