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Am I working out properly? Should I gain more weight.

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Hey guys, I'm 100% new to working out, and started doing the Stronglifts 5x5 program. I do 20 minutes of moderate cardio after each workout, but I'm wondering if I need to gain more weight.

I don't look skinny at all, I have a more skinnyfat look. I am currently 5'9", and weigh 150lb. I look kind of chubby, but when I was reading some guides to weight lifting, a lot of people who were in the 5'8" area of height kept saying to get their weight up to 80kg, is that when I am making better progress?

Thanks for any questions answered.
 

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You progress (strength wise) at all levels, body weight doens't matter for progress but you do gain a lot of strength while bulking, especially if you're bulking heavy (at the cost of appearance).

You shouldn't start with a program that consist of 5x5 with dangerous exercises like squats, deadlift and bench presses. They are very complex exercises and it takes TIME to master them. Learn their form for a while with lighter weights and have an instructor check your form.
 

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whats your diet like?
how much weight have you gained so far/how long have you been on the program for?

As much information as possible will make it easier for people to answer your questions.

Cure.
 

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ATP said:
You progress (strength wise) at all levels, body weight doens't matter for progress but you do gain a lot of strength while bulking, especially if you're bulking heavy (at the cost of appearance).

You shouldn't start with a program that consist of 5x5 with dangerous exercises like squats, deadlift and bench presses. They are very complex exercises and it takes TIME to master them. Learn their form for a while with lighter weights and have an instructor check your form.
EXACTLY...

I would say start an upper/lower body split...using machines/isolation exercises while simultaneously learning to master the complex movements (squat,deadlift, benchrpess)

after a bit I'd recommend the op do a simple upper/lower body split ala Joe Defranco's Westside for skinny bastards http://www.defrancostraining.com/articles.html (still using machines here or there)

or a bodybuilding split. BODYBUILDING BIBLE http://tnation.tmuscle.com/free_onl...uilding/the_bodybuilding_bible_free_of_charge

People new to training are going to literally respond to any program given to them. Why not start off with what the biggest/strongest guys do? splits!

Many are going to say no don't listen to him do rippetoe do stronglifts..blah blah blah.....Look at mehdi he has been lifting on his 5X5 program for over 10 years and his body/lifts are nothing impressive.

I could take twins new to training with the same training intensity/genetics/diets throw one on say a dorian yates split with machines/compound/isolation movements have him stronger/bigger/more aesthetic in a year then his own brother who followed say rippetoe/strong lifts to a T.
 

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CarlitosWay said:
EXACTLY...

I would say start an upper/lower body split...using machines/isolation exercises while simultaneously learning to master the complex movements (squat,deadlift, benchrpess)

after a bit I'd recommend the op do a simple upper/lower body split ala Joe Defranco's Westside for skinny bastards http://www.defrancostraining.com/articles.html (still using machines here or there)

or a bodybuilding split. BODYBUILDING BIBLE http://tnation.tmuscle.com/free_onl...uilding/the_bodybuilding_bible_free_of_charge

People new to training are going to literally respond to any program given to them. Why not start off with what the biggest/strongest guys do? splits!

Many are going to say no don't listen to him do rippetoe do stronglifts..blah blah blah.....Look at mehdi he has been lifting on his 5X5 program for over 10 years and his body/lifts are nothing impressive.

I could take twins new to training with the same training intensity/genetics/diets throw one on say a dorian yates split with machines/compound/isolation movements have him stronger/bigger/more aesthetic in a year then his own brother who followed say rippetoe/strong lifts to a T.
Why the hell would you put a Beginner on the same program as the "biggest/strongest guys"? You realise that they have their programs catered to the stage of their strength and their weightlifting experience. Eg you don't put a beginner on Smolov, just because the biggest dude is doing it. So that argument of yours falls down.

He needs to focus on the compound movements, and doing isolation exercises and machines will not only take the focus away but hamper his progress. There's only one way to get better at squatting, and that is to squat.

