apprenticedj
Senior Don Juan
So I ran into an old aquaintance last weekend at a funeral and we were catching up outside after the service. We were just basically catching up on life in general and I asked her how her boyfriend was doing. Quick back story: She was with another guy for a few years but her “best friend” was this sad, textbook AFC orbiter. He would take her out of town, buy her things, even expensive diamond earrings for her birthday. He professed his love several times only to be LJBF’d every time. She eventually breaks up with her boyfriend and due to what I assume was loneliness she ended up with Orbiter. They’ve been together for a few months now. Back to our conversation!
In response to my questions she says “Ugh, he’s just so freaking nice, it’s killing me!!”. We laugh about it and keep chatting and then she asks if I want to go grab a bite to eat which I say certainly. Now I was always told by others that this girl had it bad for me back in the day and we flirted quite a bit but mostly just having fun. We go get something to eat and we’re sitting outside, she mentions it’s really hot and she’d like to drink a beer. So being the guy that I am I agree and offer to have some beers back at my place to which she excitedly agrees. We get to my place, drink, touch, escalate, start making out, fooling around and stop short of having sex. During this time she says “this is wrong we shouldn’t do this, what about Orbiter?” but she continues going along. I consider this LMR and I was even concerned about Orbiter. My roommate came home and killed the momentum (plus I like total privacy when I’m slamming a chick) so we cool off.
She’s been texting me this week asking to come over this weekend and so far that is the plan but something has happened to me during the week. I’m feeling guilty, remorseful, feeling sorry for Orbiter. I’ve met him before and he’s a total puss but he treats her so good and is genuinely a nice guy. I’m standing at a crossroads between being a dog and slamming this girl which I know many guys would do in a heartbeat and had my roommate not come home I would’ve but after the sexual frenzy cooled down and I’ve had a few days to think about it I still feel bad. I’m asking for opinions fellas.
Do I see some of my old AFC self in Orbiter? Is that stopping me?
Am I simply a man with principles? Thinking with my big head instead of the little head?
What would you do?
In response to my questions she says “Ugh, he’s just so freaking nice, it’s killing me!!”. We laugh about it and keep chatting and then she asks if I want to go grab a bite to eat which I say certainly. Now I was always told by others that this girl had it bad for me back in the day and we flirted quite a bit but mostly just having fun. We go get something to eat and we’re sitting outside, she mentions it’s really hot and she’d like to drink a beer. So being the guy that I am I agree and offer to have some beers back at my place to which she excitedly agrees. We get to my place, drink, touch, escalate, start making out, fooling around and stop short of having sex. During this time she says “this is wrong we shouldn’t do this, what about Orbiter?” but she continues going along. I consider this LMR and I was even concerned about Orbiter. My roommate came home and killed the momentum (plus I like total privacy when I’m slamming a chick) so we cool off.
She’s been texting me this week asking to come over this weekend and so far that is the plan but something has happened to me during the week. I’m feeling guilty, remorseful, feeling sorry for Orbiter. I’ve met him before and he’s a total puss but he treats her so good and is genuinely a nice guy. I’m standing at a crossroads between being a dog and slamming this girl which I know many guys would do in a heartbeat and had my roommate not come home I would’ve but after the sexual frenzy cooled down and I’ve had a few days to think about it I still feel bad. I’m asking for opinions fellas.
Do I see some of my old AFC self in Orbiter? Is that stopping me?
Am I simply a man with principles? Thinking with my big head instead of the little head?
What would you do?
