All women are superficial

[MoMurda]

Did i spell that rioght, ah fuc it, I don't care bout **** any mo. *****es ain't **** but hos and tricks....

Doesn't seem that most fine women wouldn't consider even remotely getting intimate with a guy even if he is slightly over weight?

How can a girl give you her number, talk to u lots, ignore your sublte hints to fuc, TELL YOU that she has to get to know someone, then go fuc your best friend who she barley knows, all this on a night u asked her to come on over.

I don't know the answers, but thats what happend this last week. I know there are tons of women out there, but I have this thing were I like to get to know the girl a lil bit, but it seems that the very few(more like none) women I have known, all see me a s a friend(ahhh,no I got enough friends..) even if it is the second time i see them I drop hints, or say things, they either ignore me or go **** my best friend(don't know how much lonhger I can stand living with the *******.) It's l;ike I do all the work, then he claims to let me work them, but I guess he can't stand the fact that they gave me the number, so he says he will stay outta my ****IN way and let me get it.(ima bout to be 21 yr old VIRGIN,*oh joy*) I don't know what to do, are women really that mean?

 

[Quick]

Originally posted by MoMurda

I know there are tons of women out there, but I have this thing were I like to get to know the girl a lil bit

How's that working for you?

but it seems that the very few(more like none) women I have known, all see me a s a friend(ahhh,no I got enough friends..)

Oh, I see. Maybe you should stop running into the wall thinking that it'll eventually change into a doorway. Instead of getting mad at your friend, why don't you look at what he's doing right, and you're doing wrong. If they're ready to screw someone, it might as well be you. Instead of taking their word for it, do a steady progression of sexual advances until she stops you or you sense she's about to stop you. Girls will sleep with guys that are a little overweight, though if that's a problem for you, you should be doing something about it other than blaming them. Do you want an overweight girl? You talk about superficiality and use that as a shield, but I notice you said "most FINE women". Apparently you're just mad that they have as many standards as you.

And if you're rooming with someone that has better skills with women than you do, and tries to steal every girl that you bring home, you might want to find someone else to live with.

 

[SamePendo]

Ive seen really, reaaaaaaally overweight guys getting laid by 9.9 hbs.

Just hang in there man, dont give up.

 

[Dee-Zy]

ouch.

Read the first link in my post. U need it.

 

[MoMurda]

Re: Re: All women are superficial

Originally posted by Quick
How's that working for you?



Oh, I see. Maybe you should stop running into the wall thinking that it'll eventually change into a doorway. Instead of getting mad at your friend, why don't you look at what he's doing right, and you're doing wrong. If they're ready to screw someone, it might as well be you. Instead of taking their word for it, do a steady progression of sexual advances until she stops you or you sense she's about to stop you. Girls will sleep with guys that are a little overweight, though if that's a problem for you, you should be doing something about it other than blaming them. Do you want an overweight girl? You talk about superficiality and use that as a shield, but I notice you said "most FINE women". Apparently you're just mad that they have as many standards as you.

And if you're rooming with someone that has better skills with women than you do, and tries to steal every girl that you bring home, you might want to find someone else to live with.

IN REGARDS TO THE FAT THING, SHE HAD SOME EXTRA POUNDS ON HER LIKE, ME BUT FOR SOME REASON I FOUND IT SEXY AS HELL. YEAH I GOT PROBLEMS BUT WHO DOESN'T, THE QUIET PEOPLE, ARE THE CRAZIEST. yEAH BUT YOUR RIGHT ,I GOT A HEAD WITH NO SCREWS IN IT. THANK FOR BEING A GOOD SPORT.

 

[becker]

Re: Re: All women are superficial

Originally posted by Quick
How's that working for you?



Oh, I see. Maybe you should stop running into the wall thinking that it'll eventually change into a doorway. Instead of getting mad at your friend, why don't you look at what he's doing right, and you're doing wrong. If they're ready to screw someone, it might as well be you. Instead of taking their word for it, do a steady progression of sexual advances until she stops you or you sense she's about to stop you. Girls will sleep with guys that are a little overweight, though if that's a problem for you, you should be doing something about it other than blaming them. Do you want an overweight girl? You talk about superficiality and use that as a shield, but I notice you said "most FINE women". Apparently you're just mad that they have as many standards as you.

