Am i a idiot? Probably

yankees13

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I got a accounting class that meets once a week in my college.. Today i finally got the nerve to talk to this girl. We actually sat right next to each other during the whole class.. Well we talked a little about professors, classes, work. Made her laugh a little.. Well lunch time came, and yes im a idiot, i know while im getting to ready to leave i ask out of nowhere you going out for lunch or you staying in, she said shes going out too... Yea i know stupid me right there i should of been like wanna join, come with me or something to that effect but stupid me left it at that

So i went to the bathroom next door while i got out i peeked into class to see if she left, well she was gone so i started walking thinking maybe shes in front of me but she wasnt there so i was like oh well, the retard that i am i had a chance to get to know her during lunch but i didnt open my mouth and invited her

I come back from lunch about 30 min later to the room, all i see is 4 people, and i see her with her head down on the desk dont know if she is sleeping, dead, awake, or depressed so i sit my ass down thinking should i tap her, try to talk to her ,wait when she wakes up or what, but my phone rings and i talk in the class for good 20 min she still sleeping it seems or she aint interested to talking to no one.. Then when im about to tap her and open my mouth her phone rings lol..She talks to some kid, all i heard was the words 35th street, bar, 6 o'clock, i gotta work, ill see you there. So i guess she had a date or something.

Well when she finished talking she went to lay down again, and the professor came back. Rest of class we talked little bit made her laugh once really loud, that professor was like whats going on there guys?

Well the class ended early, i was gonna walk with her and talk to her more but i was like nah forget it something different i aint gonna play desperare and run up to her trying to talk, and be all over her so i left it at that.. I packed my stuff up really slowly, then she was leaving and smiled and said" bye, ill see you next week"

Whats my problem? I dont know.. If i knew i wouldnt be posting.. The last couple of times ive been turned down im guessing because i was too fast and desperate.. Im pretty popular at college alot of girls say "he is so damn cute" damn he is hot" etc so yes i am good looking but big deal when i cant get what i want.. So basically if i wanted a girl i would have no problem getting one, right now i have 2 chicks trying to get with me but im not trying to get with them because i dont want them.. My problem is i guess is that i cant get what I WANT, but i can get something that i dont really want, and i dont know how to change that.

So next saturday, is last class which runs from 930 till about 2 or 3pm after that i have no other classes with her except that we meet week after that for the final exam.... So basically maybe you guys can offer me some advice, yes i do read the dj bible but i still really dont know what to do. Some of you probably gonna say wake up she probably likes you or something like that well i dont know if i knew it would make it easy for me but i trully have no clue... I looked from the corner of my eyes what she was doing during class and i saw her few times looking at me in my direction i dont know if she was looking at me or something else. (Yea i know im making this complicated then it really is) So can you guys please offer me some advice how i should approach the last day of class ?What should i say or can do to find out if she likes me etc how to get her email or phone # Any tips will help

Thanks --my bad for the lengthy post, just trying to give as much details as possible
 

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Hey man, we should start a club, believe me I've been there and I'm STILL doing that (if you don't believe me read my post 'recognizing women's signals/tests'). We could call the club "Self-Doubters Anonymous"-for the severely self-doubt impaired.

I've been told by more than a few women that if you THINK she's interested in you...she IS.
One more profound thing;whenever I'd ***** 'why is that cute chic with that loser?' my buddy would say "because HE ASKED !!!"

If you think about it -Oh how true!
 

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'why is that cute chic with that loser?' my buddy would say "because HE ASKED !!!" LOL i like that

Because he asked?! WHAT DID HE ASK lol so ill know what to ASK
 

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chat her up, do the c & f thing, observe-use your intuition, if you think she is even somewhat interested, tell her "I'm going to ... after class for a coffee/drink (whatever) wanna join me? (just be a man with a plan).

Hey that's my two cents.
 

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Ok so most of you are bashing me.. Instead of bashing why dont you give me some advice while you at it
 

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Originally posted by yankees13
Allright

I got a accounting class that meets once a week in my college.. Today i finally got the nerve to talk to this girl. We actually sat right next to each other during the whole class.. Well we talked a little about professors, classes, work. Made her laugh a little.. Well lunch time came, and yes im a idiot, i know while im getting to ready to leave i ask out of nowhere you going out for lunch or you staying in, she said shes going out too... Yea i know stupid me right there i should of been like wanna join, come with me or something to that effect but stupid me left it at that
No need to be bashing yourself at this. We all have had worse blunders than this. If she likes you, she'll give you another chance.

So i went to the bathroom next door while i got out i peeked into class to see if she left, well she was gone so i started walking thinking maybe shes in front of me but she wasnt there so i was like oh well, the retard that i am i had a chance to get to know her during lunch but i didnt open my mouth and invited her
Oh, memories rushing back to me. Help!! Help!!! :)

Whats my problem? I dont know.. If i knew i wouldnt be posting.. The last couple of times ive been turned down im guessing because i was too fast and desperate.. Im pretty popular at college alot of girls say "he is so damn cute" damn he is hot" etc so yes i am good looking but big deal when i cant get what i want.. So basically if i wanted a girl i would have no problem getting one, right now i have 2 chicks trying to get with me but im not trying to get with them because i dont want them..
Yeah, 'cause they're too easy right? No effort on your part, no value attached to them. You probably think of them as desperate and against all logic, you don't want to be with them. How weirdly the human psyche works. Logic tells you "here are two perfectly fit grown up girls that I could be having lots of fun with, why don't you go for it?" But it is emotion that takes over and says "Naah, I just don't FEEL IT for them." Do you realize what I'm saying? I'm saying that women experience the same exact thing!!! So keep it in mind.

My problem is i guess is that i cant get what I WANT, but i can get something that i dont really want, and i dont know how to change that.

So next saturday, is last class which runs from 930 till about 2 or 3pm after that i have no other classes with her except that we meet week after that for the final exam.... So basically maybe you guys can offer me some advice, yes i do read the dj bible but i still really dont know what to do. Some of you probably gonna say wake up she probably likes you or something like that well i dont know if i knew it would make it easy for me but i trully have no clue... I looked from the corner of my eyes what she was doing during class and i saw her few times looking at me in my direction i dont know if she was looking at me or something else. (Yea i know im making this complicated then it really is) So can you guys please offer me some advice how i should approach the last day of class ?What should i say or can do to find out if she likes me etc how to get her email or phone # Any tips will help
Relax!! Okay??

If you don't get her number it's not the end of the world. I wasted 4 perfectly good college years and din't get into a single relationship. Why? Becasue I never asked!!! Someone had it in their signature line "I'd rather hear No, than never know"

So you gotta ask for her email or number but in a way that's not too intrusive and doesn't make you look needy. Just say something like "I'd like to chat with you some more. Do you have an email address or is phone better?"
 
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