Also in regards to your criticism of Mehdi it's not the messenger but the message that is important. Mehdi has confessed to training badly and improper for most of those 10 years, leading to injury. You can't judge his progress based on his mistakes.
 

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CaptainJ said:
Why the hell would you put a Beginner on the same program as the "biggest/strongest guys"? You realise that they have their programs catered to the stage of their strength and their weightlifting experience. Eg you don't put a beginner on Smolov, just because the biggest dude is doing it. So that argument of yours falls down.

He needs to focus on the compound movements, and doing isolation exercises and machines will not only take the focus away but hamper his progress. There's only one way to get better at squatting, and that is to squat.

Also in regards to your criticism of Mehdi it's not the messenger but the message that is important. Mehdi has confessed to training badly and improper for most of those 10 years, leading to injury. You can't judge his progress based on his mistakes.
This kid needs to add as much muscle as possible while keeping it balanced. Guess which mother****ers go from point a to point be the absolute fastest? Natural bodybuilders and geared bodybuilders. Natty bodybuilders train the exact same way as the geared ones except most the time with less volume and not as big loads. Recovery is a bit different to, Yet the exercise setup/execution/rep schemes. Stay pretty much the same.

So why not have a beginner train like a natty bodybuilder from the get go if size is the primary goal and strength becomes a side effect ?

A bigger muscle is more capable of being a stronger muscle and vice versa. So training both sides of the spectrum are necessary. Heavy when necessary and going for the pump is essential for some one trying gain a lot of size.

Hate people throwing around 5X5 stronglifts and starting strength as if they're holy grails, ignoring the fact that a lot of rank beginners also started on splits utilizing machines/compound movements/isolation exercises and actually standing out as some one who lifts seriously a lot quicker.
 

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A person's body must adapt to weight training over time. This is known as training the central nervous system. A boxer cannot simply jump in the ring and execute combinations like the pros, so why would we throw someone in the gym and tell them to lift like a pro? This guy needs to start out on maybe a 3 day or 4 day basic split, training one muscle group per week.

Easing into a workout will allow the body to adapt to basic training movement and form whilst gaining some strength... When the body adapts to this program it is then ready for a routine switch possibly to something more challenging and something that includes being in the gym more days in a week...

Instead of arguing over something that can be answered through research
I will provide the op with a great website where you will find absolutely EVERYTHING you need to know about training... there is a search button and a forum much like this site... read up guys its great for mind development...

Site: www.muscleandstrength.com

-cam
Sigh why why oh why do people make this **** more complex then it should be. Most people shouldn't even be talking about CNS this and that. He's a ****in' newbie. He should at the minimum be hitting his muscles hard at least around twice a week. Not eating like a pigeon and just looking to improve in rep ranges he feels works for him. Some do fine 6-8, others 12-15. He just needs to get out there, train and talk to actual lifters in the gym.

who knows this kid could have the recovery/strength/muscle building attributes of a genetically gifted person for all we know. Yet he needs to find all this out HIMSELF. This is why I would rather see some one follow what most of the bodybuilders are doing and scale it back some if it's to much. Is that to hard to understand?
 

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We are keeping it simple. Simple linear progression is the fastest way to improve strength (and therefore size, at his level) and there's no reason not to use the fastest method available. If you're genetically gifted (and this guy isn't, he's skinnyfat) it's still the fastest way, you just progress even faster on it and can use it longer before plateauing and moving to intermediate programming than people with average/below average genetics.

The last thing this guy needs is a complicated bodybuilding program with high reps and lots of isolation and assistance exercises. There will be plenty of time to work on the beach muscles and "get a pump" later if he wants, he might not even want to if he gets big enough after exhausting his personal limits of linear progression. For now all he needs to be worrying about is getting his squat, deadlift and presses up with a basic program like Starting Strength. You don't try to put the roof on a house before you lay the foundation.
 

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bodybuilding programs aren't complicated 2-3 exercises per body part, muscle pairings hit every session (compound/ isolation/machine work). ramped sets up to 1-2 all out sets for 6-15 reps

Then after years of doing this they can split it up more to focus on glaring weakness in the physique.

