Alright I'm going to be brutally honest with you guys

[bigdave17]

The simple solution is the one you most certainly WON'T do.

Start being social, but not with people where it's easy to be social with.

Start being social (approaching, starting conversations, etc.) with people where you FEEL NERVOUS before doing so.

If you can't do that, you'll NEVER GET THE GIRLS YOU WANT.

If your body is weak, you improve it with exercise.

Exercise is repetitive motion that is NOT COMFORTABLE.

If your social skills are weak, you must improve them with exercise.

Exercise is repetitive behavior that is NOT COMFORTABLE.

I socialize a lot and make friends all the time

 

[sosousage]

my biggest thing holding me back with women in my life is the following

When I was in high school, I was fat and mocked for my lack of dating succcess. I internalized that super hard and convinced myself that I would never meet anybody and was not worthy of ever having a relationship. I developed an absolutely ungodly awful attitude towards dating

Long story short, I've overcome a lot of my self esteem issues but my main 2 or 3 self limiting beliefs are still there

1)Hot women are never interested in meeting anybody. If I approach and ask one out, I'm really annoying them to death

2)I can never be good enough. Hot women have impossible standards and want a man who is impossibly perfect in every way. This is why I push myself so obsessively hard for success in all facets of my life

3)I don't feel like I deserve a girlfriend because I feel like I need to be totally perfect to meet someone

How do I overcome these self - limiting beliefs?

mocked for lack of dating success in highschool? high school is 14 to 18 age, so in my schools it was like no one had a gf maybe except three people from whole class




your threads are contradicting,in one u say u r insecure and worthless of any girl, and in others you say you will only date models

 

[sazc]

#attentionseeking

 

[Soflobro#3]

#attentionseeking

Why are your hands so big?

 

[davidcarr]

bigdave17 is a male attention whor. Slap a pair of tits on him he's a woman.

 

[Soflobro#3]

bigdave17 is a male attention whor. Slap a pair of tits on him he's a woman.

You're a troll

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

I socialize a lot and make friends all the time

of course you do.

Try doing it when you are NERVOUS. Not when it comes natural.

You're not only too terrified to DO IT, you are too terrified to even THINK about it.

I think your brain reads things and reframes them before your conscious mind even knows what's up.

Anybody can socialize when it's natural.

You are absolutely hopeless, unless you do things that are socially uncomfortable, you will be sosuave's number one troll.

 

[davidcarr]

You're a troll

LMAO, you're a homeless crackhead. I don't know who's more pathetic, you or bigdave17.

 

[Soflobro#3]

LMAO, you're a homeless crackhead. I don't know who's more pathetic, you or bigdave17.

Haha you're a loser troll who has nothing better to do but troll a mens dating forum. Get a life f@ggot.

 

[davidcarr]

Haha you're a loser troll who has nothing better to do but troll a mens dating forum. Get a life f@ggot.

LOL, so yeah, you are a homeless crackhead. And mentally ill as well obviously. Homeless people are totally worthless. They're not even people.

 

[Fzatf]

It's surprisingly simple to lose a job and suddenly be unable to pay rent. Being homeless sucks, but it can be a temporary situation that a guy has to overcome. Dehumanizing a condition that affects thousands of people isn't fair to those that are trying their best to get out of it.

 

[davidcarr]

It's surprisingly simple to lose a job and suddenly be unable to pay rent. Being homeless sucks, but it can be a temporary situation that a guy has to overcome. Dehumanizing a condition that affects thousands of people isn't fair to those that are trying their best to get out of it.

You're right: you don't just become homeless all of a sudden. There's something called unemployment insurance where you have a bare minimum of six months where you have 24 hours a day of free time to look for a job. That's while collecting free income from the state.

What did that f@ggot sodumbbro do with his paycheck? He smoked crack! So yeah, I don't even consider anyone that dumb to be human.

 

[Soflobro#3]

You're right: you don't just become homeless all of a sudden. There's something called unemployment insurance where you have a bare minimum of six months where you have 24 hours a day of free time to look for a job. That's while collecting free income from the state.

What did that f@ggot sodumbbro do with his paycheck? He smoked crack! So yeah, I don't even consider anyone that dumb to be human.

You litterally come into a mens dating forum and lie about yout experiences. That's beyond pathetic. Get a life. Maybe get some pvssy and lose your virginity?

 

[davidcarr]

You litterally come into a mens dating forum and lie about yout experiences. That's beyond pathetic. Get a life. Maybe get some pvssy and lose your virginity?

LOL, you're a homeless crackhead who sucks d1cks for a living. I won't even think about how many diseases you carry. You're not even worth as much as a dog with rabies that needs to be put down.