LateBloomer1
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I really can't tell. I am 24 now and was the kind of super nice guy who NEVER got laid in highschool, and not really in college either. I lost my virginity at 17, but my second woman wasn't until I was 22. Now I'm at 26 girls, with some knockouts, as well as some I'd cringe at as outliers, but with the vast majority being respectable 6s and 7s. Far from a player, but far from the nice guy at 21 who couldn't get a date in his life. My secret? I connected with older women, lots of them, and found they didn't need the douchebag, ultra aggressive dominant man. I'm charming, good looking but with red hair, and have a kind of "gee willickers!" affectation to my voice (of course I'll never say that, and its not feminine but innocent sounding for sure) and have facial expressions where you could mistake me for that poster of "40 Year Old Virgin".
Throughout my recent time of success, I have always been a gentlemen, never talk down to a woman, always compliment them. And that's who I am. I am very sociable, I am a good and loving friend, and I connect with a ton of people. I'll lie to someone to make restore their self confidence, I just like making people feel good, but it may be for a selfish reason. Women are in the same catergory, but that's where I wonder about my morality.
I'm not looking to get a girlfriend now that I'm getting laid, but for the night I connect with each woman, I kind of fall in love with them. I stare deeply in to their eyes, encourage them, tell them how much they're worth it, etc, but then the next day I want to get rid of them, smoke a doobie, and celebrate by listening to R Kelly or "I Just Had Sex". To me its about that one day experience, getting access to that woman and making the connection. I guess I like connecting with people and making memories, but I like to keep them as memories. But girls get heartbroken by me. I tell them things like "I think I could be in love with you" and mean it that night but they are a distant memory come morning. I had this one Dominican girl visiting send a porcelain figurine of me that she made! And we only met one time! A married 32 yr old from Louisiana bought me a box of chocolates (she was in NYC where I live visiting, and she is under the impression that we'll continue something even though she's recently married. Oi vey). A 40 yr old said that I made her feel young again, and got upset when I said I was always travelling or busy. I will even relent and kind of go on a pity date after I had sex with a woman because I don't want to hurt them. But so many of these women want something more, am I leading each and every one of them on, or am I that nice guy who provided them that one spectacular night that they'll never forget? I don't know what camp I'm in. Not alpha, not beta, but I'd like to think nice. I could be wrong.
Throughout my recent time of success, I have always been a gentlemen, never talk down to a woman, always compliment them. And that's who I am. I am very sociable, I am a good and loving friend, and I connect with a ton of people. I'll lie to someone to make restore their self confidence, I just like making people feel good, but it may be for a selfish reason. Women are in the same catergory, but that's where I wonder about my morality.
I'm not looking to get a girlfriend now that I'm getting laid, but for the night I connect with each woman, I kind of fall in love with them. I stare deeply in to their eyes, encourage them, tell them how much they're worth it, etc, but then the next day I want to get rid of them, smoke a doobie, and celebrate by listening to R Kelly or "I Just Had Sex". To me its about that one day experience, getting access to that woman and making the connection. I guess I like connecting with people and making memories, but I like to keep them as memories. But girls get heartbroken by me. I tell them things like "I think I could be in love with you" and mean it that night but they are a distant memory come morning. I had this one Dominican girl visiting send a porcelain figurine of me that she made! And we only met one time! A married 32 yr old from Louisiana bought me a box of chocolates (she was in NYC where I live visiting, and she is under the impression that we'll continue something even though she's recently married. Oi vey). A 40 yr old said that I made her feel young again, and got upset when I said I was always travelling or busy. I will even relent and kind of go on a pity date after I had sex with a woman because I don't want to hurt them. But so many of these women want something more, am I leading each and every one of them on, or am I that nice guy who provided them that one spectacular night that they'll never forget? I don't know what camp I'm in. Not alpha, not beta, but I'd like to think nice. I could be wrong.