And if you're rooming with someone that has better skills with women than you do, and tries to steal every girl that you bring home, you might want to find someone else to live with.

Well put, I was going to say about the same thing. What I get from this thread is that MoMurda, it seems like you're trying to hard and coming off like a sex-starved wolf, and I'm sure girls can smell that a mile away. Unless you're romancing a prostitute, that stuff isn't going to work.

Perhaps your friend doesn't come off like that as much, I don't know. I also suggest you see what he's doing right. Is he the better looking of you two? Often that's at least an initial factor, and the only way you can counteract that is to have a better personality, but it seems like you're not playing your cards right.

SamePendo, I'd like to see those 9.9 HBs who are with the overweight guys. Sounds a little too much of a reach to me, but if it is true, great.

 

[MoMurda]

Re: Re: Re: All women are superficial

Originally posted by becker
Well put, I was going to say about the same thing. What I get from this thread is that MoMurda, it seems like you're trying to hard and coming off like a sex-starved wolf, and I'm sure girls can smell that a mile away. Unless you're romancing a prostitute, that stuff isn't going to work.

Perhaps your friend doesn't come off like that as much, I don't know. I also suggest you see what he's doing right. Is he the better looking of you two? Often that's at least an initial factor, and the only way you can counteract that is to have a better personality, but it seems like you're not playing your cards right.

SamePendo, I'd like to see those 9.9 HBs who are with the overweight guys. Sounds a little too much of a reach to me, but if it is true, great.

i GUESS, ACTULLAY FOR A GUY WHO GETS LAID OFTEN , HE IS THE ONE WHO ACTS LIKE A WOLF, I MEAN COME ON NOW, IF I HAVE GONE THIS LONG, AND HAVE SOME SENSE OF SELF CONTROL..HE IS TALLER AND STRONGER THAN ME, BUT I CAN STILL CHOIKE HIM OUT. PEOPLE WANT TO KNOW THE REAL ME, BUT THEY AIN'T GOT THE BALLZ OR MENTAL CAPACITY TO HANDLE IT.

 

[SeduceThyself]

try not to listen what a woman says, but what she does. often times women will give you mixed signals simply because she does not want to endure the feeling of guilt she may experience by rejecting you upfront. both you and i would agree that this would save time and rid you of frustration, it won't change.

you are in the "frustrated" stage of AFC. you will have to realize that people like you and i will never be models. but there ARE women who like us and who we can attract. turn it into a numbers game. here are your steps.

1) find a woman you like. talk to her.

2) read between the lines and find out what she really thinks - not what she tells you

3) if she likes you great. if not, ditch her and repeat step one until you are successful.

 

[becker]

To me, if you're looking for a girl who is just going to sleep with you, it's important that you don't come off as someone who is looking for it. Don't even bring sex into the conversation, and make her bring it up if anything. Be more patient and don't get too defensive if they don't pounce on you.

Personally, I'm not into the whole casual sex thing, but I've had girls practically throw themselves at me (they've asked me to stay over at their place, and all these innuendos). Every time, I have not been the one to even mention sex or even really carry on conversation about it. Actually, I was always avoiding the topic when it has happened, and just talking about other things (be sure it's C+F stuff).

Anyways, sometimes the least obvious approach is the most successful one. Keep in mind that girls don't want guys who have one thing on their mind. There are too many of those.

 

[Solomon79]

I don't want to sound mean here, but have you thought about trying to lose some weight? If it's your bone structure, fair enough, you may be limited in what you can do. But it feels GREAT to be slim and have your weight under control. Maybe if you give it a shot you can transform yourself.

Since it's getting you down so much, why not try it? It's the obvious solution. I have seen MAJOR, MAJOR transformations in people like you simply would not believe. You could be one, there may be nothing stopping you.

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Mo,

You are now entering the stage where you can change yourself. Start reading that bible like there's no tomorrow. Hit the gym _a lot_. Don't hold back. A couple of weeks and you'll be feeling better already.

Originally posted by Solomon79
If it's your bone structure, fair enough, you may be limited in what you can do.

Even then, there's no limit. Short'n'stocky, a bad combination, can still do ok - I'm 5'7 and 205lbs (14.5st) and quite slim. I'm a rugby player (which helps sometimes when chicks associate that with you too).

Osc.