Alright whatever it won't be my fault if after doing rippetoes he ends up with just big ass legs and an unbalanced upper body....
 

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CarlitosWay said:
bodybuilding programs aren't complicated 2-3 exercises per body part, muscle pairings hit every session (compound/ isolation/machine work). ramped sets up to 1-2 all out sets for 6-15 reps
This is exactly the kind of thing a guy at his level needs to avoid.

Then after years of doing this they can split it up more to focus on glaring weakness in the physique.
Years? Or you could just spend one year getting your big lifts up and do some beach work afterward if you still want.

Alright whatever it won't be my fault if after doing rippetoes he ends up with just big ass legs and an unbalanced upper body....
Maybe unbalanced compared to the typical Popeye bench monkey with pencil legs who curls more than he squats. And again, if he wants to do beach work later that's fine, but you don't put the roof on the house before you lay the foundation.
 

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Mehdi's lifts are unimpressive because he does 5x5 without knowing what that program was actually designed for. Bill Starr created 5x5 for gym teachers to show kids how to work out. It's meant to be simple enough for the clueless teachers to train the kids, not meant to be effective.

An effective compound lift routine for beginners is different. It has fewer sets and higher reps for certain things. Take people from a local gym in my city: http://ptcfrankston.com - these guys train compound lifts all the time and have crazy results. Most of them have only been training for 2 years max (that's how long the gym has been opened). Nearly 50 lifters DLing over 200kg.

Talk about imbalance... I've heard of so many people complaining about weak back, weak legs, weak hips... NEVER weak chest.

When you're a beginner, you don't train like a pro. That goes in any field, not just weightlifting. Even the pros are sticking to basics. Have a read about the pros in this field and educate yourself, CarlitosWay. You have great enthusiasm but are seriously misleading yourself.
 

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I definately agree that compounds are key to improving in general strength and size the sad thing is that the compounds are also among the most dangerous exercises to perform and it takes a while to learn to do them properly. Lifting compounds with lacking form will end you up in two places, plateaus and injuries. Going as low as 5 reps when you got no ****ing clue what to do is really bad and a setup for injuries later!

If you look at most of the people in the gyms almost no one is able to do them properly. I see bench presses with elbows out or bouncing weights, squats with knees in front of toes, pointing inward or lifting with back (It's a squat not a ****ing good morning), deadlifts while staring into the ground or bar too far out , bent over rows with hanging weights, etc...

Lifting is about having long term goals and slowly reaching them. IMO it is worthless to discuss how he should be lifting. The first month should be about learning the compound exercises to set him up for GOOD muscle gains once he got the basics down. Slapping on weights while having good technique and not lifting with ego will yeild miles better results in the long run than rushing into the gym with no clue to lift the right lifts and slapping on weights.

Injuries is not something you think of when you are just starting out, why would you? You are feeling fine and it's not fun not to lift heavy. But people in general fail to realize that safety comes first, ALWAYS. Without safety you can't lift ****. Something as simple as an injured back and shoulder means that you'll be completely immobilized in the gym.

So to the OP. Go to the gym. Ask the instructor to help you learn the form on the bench press, deadlift, military press, squat, bent over rows and stiff leg deadlifts. When you got the form down you can start adding weight and most of the time you won't know what the term "plateaue" means ^^
 

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I definately agree that compounds are key to improving in general strength and size the sad thing is that the compounds are also among the most dangerous exercises to perform and it takes a while to learn to do them properly. Lifting compounds with lacking form will end you up in two places, plateaus and injuries.
Any exercise that makes you strong and fit will be risky and can cause injuries. I challenge you to name one exception.

Same with anything worth having in life: you have to work hard and risk yourself to get it.

I agree with the rest of your post though. You gotta nail the forms first. And btw they're not hard. It's just that most guys don't pay any attention and are too eager to pack on more weight and cheat on form to achieve that.
 

