Am I being Bug-A-Boo around women or not?

[Analysis]

Question....I have bascially followed everything that Doc Love says in his principles...That's why I have been w/ this girl for over 2 years..and she does everything for me..buys me things, takes me out, extremely considerate.....but there is one little thing that annoys me and I need some guidance on it...When I ask my girl to do something, she is not the most timely person..I have to ask her a few times before it gets done but it aggravates her when I keep asking because she says she feels that I don't trust her to handle things...She may have a point, I don't know...When someone says there going to do something I get ancy if it is not done ASAP because I do things ASAP...I told her from now on, I'll ask her one time and won't say anything else about it but she felt I was being mean about it...I really wasn't but I don't know....like I said the Pros outweight the Cons in this relationship..but this is one thing that bothers me...How should I handle it?

Thanks 4 the responses

 

[Wyldfire]

She might be like me. I tend to procrastinate until the last minute a lot of the time. I am, however, VERY reliable and dependable. However, I do things my way, on my terms and on my time table. If someone pesters me to do something before I'm ready to do it I get so annoyed that I put it off even longer than I otherwise would. IF this is how your girlfriend is then you may as well just accept it and not try to change her because it will only cause problems between you. It's not a big deal as long as she does do the things she says she will do. So just understand and remind yourself that she isn't an ASAP person and that's okay and you don't need to pester her about things unless she starts not doing them at all. Just give her time to do them on her own time frame.

 

[xiola]

and you were with her for 2 years? must not be that big of a deal. im the same way though, if something needs to be done, do it

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[Mojo604]

You sound like a jackass... your girlfiend must get annoyed.