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Am I looking too much into it?

sanjimbo

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Hi guys. I'm a first time poster, but I've been lurking for a while now. This was supposed to be brief, but I get carried away when I write.

Well first I'd like to give a little background. There's a girl at school that I'm interested in and at one point I had oneitis and it hit me pretty hard, but luckily I've gotten over that. However I still like her. I have her in a couple classes and there's small talk everyday, but actual conversations come up maybe every two or three days. I've been talking to her for five months and I get the feeling that she's attracted to me as well. I don't know exactly what makes me feel it, but it's something. I haven't gotten the courage to ask her out because I'm a little shy. I was quite an AFC two years ago, although I will occasionally get those AFC tendencies, it's nothing like it was before and I've become quite a bit more confident.

Anyways, here's my the thing. I walk by her everyday between two of my classes and we always greet each other. Most of the time she is alone and sometimes I'll see her walking with some other kid. I don't want to say that the kid is necessarily unpopular or anything, because I don't know him personally but I've seen him around and let's just say he's not the coolest guy in school. I'm not implying that I myself am popular, but I've always considered myself to be in somewhere in between, an average guy in terms of popularity. Anyways back on topic. Whenever I see them walking together and she sees me, it seems like she pulls ahead of him. After which she waves to me. Once I saw them walking together before she saw me and when she did she moved up about four feet ahead of him. Normally it's just a little bit(little less than foot maybe?).

Does this mean anything, or am i just looking too much into it as the title says? Any input would be great.
 

WalkingStick

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If you have to ask you're looking too much into it.

If you want her, ask her out. Don't worry about the other kid. He's most likely a chump.
 

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sanjimbo said:
Hi guys. I'm a first time poster, but I've been lurking for a while now. This was supposed to be brief, but I get carried away when I write.

Well first I'd like to give a little background. There's a girl at school that I'm interested in and at one point I had oneitis and it hit me pretty hard, but luckily I've gotten over that. However I still like her. I have her in a couple classes and there's small talk everyday, but actual conversations come up maybe every two or three days. I've been talking to her for five months and I get the feeling that she's attracted to me as well. I don't know exactly what makes me feel it, but it's something. I haven't gotten the courage to ask her out because I'm a little shy. I was quite an AFC two years ago, although I will occasionally get those AFC tendencies, it's nothing like it was before and I've become quite a bit more confident.

Anyways, here's my the thing. I walk by her everyday between two of my classes and we always greet each other. Most of the time she is alone and sometimes I'll see her walking with some other kid. I don't want to say that the kid is necessarily unpopular or anything, because I don't know him personally but I've seen him around and let's just say he's not the coolest guy in school. I'm not implying that I myself am popular, but I've always considered myself to be in somewhere in between, an average guy in terms of popularity. Anyways back on topic. Whenever I see them walking together and she sees me, it seems like she pulls ahead of him. After which she waves to me. Once I saw them walking together before she saw me and when she did she moved up about four feet ahead of him. Normally it's just a little bit(little less than foot maybe?).

Does this mean anything, or am i just looking too much into it as the title says? Any input would be great.
Looking way to much into it! She sees you and walks less than a foot ahead of him, and you take it as a sign that what, she likes you?

He could be a threat even if he's unpopular, he's hanging out with your girl, so look into that. But listen to what you're saying: you've been talking to this chick for 5 damn months and are still making "small talk" with her. You better be flirting hard and getting physical by this point.
 
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