am I a stalker?

[chad2k5]

It turns out my oneitis's dad lives across the street from me (small world, huh?) and I'm always looking out my window to see if her car's there and she's visiting. well like I do almost everyday, I peaked out and she happened to be there walking to the house. I ran as quick as I could for my camera. I forget how much the zoom is, but it gets close. so I slowly pulled the blinds up just a little so I could get the lens in, and snapped a few shots. She kinda rejected me 4 years ago and I haven't seen her since.

I'm a normal person but I guess in a way this is kind of weird?

 

[Snowman23]

4 years and only 20 posts. lol

 

[Daydream Engineer]

Do you remeber the movie Disturbia with Shia lebeouf? Was what he did stalkerish? no, he was just being a secret agent on a girl mission hahaha

 

[Obey Propaganda]

You look out your window everyday in hopes your oneitis from FOUR years ago is across the street? Then you grab your camera and take paparazzi style pictures?

Very normal. You'll be thawing this chick from your freezer in no time.

 

[Mr_rogers]

I wouldn't say it's normal per se, but it's not really hurting anybody either. If your desire to do this sort of stuff escalates to where you're considering doing other, more serious stuff, you should look into talking to somebody about it. But for now, you're good.

 

[Damascus]

You look out your window everyday in hopes your oneitis from FOUR years ago is across the street? Then you grab your camera and take paparazzi style pictures?

Very normal. You'll be thawing this chick from your freezer in no time.

Muahahahaha! I remember 6 years ago, i took the bus to the other side of town,and for several weeks i took paparazzi style pictures of the cutest girl of the whole school, but on the last night i did, she caught me by her window taking a picture of her playing Ape Escape on PlayStation because i stupidly put my camera on flash. She saw me, yelled, and knew who i was because i had chemistry class with her, well long story short, her older varsity football brother came out and he made me feel terror i have never felt before. I felt like dangerous, like a creature of the night when i would take pictures of her all the time, but i learned my lesson at the police station, you can be tried as a sexual offender if your not careful. Don't do it!

 

[chad2k5]

cuz what I was thinking about doing is next time I see her, I'd run out back to my driveway and get in my car, turn down the street and have "Chasing Cars" by Snow Patrol blaring.

 

[Damascus]

cuz what I was thinking about doing is next time I see her, I'd run out back to my driveway and get in my car, turn down the street and have "Chasing Cars" by Snow Patrol blaring.

Have Rockstar by n.E.R.D blaring! If i was in your shoes, i would do that! It makes you look cool in front of the honeys!

 

[daygameguy]

Don't blast any song. Just approach her. Show your new changed DJ personality. if you have one

 

[Jackie Paper]

Her Dad lives across the street? If you were smart, you'd get to know him better. Act mature around him, be respectful, even kiss his ass a little. Remember, he doesn't know you. And she doesn't know that you know him. Develop a friendship with him. Sooner or later, she will find out. Whether it's coming over and seeing you with him, or him casually mentioning something about "the guy across the street". And if you're real cool with him, he will mention you, trust me. Once she finds out it's you, she WILL ask her Dad about you. And he'll speak highly of you based on his interactions with you. She didn't know you knew who her Dad was, and that's what's going to impress her.

 

[rushing dude 123]

Well all stalkers have got to start some where lol, ur inner game is ****ed my friend thats what u got to work on. Stop thinking about this girl and waiting around for her, think about urself and move on.

ps. read the dj bible, if u have already...read it again. Good luck dude.

 

[Desert Fox]

if this isn't a troll then i have seen it all...holy **** son get some help

 

[Snowman23]

Oh c'mon Desert Fox, little dramatic are we?

 

[Desert Fox]

Oh c'mon Desert Fox, little dramatic are we?

dude this is weird abnormal behavior lol. but you're right it's not the weirdest ****in thing i've seen...

 

[Damascus]

dude this is weird abnormal behavior lol. but you're right it's not the weirdest ****in thing i've seen...

Are you talking about me? Im a sky drake.

 

[PeeGee]

We have a tendency to enjoy emotional attachments because it reinforces positive chemical changes in our biology.

You are getting this by performing these actions. Now, you are trying to justify it using ethics or morality.

I pose this question: if a girl did that to you and you found out, how would you feel toward her?

I would not be scared but I would definitely not be attracted to her either.

That should be all the 'morality' you need, I hope.

 

[chad2k5]

update:

she was over at her Dad's again. I waited till she got in her car, then I ran out back and jumped in mine. I tailed her for about 2 miles (I don't think she noticed). She jumped on the freeway and that's when I turned back. Do you guys think she has a boyfriend? I'm hoping she's single, cuz what are the chances of a family member of hers living across the street? I think it's meant to be. I think I'm gonna run into her and be like "oh wow, how've you been?" etc, ya know making it look I didn't know anything.

thoughts, suggestions?

thanks

 

[Alle_Gory]

Yeah, see a therapist.

 

[fertileTurtle]

You need to make your move so you can get over her. Go up to her and talk to her then tell her you want to take her out some time. Plan a fun date. If she says no, then just forget about her and continue to film her if it gets you off, lol, but emotionally dettach yourself from her. She's really not as important as you are making her out to be. You need to grow up a bit, son.

 

[Damascus]

^^^^^ listen to this guy, i can't give you good advice, since i suck with girls. *sad and still crying from the Am I Ugly? thread*