princesimba
Don Juan
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- Apr 1, 2011
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I have a problem. Looking back at my past relationships or the girls i've really liked or found hot
Im beginning to realize a pattern.
1) Girl and me "clicked" with each other right away
2) Girl chases me like crazy (or hint like crazy)
3) After many dates i begin to like the girl (maybe even got together)
4) I develop oneitis and began to find it hard to talk naturally to the girl
5) Girl and i couldnt "click" anymore and she begans flaking/ignoring me
Now usually at this point i will sense something wrong, and began coming to sosuave/friends to
seek help.
6) I ignore the girl and improve myself (workout, meet other women)
7) After weeks or months of no contact, girl re-establishes contact and had high interest level due to me being better
8) However problem still exists and i still could not talk naturally to said girl
9) The fact that ive ignored the girl before just makes a normal conversation even more awkward
10) process would repeat itself until girl finds another guy
Yes i know ive been here for 2 years or so now but the truth is i dont come here often because
every single time i did, i just end up losing the girl.
Not to mention the advice you people give never worked for me. Im sorry but thats true.
Telling to me ignore girl never worked. Tricks/games never worked. f!@#ing other women never worked it
just makes you think of the girl you're having oneitis with even while having sex. ESPECIALLY TRUE if
these other girls are not as hot. It is against my moral values to date more than one woman at the same time (yes im religious)
I come from a more conservation asian country where women are not the complete b!tches you describe. They usually earn as much as men do and most even stay virgins until their wedding day. Something i realize is very rare in the west
If i am to be rejected, i want to be rejected for who i am. The guy these women reject is not me.
These women usually after a while will say things like "oh i just cant click with him anymore" or "He just became so arrogant" or "i find it weird to be around him"
Im currently at stage 9), the only thing that hasnt happened yet is 10)
I want to cure my problem once and for all. I want to improve myself, not rely on stupid tricks again.
I know you guys are not Pook, but im really desperate for help now. Just being extremely honest here, nothing held back
Im beginning to realize a pattern.
1) Girl and me "clicked" with each other right away
2) Girl chases me like crazy (or hint like crazy)
3) After many dates i begin to like the girl (maybe even got together)
4) I develop oneitis and began to find it hard to talk naturally to the girl
5) Girl and i couldnt "click" anymore and she begans flaking/ignoring me
Now usually at this point i will sense something wrong, and began coming to sosuave/friends to
seek help.
6) I ignore the girl and improve myself (workout, meet other women)
7) After weeks or months of no contact, girl re-establishes contact and had high interest level due to me being better
8) However problem still exists and i still could not talk naturally to said girl
9) The fact that ive ignored the girl before just makes a normal conversation even more awkward
10) process would repeat itself until girl finds another guy
Yes i know ive been here for 2 years or so now but the truth is i dont come here often because
every single time i did, i just end up losing the girl.
Not to mention the advice you people give never worked for me. Im sorry but thats true.
Telling to me ignore girl never worked. Tricks/games never worked. f!@#ing other women never worked it
just makes you think of the girl you're having oneitis with even while having sex. ESPECIALLY TRUE if
these other girls are not as hot. It is against my moral values to date more than one woman at the same time (yes im religious)
I come from a more conservation asian country where women are not the complete b!tches you describe. They usually earn as much as men do and most even stay virgins until their wedding day. Something i realize is very rare in the west
If i am to be rejected, i want to be rejected for who i am. The guy these women reject is not me.
These women usually after a while will say things like "oh i just cant click with him anymore" or "He just became so arrogant" or "i find it weird to be around him"
Im currently at stage 9), the only thing that hasnt happened yet is 10)
I want to cure my problem once and for all. I want to improve myself, not rely on stupid tricks again.
I know you guys are not Pook, but im really desperate for help now. Just being extremely honest here, nothing held back