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Yes, all the effective exercises is generally pretty dangerous but it is downright stupid to take extra unnecessary risks. When an exercise span more than one joint it gets more complex. Most people can barbell curl without much instruction but most people can't squat in the right form right off the bat. I kinda like to compare lifting to learning to drive. Driving a car isn't "hard" either but there are a lot of small things you need to learn first before you get a license and can drive on your own. Switching gears, looking at the speed meter and signaling becomes second nature after a while buy a beginner might have issues with it.

Squatting for example you need to think of a lot of different things. We need to flex the core, arc the back, make sure we have the weight not set on heels or toes but in the middle, make sure the knees don't go forward during the lift. Make sure we don't good morning up the weight and thereby take focus off the legs... a lot of small things which seem very easy once you have trained a while but the people I've instructed have insisted on doing the damn same mistake over and over until I smack some sense into them. The problem is generally that they THINK their form is good when it actually isn't.
 

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ATP said:
Yes, all the effective exercises is generally pretty dangerous but it is downright stupid to take extra unnecessary risks. When an exercise span more than one joint it gets more complex. Most people can barbell curl without much instruction but most people can't squat in the right form right off the bat. I kinda like to compare lifting to learning to drive. Driving a car isn't "hard" either but there are a lot of small things you need to learn first before you get a license and can drive on your own. Switching gears, looking at the speed meter and signaling becomes second nature after a while buy a beginner might have issues with it.

Squatting for example you need to think of a lot of different things. We need to flex the core, arc the back, make sure we have the weight not set on heels or toes but in the middle, make sure the knees don't go forward during the lift. Make sure we don't good morning up the weight and thereby take focus off the legs... a lot of small things which seem very easy once you have trained a while but the people I've instructed have insisted on doing the damn same mistake over and over until I smack some sense into them. The problem is generally that they THINK their form is good when it actually isn't.
Your argument of not letting a begginner do compound lifts is like saying "Stay away from girls, you might get rejected". There's only one way to learn, and that's by doing the lifts a lot, whilst focussing on improving form. Don't hide from your problems. If you do Rippetoe's or another compound beginner routine, then you WILL BE FORCED to focus on nailing technique, as it is imperative to the program.
 

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CaptainJ said:
Your argument of not letting a begginner do compound lifts is like saying "Stay away from girls, you might get rejected". There's only one way to learn, and that's by doing the lifts a lot, whilst focussing on improving form. Don't hide from your problems. If you do Rippetoe's or another compound beginner routine, then you WILL BE FORCED to focus on nailing technique, as it is imperative to the program.
We can agree on that you should do the lifts a lot. BUT...

...you don't put a beginner on a routine with 5 rep sets on the basic exercises. When I started training MAX-OT was the craze and everyone told me to do that because it was the best. 4-6 repetitions in general. If you think you can learn proper form with such low repetitions then you're deluding yourself.

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So to the OP. Go to the gym. Ask the instructor to help you learn the form on the bench press, deadlift, military press, squat, bent over rows and stiff leg deadlifts. When you got the form down you can start adding weight and most of the time you won't know what the term "plateaue" means ^^
 

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so funny to see you all arguing which is good, the most relevant (and exciting) discussions/information comes from arguing back and forth so I condone it....

but I will say this...You are all right, I havent seen one post in this thread that is incorrect.

The only thing that separates everyones answer from being the better choice is...The individual.

so unless any of you have seen the OP's performance, technique and observe the effects it has on his body.

NONE OF YOU have any idea what will be best for the OP.

All you can do is give advice, or your perspective on it, hope the OP listens and experiments with the advice you give him and then figures out what works best for himself.
 
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ATP said:
We can agree on that you should do the lifts a lot. BUT...

...you don't put a beginner on a routine with 5 rep sets on the basic exercises. When I started training MAX-OT was the craze and everyone told me to do that because it was the best. 4-6 repetitions in general. If you think you can learn proper form with such low repetitions then you're deluding yourself.
I think you're better off learning proper form with lower reps. If you're just starting out, you're not using heavy weights yet, so fatigue isn't an issue. It's hard to learn how to do something correctly if you're tired.
 

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